Hey every one I'm Megan and I'm 16.I like to just hang, relax, and of course go shopping! Like any other teenager I have to put up with alot of drama and what not so I can relate to just about every one. I figured I'd start an advice column i guess because I like giving out advice!
E-mail: m_marie88@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
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Age: 16
AIM: MissMeganMarie63
Member Since: December 2, 2004
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Hi megan i was jus umm wondering...wut color underwear is the best to wear. I heard that if u have tan skin to wear light pinks and all..i jus want to know cuz i want to wear the right color for when i bend over n people can see my panties
Love always
Pantygirl (link)
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I would say go with the lighter colors or something lacey and see threw. Make sure you get those low cut ones so they don't stick out to bad! lol
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Um yeah im gay and my family is VERY catholic and only a few of my friends know. My parents are very against homosexuality what do i do? i dont want to lose my family and i know my dad wont agree im jus so scared
~love always
in the closet (link)
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Dear In the Closet,
Your family will love you NO matter what. Sit them down some day and tell it to them lightly. You might not like there reation at first but they'll come to realize ur sexuallity doesn't change who you are and thats why they love you. Your dad might be upset at first but your still his son! Good Luck adn tell me how it goes when you break the new!!
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My friend always cuts himself on his wrists and throat n evrything.. i always try talking to him and he say's he'll stop.. but he keeps doing it and cutting himself more. I don't know what els to do..if he has nobody to talk to he might kill himself..but what can i say that he might actually listen to!? (link)
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You seriously need to tell some one. And you should tell him that when ever he has a problem that he can always come to you for help. I know some one who used to do stupid stuff like that for attention and maybe thats why he's doing it...maybe he jsut needs some one there for him....and maybe your that someone.
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My realy good friend went out with this boy but he broke up with her in three days. I've liked him since we were introduced (by my friend). My boyfriend of two months just broke up with me and the first person i thought about was my friends ex. im not looking for a rebound guy. i asked my friend and she says its ok and shes happy for me. Her ex already nos i like him. am i low? what else can i do? (link)
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Friends are more important then boyfriends. I no from personal expiriece that shes probably secretly mad. I wouldn't risk a friendship for a guy.
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I've never really been shy around guys but theres one that i like now but and really shy towards. he nos i like him but i just got my heart broke so could that be why im afrid to talk to him? (link)
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Thats probably the main reason why your shy around this guy. But hey not every guy is a loser and breaks girls hearts. Ask him to hang out and see where it goes!! Good Luck
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For some reason this is long, I don't know why, but it's longer than it needs to be. I know this isn't totally asking for advice, but I'm 14/f/nc, and this year our cul-de-sac's Christmas party is going to include of a secret santa. My neighbors dad is playing santa, and each one of the children (everyone under 18) had to draw names out of a hat to choose who they'll be buying their gifts for. Well, I got my little neighbor, she's 4, and I was wondering, what types of things would a 4 year old want. I am babysitting for her on the 4th and 5th, so I'll probably ask her, but I'm grounded this weekend for cutting class, and me and some friends are going to the mall on Friday(tomorrow, I only get grounded on weekends, not on weekdays) So that's the only time I'll have to go, otherwise I'll have to wait until we go grocery shopping, because I'm grounded for the next two weekends for cutting class (not going to my 4th period, I got caught the last 5 minutes of school... so close yet so far away...) Any suggestions will be appreciated... and if you want to leave rude advice, make it funny! (link)
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I have a 4 year old cousin and she LOVES my littleponys tuff and care bears are suposed to be really in right now. But remember she only 4 so try to avoid really little things. Plus Target has really good prices on kid toys.
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Okay, about two weeks ago, I told one of my really close guy friends that I liked him. I thought I did because I knew he liked me ALOT too.. He would do anything for me, etc, so I thought that I liked him too. So I told him. But now Im seeing that I really dont have those kind of feelings for him at all. I feel horrible because he seems so happy now because he thinks I like him back... I dont know what to do :-/ I really dont want to talk to him about it because its really messed up.. any advice on how to handle it without talking to him? Thanks in advice. (link)
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I used to have those kinds of problems. One way to tell him you rather be friends JUST friends is through the internet or something liek that. And you can just tell him that you don't want to ruin you guy's friendship and your happier as just friends and stuff like and tell him that you love him more asjust a friend. Good Luck
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i am 16 .. and a girl.. My ex boyfriend and i were together for a year and a half. we broke up 5 months ago and im not over him. we never really talk but recently we hung out and i still like him but he "says" he doesnt like me like that. how do i get over him or what could i do to get back together with him or atleast hang out one on one? (link)
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Trust me I know how hard it is to get over some one. And theres nothing really that you can do to get him to talk to you agian...guys are stubborn (we all know that) You should get back out there and look for some one new. One day he'll come running back to you and by then you won't want him and he'll be the one hurting. Good Luck
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i put a crap load of deoderant on every day before i go to school. i'm never hot or anything, but i always sweat in my arm pits, and i don't know how to cover it up. i can't wear a sweatshirt anymore, i get even hotter and it feels more gross. i don't know what to do! somebody help! (link)
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One of my old friends used to have the same problem adn she used to hate having to wear sweat shirts all the time. One good way of getting rid of it is by going to the Doctor. They can give you a type of deodarent that reduces sweatting plus you can always look up on the internet ways to reduce sweating. I once heard that by eating lots of fruit can help you from sweating alot. I haven't tried it but you should.
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ok me and my boyfriend love eachother alot but hes the jealouse type. i mean he doesnt have a fit but like when i talk to a guy he gets jealous. like ok today me and my guy friend zak were talking about how zzk was looking at my butt at lunch but it was a total joke we were just playing around but my bf came up behind us and heard and started pushing and hitting zak. and i have talked to him and told him im nto flirting but he still refuses to listen. like and its hard cause most of my bff's are guys. what should i do cause i cant take the pressure of not being able to talk to my bffs and having to hide when i do. i mean i love him and i cant break up with him and i know if he really liked me and trusted me then he wouldnt worry but he trust me i know its just hes jealouse and i cant take not talking to my freidns cause of him. what should i do? (link)
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To me this sounds like a trust issue. He shouldn't be jelious of other guys for talking to you. Sit him down and have a talk with him letting him know how much you love and care about him and tell him he has NOTHING to worry about and tell him he needs to change his ways about that. And that your not really flirting with your guy friends your just having fun and that he should understand that. And remember you friends are ALWAYS going to be there for you and sometimes a boyfriend isnt.
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Hi, I have a few dark freckles on my face that I would like to hide. Do you know of anything that would cover them up well? Thank you in advance. (link)
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I have a couple dark freckles on my face to. One way to make them look a little light is by using Cover Girl Clean Makeup then over top of that put on a compact. If they bother you that bad you can get them removed but trust me they look kinda ugly while there healing lol
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I just moved to a new school and I'm finding it really hard to make some friends (i'm in 9th). and it just gets really lonley on the weekends because I don't like do anything. And my friends from my old school, I don't talk to them anymore. I don't know if there is any advice you can give me (besides that whole join a sport because I am doing a sport in the spring) and join a club because I am already in some and they arent very helpful with meeting people. Any advice?? (link)
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It's always hard to make friends in a new school. One way to get to know people is just my talking to them. Like in one of your classes just start talking to some one and if they seem intersted in you then ask them if they wanna go to the movies or something. In a way it seems kind of psycho but trust me you'll make some friends!
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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!? (link)
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Tell them to mind there own business and try to ignore what they have to say, The worst kind of poeple are people who make fun of someones sexuality. And if your brothers happy being the way he is then more power to him especially if hes going to come out in the open with it b/c its hard for some poeple to do that.
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i've been together with this guy for about 4 months. every time he comes over, he's looking to get some ((if you know what i'm sayin')).. if and when i do something, he goes off and flirts with another girl in front of me the next day. a month ago, me and this guy got into a fight, and he wanted to go and be with a girl i really don't like.. and he ended up staying with me. last night, we got into another fight. and he said he was close to leaving me, and the only reason he didn't leave me is because the other girl didn't want to. and my friend told me the girl likes him now, and they were flirting and stuff during lunch today, and he acts like nothings wrong. i'm afraid to talk to him because i'm afraid hes going to hurt me..! (he likes to threaten people) please help me! i don't know what to do/say to him. (link)
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Tell him thats your way to good for someone like him. You shouldn't have to put up with that and you shouldn't have to be with some one that your scared of. Believe me one day he'll realize what he had with you and he'll be the one hurting. He sounds like a major loser. Theres more fish in the sea..you just have to go fishing thats all.
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There was a kid in our school who was 14 and he died. Many Ppl knew him so our school has this big assembly, we didn't have to go to class for weeks, we didn't have to do any work or anything like that. 6 months after that when one of my Verry close friends died, it was like the teachers and schoolboard didn't even care. My mom told them my friend and i were upset that there was nothing for him..no assembly..and a ton of work. it wasnt fair.. They told my mom they weren't going to do anything because "nobody signed a sign we made" but 100's of kids signed it! its bullshit! and its not fair.. what can i say to the school people to make them at least have an optinal assembly! (link)
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Im sorry you had to go through having one of your friends passing away. But if your schools going to have assemblies and everything for one person then they should for another. You and a bunch of your friends should go to your principle and say something about it. Be heard. And DON'T take no for an answer.
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I'm sorry if this is a little long...
There are three of us, me and my two friends that I'm going to call Keri and Amber.
The last few months Keri and Amber always are partners with each other for everything and leave me out, they never wait for me, and then always ignore me in many of the classes we have together. I took half an hour to tell Kari how I felt about it on the phone last night and today Amber came up to me and asked me why I was mad at them. I got really angry because I spent half an hour explaining why I was upset, and then she says to only remembers half of it, and I started yelling at her, because it doesn't seem like she cares about how I feel.
My question is what should I do about it, and am I overracting about it?
Thanks (link)
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Try talking about it with her agian. And its not like a good friend not to care. Maybe there going through something together and they dont thinkyou'll understand thats why there spending so much time together. You should have a sleep over or something like were all 3 of you's can hang out and talk.
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yah i really dont know what to do anymore i swear my boyfriend is going nuts on me. just because i dont tell him what is wrong. i mean i cant tell him my feelings he has to go all pyscho on me. i dont like it i dont know what to do. plz help me. (link)
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Tell him you can keep somethings to yourself. If theres stuff on your mind about him then you should let him know instead of keeping it all bottled up.
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Can you get pregnant from pre-cum? (link)
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Theres a good chanse on it. What are you doing having unsafe sex! lol make sure he wraps that stud before he humps!
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i have a friend who cuts, she hasnt since the summer but today she came into shcool and told me one of my other really good friends and one of her really good friends and made us sweare we wouldnt tell anyone or shed kill us type of thing.....the whole thing is me and my friend dont know exactly how we should help her we know she wants the help but we cant figure out how to...is there anyone with any experience with this that has any sugestions that worked? were all really confsued as to how to solve this and we know that we cant force her to get help but sugest it and jsut be there for her and tlak to her but there has to be somthing more we can do (link)
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Talk to her and tell her that you and her other friends care about her to much to see her do this type on thing to herself. You can also go to a giudence counsiler but don't give her name up. They always have good advice on situations like this. Just try to be there for her and try not to act weird around her b/c then she'll feel weird know what i mean? But just try to be there for her.
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oK..I'm 13 5'4 and about 98 pounds..I used to be skinny and stuff but now I'm starting to get a big belly. I run and do situps and drink water and try to eat healthy and everything, but I starting to get larger than I should be. Any ideas on how to keep a flat stomache and stop gaining to much more because I used to see myself good now Im huge. sorry if thats kinda long.
~please help (link)
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Keep eating healthy and working out. You can also drink things with green tea in it because that speeds up your mutabilisism. You can also try things like the Adkins Diet and the South Beach diet. Go buy some books on it or search the internet for some good diets that will let you loose weight in a healthy way.
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