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I met a boy in my class we are realy close and I do not know if he likes me or not> HELP

Just take it slow, see if he flirts with you.. like he always talks to you, always looks, laughs and smiles. Tries to go out of his way to make you smile and laugh.. These are clues and signs that a guy likes you, but you can always be the straight forward one..and just bluntly ask him if he likes you as more than a friend or not. Guys tend to sometimes like a girl who can be straight forward and wear pants like that. It's pretty demanding and a turn on. :)

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hey guys, my dream is to be a paramedic,and i dont know what to study. i have no guide what so ever from my parents, because they never went to school. And im the first one to go to college im exited. but i dont know what classes i should take in college. or what to study...is it nursing? i really dont know..help me please..its my dream to be a paramedic and i really want to succeed. THANK YOU ALL
Oh and i live in Virginia, USA!! :D

Well you have not stated what college you are looking at to going to, but I would recommend speaking to a college advisor about classes.

At my school we have an Emergency Medical Care classes, along with Safety, First Aid and CPR.

I would check with a college advisor, or give me the name of your local community college and I can search for you.

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Well to start off with I'm 14 years old and I'm a girl, and I've had about 4 boyfriends in my life, the last time I kissed I was in primary school (10 years old) but it wasn't a proper kiss, because we got dared to do it, that's the only time in my life I have faced my fears and kissed someone, but I was a child what was I meant to know? Well now I've had this boyfriend for 2.5 years and all I've done is hugged him once or twice, and its really awquard, he's kissed lots of times, and he's had intimacy with another girl, but I can't even kiss him so I feel so stupid >.< We haven't even held hands, and we hardly speak face to face, but the thing is I fell in love with him, and and that makes it even harder! Well its been like this with every relationship I'm in, I'm too shy I just can't bring myself to get close the someone EVER! Help please !!! From Lauren,x

Your only 14, slow down.. Do you want to look down the road..and think how much baggage you have in relationships.. How many people you have been with and what you have done..

I will say this.. my first kiss.. was a dare as well.. except I was 15.. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19, that's when I had my first real kiss.. am I ashamed? No. I have morals and respect.. I don't want to look back when I'm 25..and see how many guys I have been with and how many lips I have kissed.. I want to look back..at how many I valued.. and how many were actually worth it. Personally I think 14 is too young to have a boyfriend for 2.5 years.. it seems to me that you are pushing yourself to be in a relationship that you are not ready for. I had friends at 14, who acted the same way you act now.. and 5 years later, as time matured so did they.. don't rush.. slow down.. you're only 14 once. :)

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Why do I throw up when I'm on my period?

I have to agree with smileydino.

All throughout high school.. and even now.. I still throw up when I get my period. My doctor put me on birth control for that reason (and I did not abuse it just to have sex because I was on it.) The birth control helped me a lot, but I came off of it recently to battle out the pain a tad bit more. If you go this option, try to come off of it after 2-3 years...that way your body does not become resistant to the birth control.

Hope I helped.. if you need anything else, don't hesitate to ask. ;D

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Ok so like I haven't pooped in like.....4 days....is that normal and when does it become NOT good. Is that when you haven't in 8 days or something. Just curious. I know this is totally TMI and everything but uh...I usually poop 4 days apart. I just wanted to know.

3-4 days is too long. It can back up in your system and you can die... not to be all graphic and what not.

You can possibly have a fiber issue, try eating fibery foods. (Actually look at the ingredients in the food). As well as I would go see a doctor about this issue.

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Hi everyone!

Okay yesterday was my 16th birthday party. And my boyfriend that i love so much came and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. And i was kinda wondering if that was a move. Lets just say im not good at relationship right now. I kinda need help to the next step. And its NOT SEX. But any advice will be good thanks.

You're young.. don't rush it.. take it slow.

You haven't mentioned what you have done, which I guess isn't much.. how long have you been together? This kiss on the cheek is a move if he hasn't kissed you on the cheek before.. or even at all..

Can you give me detail in order for accurate advice you are looking for. Thanks :)

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How long does it take a man to cum during sex

It depends on the guy, and the woman he is with.. and how he feels about her.. and what position is currently happening, as well as how well the sex is..

These are all factors..and it depends on the guy. I have been in experiences where I could get my ex off in 2 seconds of intercourse..or an hour later.. it all depends.

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Ok I am gonn buy a b day presant for my best friend/sister and I am gonna buy her neon nail polish cuz she loves nail polish, but the thing is I looked everwere cvs, walmart, walgreens, drugmart, Kmart, Target so on and so fourth and found nothing. I want to get her O.P.I or Nicole by O.P.I but I just cant fine any neon colors by them. I do not want Sally Hanson because for me it just dosnt work. I really want O.P.I or Nicole by O.P.I. I would really appreciate it if you can give me some places around my area so I can go to there website and cheack them out.

I would also really like to have a set of the nail polish like a 8 pack or so.

P.S. I live in Cleveland Ohio and my zip code is 44111.

Thanks

It's funny you mentioned walmart and target because the ones by me have them..and I'm on Long Island.

Anyways.. I did a little research to see if you can purchase them online.. and I found a page of stores that carrier Nicole by O.P.I. if anything go to your local walmart and target and ask the cosmetics manager if she carries it.

This is the site: http://www.nicolebyopi.com/where-to-buy-nicole

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Me and my Boyfriend were fooling around the other day, he was humping me with nothing on, i had on my underwear though. Then he came on my panties, and he said alot got on his shirt. Then after he started freaking out & got all scared and mad. Can i get pregnant ?

In order to become pregnant, it has to touch your actual vaginal skin, if that did not occur.. then you should be fine.

Though we are no doctors and we can not tell you if your pregnant.. only a test and/or a doctor could tell you.

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Okaaay , so i am 15 years oldd. I live in Floridaa . I have been with my Boyfriendd for a year & i cant figure out the Law for thiss. If you are Dating & both parents knoe & agree is it still consdered Illegall ?!

It's still considered illegal being your under the age of 18, while he is 18. It can be considered pedophilia and rape.

Having the parents agreeing just means you can't press charges against him later on if you decide to break up and things end badly.

My suggestion is to cut all sexual affairs with him til the time being, it is wrong to do so. At the age your at and the age he is at..it does not look right.

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I went to my first school dance tonight (I'm thirteen) and I HATED every minute. I felt ugly and worthless because I didn't dance for the entire time. If you didn't have a date, it was pointless being there. Everyone else was slow dancing with their girlfriend/boyfriend and I just watched. I was really mad because my crush was dancing with the most popular girl in school. I just called my mom to come pick me up. I just cried for an hour when I got home. I hate Valentine's Day too, because I've never gotten a valentine before. I was never invited to birthday parties either. Should I just give up on my social life?

Your only thirteen, calm down. It's going to be okay. Not everyone gets to have the life they see everyone having. I am 21, I never had a boyfriend for Christmas, Valentine's Day, or my birthday. Or even a date for both my Junior and my Senior Prom.

Does it suck? Yes.
Am I jealous and hurt by it? Yes.
Is it the end of the world? No. Because I know down the road there is a guy who knows I'm worth every penny he spends on me and won't break up with me for 3 months where Christmas, Valentine's and my birthday fall.

You are only 13.. don't try to grow up so fast just because you don't have a date or someone there, while you feel the rest of the world is having the time of their life.

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Why do guys get boners?

Guys get a boner, same as a woman gets "wet".

It's their way of getting turned on. The blood vessels in the penis become erected, causing a boner.

Guys can also get boners from waking up in the morning or just being a natural state of comfort that can turn them on, it doesn't always have to be a physical or sexual turn on.

The drawback of being a guy, it can easily be shown in tight fitted clothing..as for a woman, they can hide it fairly easily.

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A little over a month ago I blocked this guy from texting/calling me from the Verizon website.
The block will expire in a couple months. I was just wondering if when the block expires, will I get all the text he's tried to send to me after I blocked him?


You know like when you turn your cell phone off for some time and when you turn it on you suddenly get all the texts that were sent to you while your phone was off?

Just curious. Thanks in advance!

You won't receive any of the texts or voicemails. If you want to be 100% sure just call verizon.

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Im 13 and i want to dye my hair black and hot pink. But my parents say im not old enough. I think its soooooooooooo unfair. What do you think?

Rules are rules, everyone is different. I didn't get to start dying my hair until I was 14.. Remember your still a baby to them, I still wish I was that age.. where life seemed to had no problems, give it time.. don't push it on them constantly.. let them adjust that their child is starting to grow up into a teenage.

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Should i take digital photography? Im 13, female, and dig. photos is one of my electives. is it fun? should i take that or play violin in band?

I am a photography major, I have been interested in it since I was 14 and seven years later I haven't stopped yet. Follow your heart and do what you enjoy.

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me and my best friend (girl) we kissed im single but shes not, so we asked her boy if it was okay if two girls kissed and he said it was hot, and he asked if me and her had kissed, we said no. we lied to him...and now me and her would be kissing all the times. at school, her house, at the bus, basically every time we are alone. I don't think i mind but, the thing is that before i kissed her i kinda use to like girls, and guy too..but now I'm afraid shes bi, because shes my best-friend; i told her that this could ruin our friendship, but she said it wouldn't. oh and she also told me i cant go around kissing other girls...just guys...
I'm 16 and we live in Texas... okay thanks. =)
.:. should i stop? or just keep going? thank you

She can't tell you who you can and can not kiss. If you want to kiss girls your allowed to kiss them.
As for your friendship with her, this kissing could ruin the friendship if one person starts to like the other one more than a friend. Being that she has a boyfriend, and she is kissing you when you guys are alone..she is technically cheating on him without realizing, being that he is not aware of this.

My advice is to stop the kissing before it starts to become more than that, unless she breaks up with her boyfriend for you. Also tell her that she can't tell you who you can and can not kiss.

I hope I helped, if you need anything else feel free to drop one in the inbox. :)

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17/F
The other night I had this strange dream and I'm wondering if anybody can maybe tell me what it could mean?

Now recently I've been craving Ritas Ice Pumpkin Pie. So the other night I had a dream that school has just finished (I dropped out back in May) and I walked out and up to a friend of mine (An old best friend who I have no desire to purse more then an in-school friendship with anymore) and asked her if she would go to Ritas with me. She says yes and then she calls her mom and asks for $30 (An Incee would be a maximum of $3) We're suddenly at the bottom of an EXTREMELY steep and long dirt hill. So steep it was almost straight up. My friend gets up the hill and into her house easily, while ocassionally turning around and telling me to hurry up. But I'm still basically at the bottom of the hill because I either keep falling off, or it's just way too steep and I'm having trouble climbing it.

Then I woke up when I was a couple feet up the hill. It seems a little silly, but the dream just stuck out to me for some reason. I remember it perfectly, even after a few days.

It could mean a few things,

1- Your subconscious could be saying that you wish you didn't drop out of school.

2- You could be missing your old friend even if you know in reality you have no desire (I have these types all the time).

3- The hill looks like a blockade, that there is something in the way for getting what you want.

I don't know anything about your life or who you are besides what you had just told me, try not to overly think about it.

If you need anything else, feel free to drop me one in the inbox, and I'll try to help the best I can :)

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Thank you

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I really like this guy hes 11 and im 11 i asked him out and he said maybe im not sure if he has liked me in the past but he said will answer me at the up comming dance should i worry i just really wanna know what does maybe mean in a guys language

At 11, it could mean many things.
And at 11 you shouldn't be worrying about these things, because your only 11. Don't try to grow up so fast just because you like a boy.


Also you shouldn't be on this site being your under 13 to begin with.

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