If a man is quick on the trigger, so to speak, he can masturbate or you can give him oral or a handjob to ejaculation before sex, which will help him last longer when he gets it back up again and can engage in penetration. While he is waiting to firm up again, he can give his partner plenty of foreplay.
Also, the best strategy from a mental perspective for a man to defer orgasm is to just clear his mind, let his muscles go limp rather than trying to think of things other than how good the sex feels (anything one tries to suppress will express itself at the soonest possible instant) and just become a kind of penis pumping machine. Then once he has gotten his partner off, he can switch his brain back on and get off himself. This works for me. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
LostAngel answered Sunday October 23 2011, 5:25 pm: It depends on the guy, and the woman he is with.. and how he feels about her.. and what position is currently happening, as well as how well the sex is..
These are all factors..and it depends on the guy. I have been in experiences where I could get my ex off in 2 seconds of intercourse..or an hour later.. it all depends. [ LostAngel's advice column | Ask LostAngel A Question ]
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