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I am 12 and a half and 4 weeks ago I hooked up with a boy named Luke and I really like him. Although I am supposed to go out with him I am really scared because when my mum will pick me up if she sees him, that she will abandon me from seeing him. I am scared to tell her that I have a boyfriend because I am scared that she wont allow me to see him. Please help! (link)
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Casually ask your mom if she thinks girls at your age should have boyfriends.
Slip in the benefits of having a boyfriend while your talking to her.
Then say something about liking this guy,Luke ((ONLY IF HER RESPONSE TORWARDS YOU HAVING A BOYFRIEND IS POSITIVE!!!))
If thats the case,tell her he asked you out.
Drop me a letter in my inbox if you need any more help.
~Long Lost
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Ok well, im skinny. But my arms have like a flab where my muscle should be. You know the part under your shoulder. Well I was just wondering how I could get that to go away? Cause it really bothers me like when i move it jiggles (gross I know!). Also when I put my arms down to my side it like flattens out and makes my arm look big and fat. So i was just wondering how I could get that to go away!! Thanks to the people who arn't jerks about it. I'll rate.
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I do 50 pushups every day...its not as hard as you think...just do 10 every time a commercial break comes on.
Also,lifting small weights helps.If you hold a weight in each hand and let your arms hang at your hips,then lift both your arms straight up until they reach about your shoulders is a great workout for getting rid of unwanted flab.
~Long Lost
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what are some signs of depression? (link)
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-Thoughts of death/suicide
-Drawing morbid images/writing dark poetry etc.
-Frequent sadness and crying etc
-not much energy/fatigue
-less pleasure in doing what you used to love
-lots o' boredom
-isolation
-bad communicating skills
-just feeling sucky...
-increased irritability,anger,annoyance etc
-frequent headaches and stomachaches
-lack of concentration
-weight loss
-change in sleeping patterns
If you ever need to talk to somone while feeling depressed:
AIM: AFI Demon Angel
~Long Lost
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OK...
My friend has been seeing her boyfriend for just over a month now. For two weeks they didn't even hold hands, they were so shy, but all of a sudden they kissed in the cinema and suddenly they are 'so in love' and on the same day as they kissed, they went to third base.
Last week, they had sex (in the WOODS!) and my friend is pretty sure she is pregnant. However, she is sayign she is 'bored' of her boyfriend and wants to 'move on'. I'm sorry but this is so stupid!! You don't sleep with someone you're 'bored' of and never really liked in the first place!!
She also wants an abortion.
First of all, I am angry at her for the whole 'oh I'm bored with you let's shag!' thing. I am also REALLY angry with her about the abortion because I am really against abortion in about 90% of cases, this one included. She wants to kill her own baby because she thinks she'll get 'bored' with it too, and because she made a mistake. She is 'making up' for that mistake with murder.
Now, I'm her friend and I am SUPPOSED to stand by her whatever, but this puts me in a HUGE dilemma because I do not agree with what she's done and what she is planning to do (split up with her boyfriend, have an abortion, not ever tell him she got pregnant). I'm really really angry at her right now and I can't talk to her, but I know she really needs my support at a time like this. How can I push my anger aside, how can I ignore my own stance on abortion and help her?
I need to stand by her...she needs all the love and support she can get, even though she doesn't deserve it. I was very tempted to slap her and run off when I found out but I realised that it's not my place to forgive or condone or accept or hate what she is doing, just to be there for her.
Please help...how can I get over my anger and resentment at what she is doing and be there for her? And don't just say 'talk to her' - if you have to, help me out on what to say!
Thanks for any help and sorry for the length. (link)
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Tell her how you feel about abortion,and maybe even that she needs to be more responsible and stick through things ((ex: relationships)).
Ask her if she could talk with her ex/future ex about what has happened.
Ask her if she really thinks shes pregnate,get her to take a pregnancy test just in case. ((I recommend testing a few times over a two week span)).
If it turns out No,good...hope shes learned a lesson or moral?
If it turns out yes,tell her eveything you know about abortion.The bad and good((if theres such a thing)) things about it.Get her info.
Hope things turn out well,
~Long Lost
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What is something that you would have at ur house so get rid of a pimple FAST? (link)
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I use this answer so much...
PROACTIV
also clearasil spot treatment
~Long Lost
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I don't know if this is the right column for this or not, But if it isn't please forgive me.
Okay, I am a 14-year old african american female. I am nicely shaped and everything, okay, I haven't ever had problems with my skin, I guess I was just blessed, but now I see that I am getting blemishes and breaking out, can someone help me? Like some old remedies or something not something That will make my face have spots but just something to clear it up by next week. Thank you and I do rate high. (link)
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Proactiv
:)
~Long Lost
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I was wondering if you guys could recommend anything for getting rid of dry skin, oily skin, and acne. (link)
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PROACTIV
:)
~Long Lost
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Hi my name is jess my sister was going out with this kid named rob and they just broke. Well until after they broke she found out he was one of those stalker people. Today he broke into my house and my sister and i locked ourselves in my moms room and he kept banging on the door so my sis called the police. Well they came and caught hijm and we didnt press charges but they said if he steps one foot on this property again he will be arrested. i was crying when this happened cause i was afraid he had a weapon. Im really afarid he will do this agin. How can i get over this really scary moment im scared ut of my pants right now?
plz hurry love jess (link)
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Ah,another Jess...It would be my honor to help.
First,I suggest you get a security system for your house.
Maybe even a gaurd dog or two..one in the house and one outside.
Always keep all windows locked.
Lock all doors at night.
Keep a weapon (ex: bat,mace/pepper spray,even a gun for your parents) in your room and near doors.Also you can carry a small blade and pepper spray in your purse.
Take martial arts lessons...they make you stronger,more confident and prepared.
Hope I helped,Jess
~Long Lost
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Hi, I'm 13/f and i weigh 136.5 lbs. I kno im overweight and i need 2 kno what i can do 2 help me loose weight. I cant really run a far distance without my knee or mi ankle starting 2 hurt.. So, is there any way I can loose weight without running??? Pleeze help! (link)
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walking is one of the most under-rated fat-burning excersises.
do sit ups/crunches during commercial breaks.
~Long Lost
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alright well there is this guy jeff who i used to date. after a bad break up we became really close friends, we told eachother everything and always laughed and had fun together. well he started talkin to my like everyday about a differant girl he liked, and honestly i didn't mind that much. i even gave him advice on rlationships, good advice. but if i said one word about a guy he always got mad and aggrivated. then one day he told me he liked me alot and would love to be my gf, so later on i asked him out. he said "i love you so much i can't stand a break up so friends with benefits???" well that was lame so i said no, just friends. then he got mad because he said i told him i liked him then asked to be just friends.... even though he did the exact same thing. well we forgave and forgot and he started talking about another girl and he asked who i would probably date because he heard that i liked some guy from my friend. i told him that i liked josh and he asked me out and i said yes.... jeff got mad and started calling me all these names and being so rude! i told him he was a selfish emotional loser... harsh but i was mad. then we forgave eachother and he said i love you i am sorry. now he is being really mean to me, always getting mad over nothing and if i get mad back he sucks up to me. so i told him that i was done with him, and we should just never talk again. after hearing him sob for a while i am beginning to think that i am the bitch? am i the mean one, or is he out of line?
p.s. im 14 f (link)
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I believe this Jeff guy is the one out of line.
You did what you had to.
~Long Lost
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ok.. i get my braces off soon (august) and i was wondering if anyone knows any good products to whiten your teeth??? i checked my dentist but the lazer treatment is 500$ and not including the stuff you have to keep putting on your teeth every so often.i just want something cheap and easy to start out with. Thanks!!! (link)
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Personally,every once in a while I just stand in my bathroom and go on a whitening rampage....
Brushing alot,flossing inbetween each tooth,using tons of mouth wash...etc...
You could do this every few days...
You can also use Crest White Strips...they're a little foamy and sticky...so just don't lick them!
~Long Lost Heart
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okay, so i can figure out what this says.
YO AMOR USTED
ive tried to translate it, but it doesnt work. so i was wondering if anyone could find out, and let me know. I RATE HIGH! (link)
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YO=I
AMOR=love
USTED=them/him/her.
~Long Lost
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My friend Jane has a mom, and Jane is dating a spanish boy, and her mom says she has nothing against Spanish people, but her mom isn't allowing her to date Jane's bf! What is her point? (link)
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Maybe shes heard bad things about this boy?
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I grew up in a christian home. I'm almost 18 and still everything in my life is God this God that. I believe in him but that doesn't make my problems go away. I'm always crying, have the blues, feel alone, feel anger, sad, somedays I just don't feel like doing anything but lay around. But everytime I try to show to my parents that I have a problem I get God shoved in my face. Sometimes I just want to run away from home...but I know that won't solve anything. What should I do? If I stick around home anylonger I'm afraid that I'll do something to myself again. (link)
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That sounds like me...except your older.
God works on the little things in life,I believe.
Just think about how much better you have it than orphans in third world countries...
Your 18,so why don't you go to college?...or rent an apartment?Socialize a little more?
Hope I have helped in some way
~Long Lost
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Hey. Well, I was wondering where do people get those pins that they put on their bags because I want some. Also, I would like to know if they are expensive or not...how much do they cost? Thanks! (link)
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At Hot Topic they have band pins and pins with sayings on them.
They range from small-large and are $1.50 each..atleast here.
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i got my period for the first time thursday night and today is saturday.. it was like kinda heavy up until friday night..is that supposed to happen? cuz like now its like i didn't even have my period because its barely coming out..someone please help me and tell me if this is normal (link)
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This is normal...it happends to me sometimes...
Unfortunantly...I'm a heavy bleeder and bleed heavily for about 90% of my period then it barely comes out...so its normal.
~Long Lost
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Hey... ANOTHER field hockey question... well since i hope to try out for the team next year at school which starts in like 2 months I want to get in shape. I was wondering what i can do to be in shape and at my best when playing the sport.. i was thinking maybe swimming laps in my pool.. or i dont really know.. anyone who has any tips i dont care what sport you play but a field hockey player mite help more.. idk ... thxx! (link)
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Swimming is a great way to tone up.
Do 50 pushups and 50 situps each day and eat healthily ((ex: only have dessert every other day))
If you want to have fun,put on your favorite CD or turn to your favorite radio station and just start dancing...try that everyday.
Walking is one of the most underestimated fat burning excerises,by the way.
~Long Lost
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Im wondering if my period should be coming soon. I've done some reading and I found out that I have most of the "signals" *Pubic hair, boobs are growing, growth spurt, underarm hair, discharge etc.* But its been this way for almost a month and nothing coming? Should it be coming soon? *Btw im 13* (link)
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Yes,more than likely.If it dosn't come in a few months,talk to your doctor.
~Long Lost
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Im 14 year old girl, and my friends are the same age, I went to the beach for a week this past week and my best friend, we'll call her, Jess *hold that thought* I also played volleyball this season and made some great friends and I went to hang out with them and invited Jess. but since I went away for the week. Jess has pretty much taken my place. My friends dont even think about calling me to do stuff... they call Jess, its like. she stole my friends. and shes taken my place in every aspect. I dont remember the last time any of them called to see what i was doing.
I want my friends back.. what do i do (link)
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Talk to Jess and ask her about this...tell her what you told us.
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Posted Saturday July 02 2005, 12:46 am
I have a small but confusing problem, to do with my friend.(I'll call him John)John's dad is a CEO and he has been out of the country for the past 10 months. He got back almost a week ago and saturday he sat down his family and confessed that he had been unfaithful to John's mother durring the 10 months. This really shook up John, he's scared, confused and really unsure of alot of things right now. And he came to me. And I don't know how to respond to this. I want to be supportive and I don't know what I would do if I were him. And he's alot more than a friend, and about 3 years older. What would you do if you were in our situation?
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Sit him down in a place where no-one else is and ask him how he feels about this.Let him just pour out his feelings to you and take it from there.
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