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Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

what are the side affects of birth control? and can i get it w/o telling my mom? if so how...and what is the day after pill and all that? and how can i get it?

Side effects: no baby, more cramps during your period, and small migranes.
Mother?: yes you can, just get it at a drug store, tell her you need to pick up shampoo and conditioner and just buy that too. Also, if you have any sexually active friends, they probably are stocked with them
Day After the Pill: You have to check if your pregnant that day, otherwise, it may not come up right. You wanna be carefull when using a pill because if it doesn't work completely, and you do have a baby, it will be brain damaged.
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im 12 and my parents wont let me go out with guys yet cuz im supposedly too young, but i go out with them secretly and now more guys are starting to ask me out, but they want to actually take me somewhere like dinner or a movie and stuff, but my parents wont let me go anywhere unless they kno my "friends" parents!!!!!!

Well, why don't you let them meet your boyfriends parents. It won't be that hard because your boyfriends are only 12 years old and their parents have to pick you up for the movies. Maybe if you let your parents meet them, they would trust you more. A lot of people do that and it's completely normal, (just don't say it's your boyfriend)
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I have a guy friend who acts in movies. (no names) and he asked me out. I don't know if I should, I like him but I am just don't want to be known as HIS girlfriend instead of my name. I don't know if too many celebs date normal people like me and how people take and what the press and whatnot would say. What should I tell him?

If you like him go out with him. If you don't go out with him because of the movie star thing, that would be very unfair to him. If you begin to not like the whole celebrities girlfriends thing, then tell him that you just need to be your own person and not just another celebrity girlfriend. He will most likely understand because he knows how tough show business is.
Lizzy

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what are those faces in the corner suppose 2 signify????

They are sort of like ratings of the people asking the question, whether it is good, bad, whatever. I kind of find them a little retarded in a way, but i guess it works for some people
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I'm 14/F n im goin out with what some people call a 'player' everyone is telling me that i should break up with him right away. but i cant! he makes me so happy and i really like how he makes me happy if im upset or anything. i feel i can really talk to him about anything and everything. my friend (who is a guy) is telling me now that my boyfriend has hit his past girlfriends! i dont know if thats true or not. everyone seems to be against my going out with him and i dont know what to do anymore. they're telling me that he is going to ruin my life and im making a huge mistake by staying with him! i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him. but he makes me soo happy and thats why i dont want to break up with him! i just dont know what to do. if anyone has any advice please give it to me, id really really appreciate it. thank you..

Has he ever hit you, has he ever cheated on you? If he hasn't then these might just be rumers. But if you notice him gettin angry and raising a fist at you, or you notice he is a sleezebag, then dump him as soon as you can otherwise you may get used to being mistreated. But don't punish him for something you don't know if it is true. Hope i helped a little
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ne one kno a store where u can buy "punk" type clothes? my mall has all abercrombie etc and im just looking for a place where i can find my type of clothing except for like hot topic and stuff...they r really nice except expenisive and more gothic. so help if u can thanks alot :)

Body Central has like a funky punk type to it. Another good store is value city, which sounds crazy, but if you really look, it's got some really green cargo and baggy stuff with chains and everything. But i still think Body Central is the best place
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How old are ppl when they have THE kiss? Like what's the most likely age?

Well i think around 14-15, when it's younger people really don't understand and when it's older the moment is over. Of course, i think if you really truly feel something, like never before, and its like a really good yet scary feeling. It's intimidating and wonderful all at the same time
Lizzy

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Okay so i have this friend that we will call David. He's my best friend, but I think i like him and he might like me, im not sure. I can't get him outta my mind. I'm going crazy. Should I tell him that I like him or just keep it to myself? I mean I tell him everything and he came to my b-day parties and everything. I really don't know what to do. I hope someone can help me soon.
Signed,
Confuzzed

Tell him!!! what good is it going to do not telling him. You will get nowhere. And even if he says no, then at least you will know. But the chances are probably he'll say yes if you say you like him first.
Good Luck
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I am 14/F..My best friend and I have been friends for two years, best friends for about a year. We used to talk every day on the phone for atleast an hour, just getting to know each other really well. Eventually it became him being very upset because his mind is so mixed up because of his drug and acholol use. This is where the problem starts..he drinks and smokes..i don't, I totally dissaprove of all that. But, I stuck by his side. No one else did. He has called me at two and three AM drunk and eventually he just gets into a crying fit after about an hour of us talking..Eventually about after 6months of me telling him and telling he needed to quit he realized what he was doing was wrong and he quit for almost two months. No ciggerettes, pot, or acholol. Just recently he has started drinking again. I told him I wish he would stop and he said no i'm 14 and I want to have fun, people change. I'm torn to pieces that he thinks this. I have read internet articles about acholics. Drugs and acholol have totally taken over his mind in the past two years. So in actuality when I talk to him , its sort of like i'm talking to the drug, or so thats what the experts say. I just want my Best Friend back. I'm not sure how to approach him that he will not get mad. If anyone has any advice or can relate to me iM me on AOL (bballxbaberzx33) i'd really really appreciate it!!!

I'll IM you. It's so weird your boyfriend thinks having fun is to be totally wasted. You really need to tell him that. I have a friend whose dad died from marijuana and now he is taking it. It can be very harmful. Make sure your friend knows that. Good luck sweety
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I need help because i dont kno if i should call this guy to tell him i like him or if i should just keep it to my self???

What good is it going to do you to keep it to yourself. CALL HIM. You will feel much better afterwards even if he says no, otherwise you will go all day thinking about it when you could have gotten it off you chest. Call him, and good luck
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i have this boyfreid and i like him alot and we grew up togeather and i want more from him and i feel like hes not giving me enough we only kissed and i want to do more wut should i do!

If you feel that way, tell him. If he doesn't want to do that kind of thing, respect it. It'll show how much you really care for him, maybe even enough for him to bring it up to you later
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hey yall i jus found out that my bf is probly cheating on me and this stuff happens to me all the time i always get used at and it really sux and wel i jus dont no how to deal with it cus wenever this stuf happens i get really depressed and shit and i think about cutting and stuff but i never actualy do it i jus need sum way to get out of this place or idk i jus idk

That is really sad. The reason that they are probably using you is because you probably seem like the sweet inocent type who would never use them. They take it out on girls like that if they have ever been hurt. Just seem a little tougher and let the bois know who's the real boss
Lizzy

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Choose one or the other 4 each question!!

Chad Michael Murray or Johnny Depp??

Ruben or Clay??

Bush or Kerry??

Hilary Duff or Lindsay Lohan??

Apple or Banana??

Ben Affleck or Matt Damon??

Paris Hilton or Jessica Simpson??

Chicken or Tuna??

Johnny Depp (duh, lol)
Ruben
Bush
Lindsay
Apple
Matt Damon
Jessica
Chicken

Lylas
Lizzy

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what kind of underwear do you guys wear when horseback riding? i wear thongs with my breeches and most of the time it really hurts down there if i sit correctly lol i ride english.. should i buy those padded equestrian underwear or something? what do you guys do?

You should try to get boycut underwear for that especially if you ride english style, that could really hurt and actually could probably leave a mark.
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hey
i was at the movies with this guy who i like..and well i wasn't shure if he liked me before..but when we were at the movies he jus put his arm around me and we were leanin our heads on each other and then he wanted to kiss me(my first kiss!) It was great..what do u think? also...do u think he likes me ?! Thanks!!

well lets see, does he like you? YES, OF COURSE!!! You should totally go for him, if you like him, I think you are getting ready to have a long lasting relationship, what a fairy-tail!!! congrats
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I'm not sure i got this poem sounding right; anyone please gimme a hand.

Fallen Hero

I looked up to a figure
I once deemed to be the best.
But as time slipped to the second,
My faith was put to the test.

Me hero was declined
Of his powerful throne,
Shoved to the side
And deprived of all he called his own.

I stood with the disappointed
Who late looked him on,
And surprisingly found myself
Not nearly as drawn.

As I turned my back,
Shaking my head,
He uttered his final words
And the next second he’s dead.

I found myself thinking twice
Of what I had once thought.
After hearing his words,
My attention, he begot.

“Take care of your hate,
“For soon you’ll regret
“For not helping the one
“To whom your actions were once set.

“Don’t be afraid of difference-
“That’s what makes us all unique.
“If we copied and begged sameness,
“Then all would be bleak.

“Cherish what you believe
“And this is the last I have to say:
“Don’t turn your back again
Like you’d done today.”


**!~Denice~!**

It all sounded awesome except for the beat seemed to be a little off in the second stanza fourth line. Maybe if you shortened that line two beats it would be better, unless it's supposed to sound like that. It is really good!!!
Lizzy

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I want someone to talk to during the summer while im away from my friends. I have a pen pal but I would like another one. I am a 13 year old female.

I'll be your penpal! If you want you can email me at Singer_4_life89@hotmail.com Hope you have a fun summer
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uk how sum ppl can open up their throat and then like pour liquid into it?? is there ne way i can leanr to do it?? please help xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

People are just born with it. It's kind of like how some people can wiggle their ears and flair their nostrils, they are just the people who figured out how to do it.
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Is 5'5 tall for a 16 almost 17 year old girl? I am worried that I am too tall...

5'4 is the average height for a full grown woman. Most women finish growing at about age seventeen so you will probably end up being an inch or two taller then the average person, which is good, not to tall not too short.
Lizzy

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how do you get stars next to your name??

You have to be rated at least 5 times by the admin. You also have to be rated by the people that ask the questions. They go away if you don't get rated within a month
Lizzy

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