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Me and my girlfriend were at a (female) friend's place recently for a party. To cut a long story short, a large quantity of liquor was consumed, and we ended up sharing her bed.
We ended up fooling around rather a lot... her one rule was not reaching 4th with the friend. This was okay, this was permitted.
It was in the morning that things went badly - her friend was still rather affectionate, but I was told that this morning was the end of it. My girlfriend fell asleep again and the affection was returned. Halfway through it all she woke up again.
Needless to say, we are in trouble.
I went through a big show of assuring her that it was all okay, that it meant nothing to me and that she had nothing to worry about.
I just wish I felt that sure. (link)
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Well first why don't you feel sure about it? why you find out why that i think you can answer the question your asking for yourself. But in the mean time try thing over what happen what you told her and all that. try to relate to it through her eyes than you might see the problem differently and you might be able to see why you are not so sure.
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I made a mistake and started smoking just before I turned 14...but I gave up after about 7 months of smoking. Stupid I know, but I gave up :]
Now I'm constantly thinking about it and I tend to miss it.
What are some things or whatever I could do to stop thinking about it.
I'm not going to start again, I don't want to...but I need to stop thinking about it and I don't want to miss it.
15/f
Please no lecturing on how bad it is for you. I know, I made a mistake. Also thinking ''It's bad for you'' doesn't stop me from missing it.
So yeah.
Sorry if this is confusing.
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Maybe you can try hanging out with people that don't smoke. it may take your mind off of it and you could try to replace it with something. it could be candy or a certain kind of food, something on that line that would interests you more than smoking.
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17/f. Never dated anyone, at all. I've been talking to this really great guy for a few weeks, and my parents have no clue who he is because he goes to a different school. He and I both like each other and are going on a date in like a week or so. The problem is that we haven't spent much time together in person, so that's the point of the date- to see if it would even work. We talk on the phone and stuff but it's not the same as actually hanging out.
So how do I tell my parents without making them think that he's my boyfriend? I know they'll want to meet him at some point, but he and I have barely even gotten to hang out ever so I don't know how to make this not awkward. Plus, this will be my first date ever so I know my mom is going to be all weird.
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I would tell them that at the current time you are just friends and in the further you may or may not become more. it is all up if things work out and such.
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PS i am a 13 year old girl
So at night I like to talk to my crush on IM. We only talk to like 10:30 on school nights, but my parents don't think i should be allowed to be on the computer at night, something about how my siblings weren't ever allowed to have the laptop in their room. They don't know that I am talking to my crush, who is moving at the end of the year; i NEED to talk to him. My grades aren't suffering, i still get up early every day, but they keep hinting that they wont let me talk on IM at night anymore. how do i deal with them??
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Dear Katwahalala,
I believe you should talk to them if the situation get worst. tell them that it isn't disturbing any of the following things you have just told me. If the get mad and cause an extreme fit stop talking to him for only a few days until things boil down. If all comes to worst you could sneak the lab top in your room. But beware this answer might lead into some trouble.
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ok so my best friend and i have feelings for each other and I told him how I felt and he told me how he felt. We want to get together but he has a GF so we are just friends.Well he went off to collage and last night he came back. Well We met u pand he was with his GF. Well every 5 seconds he wanted me to hug him and I didnt feel right about it so finnaly I huged him and his GF gave me a dirty look. then after that every 5 seconds he gave her a kiss right infront of me. It hurt me sooo bad so I left without saying good bye and went to the school dance and all my freidns were there so I tried to have a good time but he was on my minde the hole time (link)
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i would try to move on or hold out until him and her fade. you should also ask him how he feels about her compared to you. the best thing to do is get a bf spend time with your friends and get him off your mind till they break up than make your move.
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why cant i drink with my bf?
its not just him but any of my exs, i can never drink with them.
i can do it comfortably around my friends (guys or girls) but never someone im dating. (link)
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i believe your to worried that they may judge you. to get over this you have to climb out of your comfort zone a bit an d have on drink this date maybe two the next until you no longer feel like your uncomfortable about it and you can do this drink with bf thing easy.
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me and my boyfriend just broke up about 2 or 3 days ago.we were in love because its that feeling when you look into eachother eyes and you feel your heart pounding faster then ever.when summer started,I left to colombia for 2 months and we had agreed to stay together after all the drama i had caused because i obviously was scared that he would cheat on me leave or i dont know.HURT ME!but yeah he we broke up about a month before i came because i said some things i shouldnt of said he said some things not to cool but yeah we ended up as friends and i was actually okay.something told me that he would come back to me when i came back.so i had fun i met guys i made a whole new bunch of friends and i was having the best time.i did think of him daily but i wasnt even hurt.then i find out that when we broke up he started talking to some girl and we were friends.we were actually really cool i just never hanged out with her because i thought she was to obnoxious and loud.then he left her for his ex! the one before me!but i was 2937826376247634 billions of miles away,what was i gonna doo?anyways...the day i come back from colombiaa i was there with my family and all of the sudden he starts texting me like crazy and telling me he wanted to see meeeee!i was so happy and i sorda knew it was going to happen.to make the long story short...we went out again!but then he started telling me that he was starting soccer and he started hanging out with some guys from highschool who are older than him and whatever i didnt mind because at the time i was grounded so we couldnt really see eachother.then when i was able to go out he would never text me like he used to...he would call me once at 11 at night and i felt like he didnt feel the same way anymore...so he told me how his priorities were soccer and he couldnt dedicate all his time to me...i got so mad that i said alright then lets end this right here so you can have all the time in the world! so we did... what he would usualyl do is text me call me and tell me im sorry or tell me that he cant live without mee...but now hes talking to my guy bestfriends ex and that he doesnt care about me because i looked for it!i cant live without him he was everything to me...my bestfriend my other half my boyfriend my everything...i havent cried i dont know why.. i ALWAYS cry..please..i beg anyone out there..explain this to me. (link)
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i Believe it didn't soak in that he's gone is because you don't believe it. and what you just told me i believe you still don't. You want him back so do what he always doses, be him for once. tell him all the things he tells you to get back together. but his time you must understand that he needs time for his sport and you need time to do something to. get a hobby or something that will take up your days like he has his soccer. I would also pick your words with him wisely since he says something you something and you two break up so when your in a texting or talking fight just say i got to go than don't text or call him back till your done with your anger this may make you stay together longer. While you still broken up try to think about why you love him? And what do you he loves about you? This may help you to see what you can't live without. And don't forget to look at things those his point of view it couldn't hurt.
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Okay well I am 15/f an I have an small problem. It's like every time I meet or hear about an interesting guy who is into what I like, I automatically like the guy without really knowing him. I wish I could save the crushing for after we become friends not before. Today in my second day of school I met this guy: very friendly, same musical interests, kinda shy, and really cute. So all of a sudden I am starting to develop feelings for him. When I met him I feel like I was stuttering and kinda embarrassed myself. I just have a huge problem with showing people who I really am. I feel like only 2 people really understand me completely. I have had problems with making friends and I want to learn how to properly express myself. Thank you to anyone who can help in any way! (link)
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let me ask you something, do you just want a boyfriend? And how was your past relationships did they go so well that you mare of them or did the burn you and now you want to feel a good one? These are the starting problems of wanting relationships without knowing the guy. first when you know than it will be alot easier to talk to him and show him the real you. but for the crushing before you know him that is just because of your past feelings i would say.
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Ive been dating my guy for over a year. And my parents are getting a little if'y about him because he doesn't talk with them as much. I believe the quote from my father was " when a guy is dating a girl, he tries to convince the parents that he's interested by talking with her parents" How do i (or should i even) ask him to put more of an effort towards my parents. He's a bit quiet but i know he loves me. Being a family girl this is kinda important to me, but i dont know how to ask him to show them what i see. Please Help ASAP! (link)
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I would explain to your father that that is not always the case some guys learn early that the parents are just an add on and he wants to love you not them. I would talk to him and ask him to just speak with them a little more. this will quite your dad and will fix the current problem.
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I am a 15 year old guy and I have been friends with a girl for about two years now. I have always liked her and she has always liked me. We recently started getting closer to eachother. We have even been kissing and stuff like that. I think that I might love her. But, now that we have started school again, she has been telling me that she likes this other guy. I have known this guy ever since I was in the sixth grade. I know he likes her as well. So naturally I care about his feelings and I would feel bad if this girl and I started dating. Should I just let him have her and try to find someone as good as she is (Which probably won't happen), or should I just ask her out and not care about the other guy? I really like this girl and I just kind of feel like she might like him more than she likes me. What should I do?
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i would take care of my self first. i would care about the other guy for sure but i could care about my self in advance. Find out who she likes more and if it is him stand back and wait till they are broken up. than tell her how you feel. this is giving her what she wants the most, but since you are her friend it will sometimes turn out more than likely that you could steal her away from him without trying. The way of the world.
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HI, I'm 14 yrs old and the boy next door is cute, caring and spanish. He and I are friends and we are able to talk to each other without discomfit. He is also the same age.
I really like him and he act kinda that way too i think. Should I tell? Cause his family is moving back to Venzuela in Sout Amereica in a month? (link)
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I would tell him and spend the days together cause if you don't and you never see him again you'll keep wondering what if. Plus it might turn out that if he would move back again you to could actually be something for a longer period of time than just friends. And who knows he might like you to. and in the very off chance he might not move. if you tell him it might also give you more confidence to tell other guys the same ting if you would need to in the further.
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so yeah, i know it's a little early, but i'm bored at the moment so i'm gonna ask a question. my friend and i don't really like hannah montana/miley cyrus, but for some odd reason we decided to dress up as her for halloween. don't ask why, we just wanted to be something together and if we are that then we can have fun getting dressed up. i'm going to be hannah montana and she's gonna be miley cause she has long brown hair. well, i've seen miley in magazines, but what are some good ideas for her to wear? i know she just wears a lot of hats, t-shirts and jeans, but is there anything else? and what should i wear for hannah montana? i know she wears a lot of jackets and kinda shiny sparkley stuff. where is a good place that we could find stuff? we're not looking for expensive things, just something cute but simple. thanks! (link)
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Since Miley is a real person i would say wearing normal everyday cloths would be a good idea for your friend and you could pick those out of her closet or at any department store. For you i would say you should go to a department store and buy something with sequence and shinny necklaces. wear normal jeans and buy a sweat or over shirt like she wears in the magazine. But don't forget the blond wig.
Hope it works out and have fun.
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ok well i had a boyfriend and we broke up a year an a half ago but i still want him to be my friend. is this the right thing to do...
he was there for me through the roughest times for me. he caused me a lot of pain when we broke up but it was just because we were going to different highschool and i think he didnt want it anymore because we went out for a year.
should i try and be his friend???? (link)
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I would try to be his friend. sometimes friendship is more important than a relationship. and since he sounds like he had been a good friend before you could probably trust him and he will probably be more open to being friends.
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what do you do when two people really like eachother but live too far away to see eachother? (link)
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You make plans to see each other in the further like go to the same town for a job or things like that. you can also web cam and text, and email. you can write letters and send carrier pigeons to stay in touch.
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18/m
im a senior and im married to a beautiful girl who i love so much!!shes 16.
anyways i have a problem...i broke up with my ex a year n a half ago and she wont quit buggin me! Shes only a freshman and shes getting on my nerves. I love my wife and our son and i hate that b**ch for trying to ruin things for me and my family. Today at school she wrtote me a note and i ripped it up in front of her and told her to leave me alone!! but she still doesnt get it!!!when will she get the hint? i dont want my lady to think im talking to her cuz im 100% faithful!! (link)
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I think the best thing to do is to speak to her on privet and tell her how you feel and what she's doing. also tell her that you have no interest in her and she should move on. if she still doesn't get i don't think she ever will, until she has made a commitment just like yours.
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Hey Guys yea i'm Back with the same problem yea that boy again... and this time he likes this other girl I just wanna know whats wrong with me y cant he see me and like me oh and did i mention ive liked this guy for 5 years now!!! so what do i do Plz Help
The Poor Confused Boy Obsessed Girl!!!!! (link)
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It has been 5 years so maybe he just likes you as a friend. But if you want to be more i would start leaving hints that you like him as soon as he stops dating this other girl. if he isn't dating her that by all means leave hints and even tell him how you feel. or you can have your best friend tell him.
Maybe this will make him finally notice you, as more than a friend.
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"She said to spray it, but because she was doing a video and if she messes up it would stay there"
well if she messed up it doesnt matter cuz she already finished her style.. Remember? (link)
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Good point, Than i believe she didn't spray her hair because her hair is so used to her styling it and all that, that it would stay that why anyway. Or maybe she didn't want to wasted another ten seconds on her video to show you she sprayed it. Or maybe she forget. there could be many reason why she didn't, that only she would know the answer for.
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"Race is like for example: african, Asain, German Ect.
Ethnicity is where you desend from.
Nationality is what you are to the goverment. LIke democrat or republican."
I DONT GET THE second and third part. sorryyyy =/ (link)
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Well the second part, where you descend from it's like where you come from, what is your back ground? Are french, German, ect.
and the third part is what country you belong to? it is mainly means where you where born. But it could mean like who are you voting for the democrat party or the republican party.
hope you understand.
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Me 15
Him 18
My best friend is 18 and we have dated once then his ex GF wrote him a long note saying she loved him. He dumped me and they got together then we stoped talking. Then we became friends and then best friends. Its almost a year since we dated and he told me that he loves me and always has..the problem is he is still with the same girl he dumped me for.He tells me all these sweet things and how much he cares for me. Then he sayd he loves her to. i feel like i have fallin for him and he knows that. What do I do because we want to stay just friends but at the same time be so much more (link)
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Well you have to start making decisions. you have to decide which it is going to be. If you want to be best friends you have to back off and disappear for awhile let the bond between him and you fade a little this could take some time. If you want to be more than friends, you will have to get the other girl he dumped you for out of the picture. HE must decide even though it will be hard who he wants as a girlfriend, you or her. And if he decides her than don't cry back off and wait until they break up than take your thrown beside him.
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Ok, so really everyone does weed at least once in their life. Even if it's just a hit. I smoke weed, not alot but enough. But theres this girl who is best friends with one of my like really good friends, and she hates me cause i smoke weed, but it's my life. I dont make other people smoke or anything. She just hates me. Idk what to say to her now, i wanna talk to her but i dont wanna make her hate me even more. What should i do? (link)
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Well you may not want to hear this but she does care about you and this is her way of showing you. smoking weed is going to kill you and she really does want to help you but she doesn't know how so really this is the only way she can reach you and it's working. If you want to smoke it, tell her why. she will get upset at anything you say to her unless it's about quitting. So you'll never win this battle with weed and your friend.
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