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I think I love my best friend
Me 15
Him 18
My best friend is 18 and we have dated once then his ex GF wrote him a long note saying she loved him. He dumped me and they got together then we stoped talking. Then we became friends and then best friends. Its almost a year since we dated and he told me that he loves me and always has..the problem is he is still with the same girl he dumped me for.He tells me all these sweet things and how much he cares for me. Then he sayd he loves her to. i feel like i have fallin for him and he knows that. What do I do because we want to stay just friends but at the same time be so much more
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oi konw the feeling. Last year i started datein this guy named sean. I grew up with the kid and hav known him since we were born. All of a sudden I started gettin feelings for him. We dated once and when he broke it off to date this other girl i was devistated. After a month or two he dumped the other girl and came running back to me. After datein him a total of three times I realized that I was that girl on the backburner. Thie girl that would always be there for him to run to in case he cant get another girl. So my advice is not to get over him but to slowly try and look for a diffrent guy. I know that with sean he will always be in my life as a bff or an ex bf but I just needed to move on. Now I am datein a diffrent guy and have realized how he treated me like trash and that there are a ton of guys that are a million times better...I hope this helps :D
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Honestly, i think you should not go out with him
i mean he sweet talks you and he has a girlfriend how would you know he wont do the same thing when your with him. and i think that hes just trying to lead you on and for you to like him.
Hope i helped.
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well ask yourself is he really as great as you think..
he's leading you on yet he's with another girl. If he cares for you like you do for him then he'd dump her for you but no it was the other way around your just the third wheel. I'm sorry to tell you but no girl should be treated this way ask him do you really like me and if yes why are you still with her? Also ask yourself if you got the chance again to date him you think he may lead another girl on.. ?
just becareful with this guy and really ask yourself if you want a guy who'd dump you in flash for another girl or find someone who will cherish you.
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Well you have to start making decisions. you have to decide which it is going to be. If you want to be best friends you have to back off and disappear for awhile let the bond between him and you fade a little this could take some time. If you want to be more than friends, you will have to get the other girl he dumped you for out of the picture. HE must decide even though it will be hard who he wants as a girlfriend, you or her. And if he decides her than don't cry back off and wait until they break up than take your thrown beside him.
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