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will he come back to me?
me and my boyfriend just broke up about 2 or 3 days ago.we were in love because its that feeling when you look into eachother eyes and you feel your heart pounding faster then ever.when summer started,I left to colombia for 2 months and we had agreed to stay together after all the drama i had caused because i obviously was scared that he would cheat on me leave or i dont know.HURT ME!but yeah he we broke up about a month before i came because i said some things i shouldnt of said he said some things not to cool but yeah we ended up as friends and i was actually okay.something told me that he would come back to me when i came back.so i had fun i met guys i made a whole new bunch of friends and i was having the best time.i did think of him daily but i wasnt even hurt.then i find out that when we broke up he started talking to some girl and we were friends.we were actually really cool i just never hanged out with her because i thought she was to obnoxious and loud.then he left her for his ex! the one before me!but i was 2937826376247634 billions of miles away,what was i gonna doo?anyways...the day i come back from colombiaa i was there with my family and all of the sudden he starts texting me like crazy and telling me he wanted to see meeeee!i was so happy and i sorda knew it was going to happen.to make the long story short...we went out again!but then he started telling me that he was starting soccer and he started hanging out with some guys from highschool who are older than him and whatever i didnt mind because at the time i was grounded so we couldnt really see eachother.then when i was able to go out he would never text me like he used to...he would call me once at 11 at night and i felt like he didnt feel the same way anymore...so he told me how his priorities were soccer and he couldnt dedicate all his time to me...i got so mad that i said alright then lets end this right here so you can have all the time in the world! so we did... what he would usualyl do is text me call me and tell me im sorry or tell me that he cant live without mee...but now hes talking to my guy bestfriends ex and that he doesnt care about me because i looked for it!i cant live without him he was everything to me...my bestfriend my other half my boyfriend my everything...i havent cried i dont know why.. i ALWAYS cry..please..i beg anyone out there..explain this to me.
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i Believe it didn't soak in that he's gone is because you don't believe it. and what you just told me i believe you still don't. You want him back so do what he always doses, be him for once. tell him all the things he tells you to get back together. but his time you must understand that he needs time for his sport and you need time to do something to. get a hobby or something that will take up your days like he has his soccer. I would also pick your words with him wisely since he says something you something and you two break up so when your in a texting or talking fight just say i got to go than don't text or call him back till your done with your anger this may make you stay together longer. While you still broken up try to think about why you love him? And what do you he loves about you? This may help you to see what you can't live without. And don't forget to look at things those his point of view it couldn't hurt.
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