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my ex!! I NEED HELP
18/m
im a senior and im married to a beautiful girl who i love so much!!shes 16.
anyways i have a problem...i broke up with my ex a year n a half ago and she wont quit buggin me! Shes only a freshman and shes getting on my nerves. I love my wife and our son and i hate that b**ch for trying to ruin things for me and my family. Today at school she wrtote me a note and i ripped it up in front of her and told her to leave me alone!! but she still doesnt get it!!!when will she get the hint? i dont want my lady to think im talking to her cuz im 100% faithful!!
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The first thing to do is discuss it with your wife. Let her know that your ex is bothering you, you're not at all interested, just wanted her to know. Maybe you can come up with a solution together.
Your ex really wants attention, so don't give it to her. The best thing to do is just plain ignore her. When she talks, act like you're deaf. Don't acknowledge her, don't say hi, don't even look at her when you walk by. Eventually she will get it.
Depending on how she is, you may want to first tell her flat-out: "I'm not interested in you at all and I want you to leave me alone"
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Questions like this make me want to cry. America, thou art a sinking ship.
Anyway.
Ignore her. She only does it because she gets a rise out of you. If you ignore her completely and permanently (literally, act as if she isnt in the room with you, and delete her texts without reading them, etc etc) she will get pissed off and will eventually stop.
Next step would be a restraining order, which I imagine is hard to do on a 14 year old.
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I think the best thing to do is to speak to her on privet and tell her how you feel and what she's doing. also tell her that you have no interest in her and she should move on. if she still doesn't get i don't think she ever will, until she has made a commitment just like yours.
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i would just speak to her in private and explain that you have someone else and that someone new will come along and steal her heart
explain that you had good times but they just needed to come to an end
be calm and sincere
i would tell your wife you are going to speak to her it will test your guys relationship and really put it in check that both of you are commited and understanding of one anothers problems and situations
-hope ive helped some!
Good Luck
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the first thing i'd do is explain the situation to my wife in case something happens & she gets suspicious.
then i'd calmly tell her to stop talking tome. don't be rude or disrespectful, but just say, "look, i'm married and i'm not interested in you. please stop harassing me." just be honest & don't play any mind games by giving her rude glances, etc. just be straight-forward.
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Try just ignoring her outright, dont talk/listen to her, if she tries to give you a note just pretend she isnt there. She should leave you alone then.
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