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Long distance
what do you do when two people really like eachother but live too far away to see eachother?
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You make plans to see each other in the further like go to the same town for a job or things like that. you can also web cam and text, and email. you can write letters and send carrier pigeons to stay in touch.
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This is just my opinion. Others, yourself
included may disagree. However, it will
give you some things to think about.
Young teens are supposed to go out with
friends, boys included, and learn to
communicate and start to find that special
person to spend their life with.
That's why you date different people. That's
why its not the best thing to attach yourself
to just one guy or gal at a young age, but to
look at several different ones.
Dating someone "online" at such a young
age alienates you from those close by.
You don't date other guys, you don't get
out there and socialize with those right
around you. It is very important for you
to do that.
There is nothing wrong with being very
good friends with people you meet online.
You never know what the future might hold.
Maybe you will end up at the same college,
as the adviser before me has seen happen.
But, that is going to be a rare thing.
In the meantime, you don't want to put
your young life on hold waiting for a
time when you might meet your online
friend. You need all those other
relationships and outside activities to
help you grow into a mature person.
Then, when you reach an age when you
are able to meet your online friend,
you will be mature, and have dated
enough other guys to make a good
decision about whether or not he is
the one for you.
Always keep in mind that there are
people out there in cyberspace who
are much different in person than
they are chatting to you online.
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You might have a different situation, but my best friend is with a guy in Britain and we live in the US. But the 3 of us will be going to the same college soon and they'll be together then. Also, they use webcam, and the online calling thing. Maybe that will work for you. Hope I helped!
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