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Yah im really into hiphop dancing after watching the movie "honey" its the best ever you should really watch it! I wish i could dance like that and ive been searching for websites that teahc you online.. like videos, instrutions and stuff. I cant find any anywhere and im desperate to join a club local but cant find any!! If anyone wants to like teach my step-by step online or something like that my email is lil_keaney@hotmail.com id be VERY greateful even for a slight bit of help!
Lush me x

HONEY IS THE BEST MOVIE EVER! the only advice i have for you, is to purchase the movie, and watch it where you have some room, and review the parts where there is dancing a few times, then try to go along with the movie. that should help, also try checking the movies webiste.

try this
http://www.hollywood.com/movies/detail/movie/1615065

it has a little video clip at the bottom with some "moves"

http://www.contactmusic.com/new/home.nsf/webpages/honeyx02x03x04

this site also has some.


hope i helped-
kels

also, another great movie, is SAVE THE LAST DANCE!

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Im too scared to use a tampon im in my 1st full year of my period and ive been using pads how safe are tampons i read in my bliss magazine that a tampon made this 18 yr old girl slip into a coma for 2 weeks what if that happens to me!! Do they hurt? After you used one are you classed as a non-virgin? Do they tickle? What are they like?
Luv ya x

no, you do not lose your virginity. they dont hurt if they are in proberly. you have to realx when you insert them, and make sure that they are in all of the way. also, if you buy the TAMPAX brand, they come with instructions. also, they have a "starter pack" out with slim tampons, and instructions and some pads! you can get it at walmart or something.

the thing with getting sick is= a long time ago, they had these tampons that would last for like 2days, so you wouldnt have to change it. thats alot considering that you should only wear one for 6-8 hours. there is a risk of TSS uh, i forgot the t, but the rest is shock syndrom. it killed two girls, when they had in the 2day tampons. they do not make those anymore. so dont worry! just change them every 6-8 hours, and they will usually be full by then anyways. also use the correct absorbancy for your amount of blood flow!

try going to www.beinggirl.com for more information!

if you ever have any more questions at all, just leave one in my inbox!!

Always there-
Kels ;)

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I babysit for an hour and a half everyday.
Lucky me, I get the hours when the youngest baby wants to go to sleep more.
The parents keep asking me to try and keep her awake till they come home cause if not she won't sleep at night.
I always fail and she always ends up falling asleep then the parents have trouble getting her back to sleep in the middle of the night.
So I need tips on keeping her awake. She's 8 months old. Don't just say ''Play with her'' because I keep trying but she just crys then I pick her up and she falls asleep.

Oh and I also babysit her sister who is 3 years old so anything that they could both do would be good, I don't want to leave any of them out.

get out the barbies!!! or toy cars, fead her when she starts getting tired, or about 3 or so hours before she SHOULD go to sleep, something with SOME sugar! that should help!!

try to get her to talk! or something, ask her sister to help too, by playing some games, or with the barbies, or even watching a movie thats sorta loud.

Hope I Helped-
Kels

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i brush my retainer every day. it still ends up smelling like crap somehow.. my mom called my ortho, and they said to use the stuff that you put dentures in.. i did that, and it still smells bad! does anyone know something good that will get the nasty smell away from my retainer?

when you put it in your case, and its wet, that causes it to smell, if you close the case, try either 1-only putting it in the case when it is dry or 2- dont close the case!!

I had the same problem!

Im ALWAYS here for you if you hvae ANY questions anytime, about anything!

KeLs

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I am a guy who has liked the same girl for a very very long time. We used to be real close, but then she found out that I liked her and things got weird between us. She would never talk to me, ignore me, that kinda thing. So I made up a lie, I posted on my xanga that I didnt like her anymore although I think she still suspects. Anyway, we've been getting along ALOT better ever since I said that. Should I just go ahead and come out? If I do come out, should I ask her out?

sure, the worst thing she can say is no!

if you dont ask, you'll never know!!

those 6little words could change your life.

*(6words= will you go out with me)*
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KELS

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Why do guys get angry when you have only been dating two months and they tell you they love, but if you don't feel comfortable saying it back they all the sudden don't love you? Especially the only reason you don't want to say it is because that is when people start getting hurt!

because MOST, but not all guys, say it so that it makes you think that they do, and then they can get "some"

you know?

if you ever need ANYTHING else, leave one in my inbox, i would be more than happy to help!!

MiSs KelC

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Okay there was this one kid that said he liked me. he'd alwyas say he loves me too, but i thought he had a girlfriend.. One day at my friend's house he tried to kiss me and i said no i cant do this.. he asked why and i said because your going out with amy..he said, no im not dont worry about it. About a month later his Girlfriend found out about what happened and he told her that I CAME ONTO HIM! She wants to beat me up for something i did not do and she thinks that I am lying about all this.. what can i doo!?

well, since it was at your friends house, your friend was there right? well have her stick up for you! and if that doesnt work, ten you know what you did, and what you didnt do, and most people can distingusiish a liar as opposed to someone who is tleling the trush, so i am sure that it will work, and if they dont believe you, that isnt your problem, its theirs


hope i helped

of you need anything else, ever, leave one in my inbox!!

Miss kelC

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I'm putting together a scrap book kind of a thing to give to my boyfriend for our 1 year anniversary (it's coming up in May). What I did was I put together a few pictures of us to sort of tell a story about us but all of the pictures are saved on my computer and when I go to print things, it takes up SO much ink. My printers ink cartridges cost 30 dollars. I want to have these pictures be a very good quality but I need them printed out! Is there anywhere I could take them so they could print them out for me?

wal*mart, 27 or 37 cents a picture!

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What should I do if I get bullied a lot by kids at school? I go to a catholic school, too and its still happening. Junior High can definitly be tough. I get picked on by 7th graders and kids my age. What should I do? My parents and I have tried and tried but nothing has worked! I've gotten nasty emails and instant messengers, and rude and harassing phone calls. can you help me?
Deceivingxheart

awe, I've been in your shoes! Im so sorry!

Okay:
I know this is tough, but dont respond to the e-mails or instant messages!

Warn then block the instant messaging people

and block the e-mail addresses!

they just want a rise out of you, so dont give then the satasfaction!

Also, if you leave me one in my inbox with specific examples, I can probably come up with some exelent come backs! I had to deal with that for over 4years!! So, I know exactly how you feel! Im 15/female/freshman!!
you??

okay! well, leave some in myinbox, and well get to work, and make thes awful bullies stop!

and also, check back, because if i dont get on in my inbox from you soon, i'll probably edit this answer! :)

always there-
kels


I agree with icy, save them, so then you can use them! but DONT RESPOND!! because then you were giving them a reason to write back!!! then they cops cant do anything!!!!


leave on in my inbox!

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ive read some questions and most about sex with guys is a little making me uncomfortable. not all guys are horny lil bastards. i dont go looking for sex and all that, i just look for some1 i can relax with and have a good time with, not the first girl that is willing to give it up 4 me. trust me girl when i say this, guys are all talk. they say that with their friends, but if a girl came on to me wanting sex (im a virgin) i wouldnt have a clue what 2 do.

well, im glad you are like that, there are very few guys like you!

good for you!

and when people make fun of you for being a virgin!- you may look like the loser then

but when they are pregnate or have gfs who are pregnate, and dont have a good job, and they have bad grades and are paying child support.........................


LOOK WHOES THE LOSER NOW!!!!!!!!!


always there-
kels

if you ever need anything, leave one in my inboX!

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Well thank you for answering me..and i would love to say that all..but the problem is when i say "the party is up the road from me." There is nobody my age on my road (its a country road lol) except for one guy who is 18 now..we used to hang out like 3 years ago..but thats history. i cant say him..who can i say?? i want to be honest..i really do...but the kid whos having it is breaking into his old house...

if you have more time next time, like that you know of the party in advance, tell your parents in advance, becayuse for me when i tell them in advauce, its usually a yes, because they have more time to think about it, and you havw time to be really good!

Maybe say its just going to be "on your street" and dont say that they are breaking into it, but dont say that they arnt either.
also, just dont go inside the house!

like when you get home, tell your parents, they broke into that house, but I didnt go inside! i stayed outside!!

so, they will be glad that you are a good kid!

uh, how old are you anyways? are you 18too, because if you are, then you should have more freedom!!! well, good luck!


leave on in my inbox if you need more help!

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I am 13 years of age and I had my period two times last year. Only two times because it started at the end of the year. I've only had it two times because I haven't had it this year yet. Is that normal? Is that supposed to happen? Is it healthy when you period does that?

yes, its fine! its because its new! dont worry! it will be like that for a while!!

www.beinggirl.com

has a lot of that!!

and im good at this stuff too!!!!


so leave on in my inbox!! i'll be able to help a tun!! leave a question for me!!!

Always there-
Kels

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I have a little issue see I get turned on by gurls. I basically grew up around guys and i always heard them sya damn look at that a.s.s. or she got a nice rack and I always ignored it like why do i want to hear this now when I ee a gurl i think the same excact thing i wonder what she looks like naked, what tricks she can do, just things that I would think about wit a guy. I have never done anything with a gurl and want to experiment but I am scared because i dont know how to approach a gurl to let her know. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!? And could you give me some hints on what to do when you are with a gurl do you do the same things you do with a guy and are there any special tricks?

need some help

its okay! you are just going through puberty! and you have those thoughts, its okay!!!! no worries! it happens to everyone!!

You'll be fine! :)

leave one in my inbox if you ever need anything!!!


always there-
kels

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ok my friend called me up and told me theres this party like right up the road from me!! it starts at like 8..but im not going to ask my mom if i can go..cuz how would i word it? if you have a good idea on how to word it ..thats an automatic 5 for you guys. I was thinkin..if not to just sneak out later on. (my dad works the night shift and my mom is usually asleep by 10:30)
What would you guys do? I've never really been to a wild party..usually i jus go to small parties or sweet 16's ..that stuff. My parents would want to know if someone is home..and who knows if they would actually want to talk to the parents being that the party is right up the road from me.

Well, Dont lie to her, i know that parents just want to protect you, believe me, my dad isnt thrilled with the idea that i have a boyfriend, and i cant go to parties unless my parents talk to the parents hosting the party and there are going to be parents there, oh im 15/f. and i hated them for it then, but now i am glad because eventhough i missed out on a lot, i got saved from alot!! like getting drunk, stones, and taken advantage of!!

try to tell them everything you know.

Im going to a party with, Bob, Sue and Sally, and of course other people will be there too. Its right up the street, so if something happens, i can get home right away! I'll bring my cell phone, so you can call me. I promice I wont drink or smoke! I'll only stay out until 12 because the party starts at8. if i since something is wrong, i'll call you or come home! I promice I'll stick with Sally and Sue and Bob!

Try that!!

Just dont lie, they usually find out, and if they dont, you'll feel guilty!!

Have fun!!

good luck!!

always there-
kels

leave one in my inbox if you ever need anything!!

and, please leave me feedback on this answer, im currious as to see how you felt about it!! Thanks!

Best Of Luck!

AND HAVE FUN!

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Hi im 13 female and i wanted to know if any one my age knows how i can earn $3000 dollars (three thousand dollars) i live in florida close to mims i need to earn money but dont know how.. i want to earn money for a horse and my grandpa said that if i get $3000 than i can get one. so i need help i rate 5's thanks
hopeful one

baby sit, help around peoples houses

help with:
Kids
Gardning
Cleaning
Cooking
Yard Work (Raking Leaves, Mulch, Cutting Grass)

OH! I have a GREAT Idea!

(hehe)

You could open a mini nail salon in your house!!

do the neighbor Girls Nails!!

Charge Like $10 To do their nails
and $15 For Pedicures, Im sure you probably already have some of the stuff, you just need a square bucket thing for their feet, lotion, foot salt, and other stuff, you could get a few kits at wal*mart for 30$!!!!

Also, in addition to doing nails, you could teach a dance class, or a mini workout class, you could also give massages, do the little girls hair and give them make-overs!!!

That would be good, you could ask some of the kids moms if you could like do their birthday party or something!! maybe you and a friend could! and your friend, could give you more money becaus you want the horse!!

@ the party you could do their nails and hair and give them make-overs!!

that would be good!

Well, I sure hope I helped-
Best Of Luck!!!

Always There-
Kels!

Please Leave some feed back on my ideas!

and whenever you need something, leave on in my inbox! I'll try my best, and do whatever it takes to get you the best answer!!!

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14/f
I'm a Christian so I want to be a virgin till I'm married, but lately it's been real hard to stay that way. I'm letting my hormones make me too curious. (I've never actually even seen a penis before.) I get really horny a lot and sometimes I ever masturbate to get over it. I'm way too young to have sex but lately I've wanted to give a handjob or even get laid. How can I keep motivated to stay a virgin? I know I'm not ready for sex.

well, i know exactly how you feel, and i know that the hormones get in the way! but try to keep telling yourself, like when you are "sexually excited" like, do i really wnat to do this?

Hope I helped

leave on in my inbox if you have any more questions!!

always there-
kels

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Well me and my boyfriend have exsperimented "below" the belt. He never said anything before, but now hes complaining about me not shaving. I shaved once before, now i usually just trim. When i shved i hated it i couldnt stand it, it itched and hurt and it was annoying. What should i do?

well, thats not nice, he souldnt care.

do you know what would happen if you two didnt do anything? would he leavE?

jsut make sure that what you are doing isnt whats holding you two together


Kels

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Okay, I'm 14/f and i love boys to death, but lately i've been very attractive to my best friend and she's 13/f.My friend and i have experimented 3 times and we've both liked it. When we get intimate with each other we never think of guys either it's strange. I'm not attracted to any other girls. I feel that if she doesn't like me back when i tell her how i feel about her i will get over it and go back to guys again. I've never had a liking for woman just my best friend. Does this mean i'm bisexual or i'm confusing my feelings with "FRIENDSHIP LOVE." Help a girl out!!

its okay! your just going trough puberty, its fine!!

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I have my period about every 2 1/5 to 3 weeks.. then, when I do have it.. I have it for 2 days then I stop that night then I have it for one day then I stop that next day then have it for 2 more days.. is somthing wrong with me.. :-x
--I rate 5's!--

no, that happens to me sometimes too, it can be pretty wierd, sometimes heavy, sometimes not, sometimes for 8+ days sometimes just for one, at a random time.

Its Fine!!!

leave one in my inbox if you have any more questions!!!

Always there-
Kels

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is it normal for females to discharge everday?

YEAH!!! no worries, if you have any more questions leave on in my inbox!

Always there!
Kels

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