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Q: hey im new to myspace so does anybody know how to do anything on there? I have my picture on there but i want a picture on the background and i want to play music on it. So that when people look at it they can hear music and all that stuff. But i have no idea how to do it or get to it.. etc. pleazzz help!!!!

Love Ashley

you can IM me on hiidorkface and i'll help you out.

if you don't have aim.. message me on www.myspace.com/you_and_ii_collide

i'm myspace brilliant.

Q: Ok so the inside of my nose, the right side, has like a scab. This morning I was goin out and it was hurtin so I jus pulled out the scab and now it's hurtin more and a scab a gettin back on it. It hurts alot and I relly duno what to do...does anyone know what it is? and can I pull it out?

it's just like a regular scab on your arm. if you pull it, all the new skin is coming off and it will form a new scar. it won't heal unless you let the scab form and don't mess with it.

Q: yu know that song we run this, missy elliott's new song? well, the background beat thats a sample, whats the name of that real song ?
thanks xo

it's actually called "we run this".

http://www.onlylyrics.com/song.php?id=30170

Q: for some reason I could just be stretching my legs and I will just quweef (sorry for the weird word) I kno that most girls dont just quweef when they stretch. I mean if I ever have sex Im probly going to quweef even worse and infront of a guy! IS THIS RIGHT? ahhh what do i do

it's spelled queef. i don't think there is anything for you to worry about, but if you need answers, talk to your mom. make it a little bit of a joke and it shouldn't be as awkward. my mother and i still laugh about our oral sex talk. :]

Q: hi! i've started getting my haircut at a pretty upscale place, and now instead of the hair stylist washing my hair, there is an assistant that does it. am i supposed to tip her, and if yes, then how much? the hair cut is $35! thanks!! :)

if it is a really nice place, it should be about $5 to $10. but if it is a medium/casual place, i would give about $3 to $5. just tip as you feel led to. and if you see someone else tip, follow their lead.

Q: How do you make your OWN layout for myspace? not by using websites either folks.. just YOU MAKE them and put them on there?

you have to use a CSS style sheet. it's complicated and takes a long time to completely master. you could use someone else's style sheet, if they approve of it, and replace the colors, background, fonts, etc.

Q: Hey there!
I'm running for Class officer of my school. My speech is here.
Is there anything I should add or take away. Or any humorous things I could add?

For those of you who don’t know me, my name is (my name). Last year, I made a huge mistake during my speech. My mistake was that I bored you to death. This year is going to be different. I’m not going to stand here and tell you that “I’m the best candidate pick me pick me.” No, that’s not my style. I’m going to keep it short and sweet.

Class Officers are some of the most important positions of our class. Wouldn’t you want someone friendly, mature, responsible, and willing to listen to represent your class?

Freshmen year flew by. 1/4th of high school is basically done. Most of us spent it exploring the school, getting to know peers, and experimenting with clubs and sports. Ask yourself this: Was there anything you wish to change? Is there a new club you want to add? Was there something missing that you want your opinion voiced about? If you said yes to any of those questions, realize this: it’s about time we have some fun and by electing me I can assure u we will. By electing me, you will see a difference, I promise you that.

So, I leave you with this: Vote (my name)for Sophomore Class Officer, and you’re guaranteeing yourself a memorable year.

i like it. it isn't as much about the speech as it is the delivery. be energetic, like you actually want the position. be caring, so people will know that you really do want to help them. smile. show people the best side of you.

Q: Does the South Beach Diet actually work????

my mom and sister went on it. and during phase one, they both lost a good bit of weight. but phase two it slowed down. some weeks they lost a little weight, some weeks they even gained. if you're still young, you shouldn't do it. because growing people need carbs, and south beach diet eliminates them.

Q: yeah confused about that, if i create a code, how do i have people whore me

go to myspacesupport.com and create a button with your code. then post a bulletin on myspace telling people to click your button and message you with their buttons to be whore back. add me. www.myspace.com/you_and_ii_collide

Q: im 14/f and i have alot of guy friends and also girls friends but i dont know how to ask my mom if i can hangout with my guys friends im always afraid she gunna say no what should i do?

you can't be afraid of what your parents will say. just ask if you can hang out with your guys friends. if they say no, invite your friends over to meet your parents. hang out at your house a few times before you go somewhere else to hang out with them. just make sure your parents know they are just friends. and i would suggest that you always plan to have at least one girl hanging out with you and your guy friends.

Q: I have a band and my friend just invited the boy i have a major crush in the band and we aren't doing so well is it me or what

makk

so are you saying that you think maybe your band isn't doing so well because you are distracted with your crush there? if so, i completely understand. but you need to realize that you should just be yourself. don't let some boy take your focus off of your passion for music. just make a decision. and if it gets too bad, you may just have to talk to him and tell him how you feel. that you like him so much that you can't focus because he is in the band.

Q: Help! My thighs are huge! I think the rest of my body is great except for my fat thighs. what can i do to make them smaller?

riding a bike really helps.

mostly you have to focus on exercises that work on your quad muscle. you could lay on your back and tighten your quad muscle and do a leg raise. but make sure your quad is tightened the entire time. and make sure you go slow.

Q: Hey, how do you get your calves looking smaller?
Thighs also??

calves-by walking or running.

thighs-by riding a bike.
plus you could lay on your back and tighten yuor quad muscle and do a leg raise. but make sure your quad is tightened the entire time. and go slow.

Q: im on a diet, no im not starving myself, im eating healthily, cutting out the junk food.
My problem is i have big legs, like fat thighs and lower leg.

is there anything i can do to reduce the size a bit?
i want top loose atleast a couple of inches of fat on each leg any ideas?

i no you cant excercise to target one particular area but i need excercises that will benefit that area as well as the rest of my body

for you calves [lower legs] running and walking will make them extremely strong. for thighs, i have to same problem. i bought ankle weights, [5 pounds, you could probably do more weight because i had knee surgery] and you do basic legs lifts, laying on my back, side, and other side. you can do other exercises with them if you feel it working your thighs. also throughtout the day do butt squeezes, you'd be amazed how well it works.

Q: My friend and I are having a Spring Break Party this year. It is sort of formal. It's at my parents restaurant and the food is free. I am having a DJ. The time is from 7-11 pm. I need some suggestions.

>Drinks. what should be the drinks (ages 12-16)
>Food.
>Music.
>ACTIVITIES!!
Etc.

Anything else will be appreciated.

Thank you in advance. I'll rate 5's.

drinks - you should have cute little drinks that are non-alcoholic. like margaritas and thinks like that.

food - just do a bunch of party snacks. like chips and things like that. and your parents have the restaurant so whatever they'd like to whip up.

music - i suggest rock, pop, rap, etc. like you would hear on your local hit radio station. if it's possible you could have requests. i don't know if that DJ could do that.

activities - well the DJ will basically take care of it. everyone will just dance and have a good time.

Q: Is the movie, O Brother, Where Art Thou underlined in an essay or in quotations? Is the epic poem, The Odyssey underlined or in quotations also?

movie titles and long poems are underlined. articles, short poems, etc. are in quotations.

Q: I have a very big fear of the dark. The thing is Its not beacuse of just a little thing like scary movies or stuff like that. I had a really bad expierence in the dark at a hospital after one of my heart surgerys. I can't go anywhere without a light on or someone close by. Its kinda silly i no but i need help. How do I slowly get over this stupid fear. Im a 15 yr old female. Im too old for this!

help pleae! I ALWAYS rate well!

i completely understand. i am afraid of the dark. and i am also 15. most people know about my fear. i carry a mini flashlight in my purse everywhere i go. it took me a while to realize that it isn't a big deal. everyone has fears. ours just happens to be the dark. so no worries, just don't be ashamed of it. i'm not. and i'm extremely happy with myself.

Q: im into rock music. fall out boy, taking back sunday, halifax, hellogoodbye, panic! at the disco, etc. and i just got a new ipod. can someone suggest songs? thanks!

i can give you bands. and you can look them up.

hard.
comeback kid.
&haste the day.
&still remains.
&as i lay dying.
&bloodlined caligraphy.
&seventh star.
&war of ages.
&the showdown.
&showbread.
&maylene.

soft.
rilo kiley.
&panic! at the disco.
&anberlin.
&copeland.
&mae.
&me without you.
&eisley.
&cool hand luke.
&dead poetic.

Q: Hi everyone I am planning to start my own magazine company. I wanted to know from teenagers what do you'll look for in a magazine. If you have any suggestions or comments let me know I will greatly appreciate them. But I don't want comments on celebrities because I already have that covered.
Thank you :)

i want to see average people. not gorgeous airbrushed models with the perfect bodies. it makes us feel bad about ourselves. i like to see true stories that are inspirational and could possible help with a problem i'm facing. i want to see REAL people with REAL lives and REAL stories.

Q: How do you become a fitured columnist?
& what is a fitured culmnist?

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