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I need advice
im 14/f and i have alot of guy friends and also girls friends but i dont know how to ask my mom if i can hangout with my guys friends im always afraid she gunna say no what should i do?
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well ask your mom if one day all of your guy friends and some of you girl friends can come over to hangout with you let your parents get to know who they are and what they are about and in the long run maybe if you ask to go hangout with them they will say "yes!"
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Invite your guy friends over for movies ( i do bomb fires) so my parents get to no them and learn to like them. Now im allowed to go out and hang with them good luck
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easy, just tell her your friends are guys and i just wanna hang out witht them but assure her that you wont do anything that she wouldnt like (doesnt mean u hav to abide by that just so she lets you go). she most likely wont say no. hope it helps.
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just ask her if you beat around the bush about it she's going to be suspicious of the situation. talking to her about your life isn't a crime punishable by death.
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Hmm.. well, first of all, DON'T lie to her about having guy friends. Then, she may become suspicious. Ask her to understand that the guys are equally your friends as the girls.. nothin romantic going on between you, but you just like to hang out. Let her know that by excluding them, you're excluding your FRIENDS. Make sure she's comfortable before you all start hanging out though, because if she finds out, you may be in more trouble.
--Good luck! :D
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you can't get any where by being afraid. ask your mom, you dont know for sure that she will say no. and before you do, think about how you are going to ask her. dont try to bring it up like you already expect her to say no and be angrey. also, if she does happen to say no, ask her why she says no. maybe it is because she is sad that you are growing up, or she is afraid that these boys will want to do more than be just friends. if she does, explain to her that you trust them. make it clear to her that you are still her little girl.
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you can't be afraid of what your parents will say. just ask if you can hang out with your guys friends. if they say no, invite your friends over to meet your parents. hang out at your house a few times before you go somewhere else to hang out with them. just make sure your parents know they are just friends. and i would suggest that you always plan to have at least one girl hanging out with you and your guy friends.
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I had a lot of guy friends when I was younger. What always worked for me was inviting them over to my house so my parents could meet them a couple times. Because my parents had met the guys and talked to them a bit, they were more comfortable about letting me out of the house with them.
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