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theres this one boy at my school, i can't tell if he likes me or not because hes always mean to me and says rude stuff to me and hits me and stuff i mean i guess you could say he is just playing around or whatever but is this how he flirts with me because he wont leave me alone!
helppp... (link)
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He likes you but he doesn't know the right way to get your attention or communicate with you, so he's doing what he does with the guys he's friends with. Or at least, that's what I'd guess.
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okay this might be long
this kid that i like wants to hang out. like jsut us. and he wants to watch a movie or something. and he like, likes to do a lot of stuff and i'm not used to all that and i think it would we awkward like hanging out with him and all that. so how could i make this unawkward and kinda sense to him that i only wanna like makeout and do nothing other than that? like besides saying it. please help! like i really wanna go out with him but i dont wanna do a lot until we have been going out! (link)
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If you only want to make out, then there's only two ways to tell him.
1. You tell him ahead of time, yall hang out, yall make out, you hope he plays by the rules.
2. You don't tell him and yall hang out, he tries to do something you don't want him to, he might not listen, you have to yell at him to stop, it's awkward, things screech to a halt and you probably don't hang out much after that.
I'd say just tell him. If the guy's worth a damn, he'll listen and respect your wishes, if he's not, then you shouldn't wanna be with him anyway.
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Hey, I'm pretty skinny (95 lbs), but I want to get abs. If I did 100 crunches a night, would that do it, and if it would, how long do you think it would take? Thank you!!! (link)
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I can't really help you on how long it would take, but I can give a good tip on how to do it. Use one of those big rubber inflatable balls. (The kind that is used to exercise with) Do your crunches laying backwards on that ball and do them nice and slow, and I guarentee it won't take too long. I do it, it hurts and it works.
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I know this isn't the best of questions, but I was curious after talking to some people. I was walking around the neighborhood and some people were smoking ciggs, and black & milds. They were all about 16 or 17, so I was like "aren't you guys too young" But then a friend of mine told me that you can be 16 to smoke Black & Milds, and 16 to smoke ciggs, but you have to be 18 to buy them. Is that true? I live in NC so like if state laws are different, that may help, but I was just curious about it.
Also are black & milds just flavored ciggerettes (sp?) I used to think they were illegal, but after seeing lots of people smoking them in public I just kind of picked up that they weren't. Anyway, I know it's not a very smart questions, but it was just a thought I was hoping could be answered. (link)
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Well, I'm from Texas and i know that here you have to be 18 to purchase, posess, or consume any tobacco products. It doesn't really stop many minors from using it, but I do know it's against the law.
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Everyone's asking questions about cutting. Do they mean that they're literally taking knives and cutting their flesh? If not, what do they mean then? If so, why the hell would they do that? It makes no sense. (link)
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*If I offend anybody with this advice, then I'm sorry. If you're offended because you're Goth or you cut yourself, then shut up and get help.
Cutting is something that Goth kids like to do so that they can compare scars and talk about how the scars on their flesh are nothing compared to the 'scars on their souls.' It's a pathetic cry for attention from people who like to whine about how much life sucks but lack the testicular fortitude to maybe try to improve their life or just kill themself like they always talk about doing.
It's pointless and anybody who would do that either doesn't think or has a learning disability.
*Once again, sorry to any normal people who I offended. If you have a learning disability and you were offended, get over it, I have ADD too.
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hi. i`m quite confuse on how to use - in the morning, in the afternoon, in the evening and at night. why we use "in" in the morning why not "in" night? please explain. thank you very much.
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Well, you could say "In the night." The normal phrase would be 'at night,' but it really doesn't make any sense in its literal meaning. Sorry, English is messed up.
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Ok so theres this guy, hehe and he's really sexy, how can I possibly and truly show him that he is?
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A lot of physical contact is good, not necessary in a sexual way, just touch him a lot. Put your hand on his arm, his leg, his chest, where ever you'd like. Also tell him that he is. Either he's a guy with no self-esteem and he'll think you're just flattering him, or if he has any confidence, he'll be very complimented. Pretty much any way that you can show with your actions that you're attracted to him, even with body language, if he's smart enough, will be to the highest effect.
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Now I have a comment to make and a question. Everyone will tell you how you shouldn't go for the sex and you shouldn't like the cuter guy. Now I know I live out the parts about the cuter guy being nice and all that. Everyone tells you not to do stuff, but in the end you end up not taking their advice at all. You end up doing the opposite. For instance I asked a question about should I like the boy who I've known since kindergarden or the hott one that goes to a diff school. Everyone says that the guy whos hott is a jerk but hes not. My point is it just cracks me up because you all waste your time writing how you shouldn't do things but in the end everyone always does the opposite. So whats with it? It's point less when people say follow your heart well you wouldn't be asking a question if you could!
So whats with all of this?
(I put it under sex cause people always answer the questions on sex) (link)
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Well, if you ask questions, then do the opposite of the advice given, you're still getting advice. You may not be taking the advice that people are telling you, but what they say is helping you decide. If somebody says that you shouldn't date the hot guy because he's a jerk, then you read that and you think "No, he's not a jerk, he's funny(or whatever he is)." and there you go, you've just made your decision.
For those who really know how to use this site, they'll realize that this site isn't for people to tell you what to do, it's for people to offer suggestions and advice, and you make what you will of it. They tell you something, you read it and think about it, and you decide yourself.
That's what's with all of this.
And when people say follow your heart, that might mean that you didn't give enough information and your question depends too much on your circumstances.
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There is a gal at skool and fancies my best m8 i fancy her but he does aswell i want 2 let him take her but when ever i try 2 forget i get angry coz i gt a bad temper what shall i do i want him 2 have her and me 2 forget her
if u have msn add me
errol_rules@hotmail.com (link)
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I've been there too man, it sucks. You just gotta step out and leave it up to your friend. Realize that you've got more pride than to try to steal a girl from your best friend. Just find yourself another lady, and if you really want to, you can just wait and see if your friend messes up, then you can move in.
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What does it mean when people say I want to bone you or I wanted to bone her? (link)
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"Bone" is short for boner, which is a slang term for a man's erection.
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Hello. . .19/f here with a problem...
I met this guy about 2 months ago. We've already had sex, and we act like a couple to an extent. . spending a lot of time with each other, kissing/cuddling/ect, talking on the phone for hours... He has told me that he cares for me and loves me.
He's afraid to be in a relationship, though, because his last (very serious) girlfriend cheated on him with his brother and is now pregnant with his brother's baby. He doesn't trust anyone. He has admitted to me, though, that he holds back some of his feelings for me.
Some days, he's very sweet to me and wants to be around and is very affectionate. Other days, he's kind of cold and shuts me out a little bit. Either way, he wants to hang out; it's just the way he acts around me that varies.
He has bi-polar disorder. I'm begining to think that maybe this disorder, although medicated, is making him act this way.
So these are my questions.
1. Does anyone have manic depression/bi-polar disorder? If you do, can you tell me how this disorder effects your social skills?
2. I want to be in a relationship with him, but I don't know how to help him take that extra step to trust me. He says "I love you, but i'm not in love with you. I don't think I could be in love with anyone." How can I help him stop holding back?
I'll rate you highly if you at least try to help.
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I'm very sorry that you are having this trouble. I wish I could offer more advice than this, but I can't.
I'm not bi-polar or have manic depression, but I do know a couple people that are and I have some experiences with some pretty strange people.
I can tell you though that with time, he'll begin to trust you and he wont hold back any longer.
If you stick with it, it's gonna be hard, but if you love him, it'll be worth it.
I'm sorry that I couldn't give better advice, I hope what I said can help a little in some way.
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yo i have a friend (whos a girl) and im a dude (of course) and shes like my best friend, she helps me when i feel like every1 hates me. i really truly do love her. but i very well doubt she likes me can u help me express my feelings without losing my best friend or at least not sorta freakin her out?
signed,
loves but not loved (link)
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Tell her. I have been in that situation literally like a half-dozen times.
Just tell her, but be cautious about it. Just let her know that you've been thinking alot about it and you've realized that you like her more than you had thought, and in a different way.
If you're really best friends, then even if she isn't interested in a relationship, you'll still be friends. She might act a little uncomfortable for a while, I'd say a few weeks at most, but you'll still be friends, and she'll warm back up to you quick enough.
If she does like you back, then you need to be careful not to jump in and smother her, and you have to be careful not to change too much too quick.
Hope I helped. Good luck.
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What caused the French and Iniand war? (link)
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The early Americans and the French both wanted the Ohio valley.
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I am in the 10th grade and I have been thinking about what I want to be when I leave college. I now have discovered that I might look into being a psychologist. Can anyone help me find like websites that will help me research more about this. Thank you (link)
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I'm a junior and I'm considering taking psychology in college too, but I don't think I'll be making a career out of it, I already know what I'm doing, and that's not it.
Anyways, I think this site should help, I know it helped me.
http://www.allpsychologyschools.com/
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alright guys. well. tonight i think i'm going to the movies with my boyfriend. and he wants to see into the blue. you know the one with jessica alba and the REALLY hott guy with the nice 6pack abs? alright. well the problem is that if we go i know the whole time he'll be like in his head thinking goddamn she's so fine blahblah about jessica alba. but i'm not like that when i'm with him. and i bet that later on he'd tell me how hot she looked in different sceens and stuff. so i'm like... well i'll see if i can go to that one even though i really don't want to.
i really don't think thats a "couples" movie.
thats like. horny guy alone. do you agree?
and if like you were me (if you're a girl) would it bother you that like he'll talk about that stuff after the movie, when he know's that you wont talk about how hot the guys is?
please help as soon as you can. (link)
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Well, I'm not a lady, but I can tell you that it's pretty sad for your boyfriend to be saying that. It would take a guy who's either very stupid or a total pig to say things like that to his girlfriend.
I actually did see this movie with my girlfriend, and it went fine. She just made fun of the movie every time there was a close-up on Jessica Alba's backside(which is a few times more than necessary, I think).
So, I would say that it's a fine movie to see with a date, so long as your date has enough class not to be commenting about the lead actress' physique. And if he doesn't, and I hate to have to say something like this, then I would say you should find your self a different date. You deserve better than that.
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Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
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You've had sex with one guy two times and you've been together for two years. I don't think that makes you a slut in any way, though I do think that's a very young age to be so involved. If you really feel like you need to tell your mom, then just sit her down and tell her. I'm sure she's not gonna be happy to hear it, but what can you expect? I really wouldn't advise telling them, but you didn't ask about that. The most you can do about your father is tell your mother and ask her not to tell your father, which is far from a guarentee, but then again, I wouldn't suggest telling your parents in the first place.
One last very important thing is that you need to be safe. If you choose to have sex at the age of 13, then that's your choice, but you need to be safe about it and use birth control or a condom. But I'm sure you already knew that and already do.
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I don't have a whole lot of money, and I Don't know how to get his attention without being sexual. (link)
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I can't really tell you that. I don't know either of you, I don't know what he would like or what you would like. You should know what to do if you've been together for 6 months.
All I can say is just to talk to him. Aside from that, I can't really help you.
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OK, I'm super fustrated, Like I said before I really do Love him,we've been together for 6 or so months, but he's messed up a smidge and I don't know how to get over it, but all I really want to do is forget about it and make up. How can I show him that i love him? I don't think he gets it.
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Well, chances are, he's gonna mess up some. Nobody's perfect, and guys have a tendency of messing up even beyond that. If he's sorry and he loves you, then you just need to realize that he made a mistake. Really the only way you can 'forget about it and make up' is if you do just that. Nobody can help you with that but you. And to show him that you love him, just tell him. Tell him you love him, be affectionate, show him how much he means to you. It's really very simple. Do special things for him, if he still doesn't get it, then I guess he just needs time.
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I have been going out with is cute guy 4 about 2 weeks. But when we were friendz I liked him better than now. He is so serious now. He never talks to me, calls me, & sometimes ignores me! It makes me feel ugly! :( I am getting very mad at him. I don't know why he is like this. I mean I want the old guy that I used to know that would cut up and laugh and everything! Not a guy who completely ignores me!! Please Help! (PLEASE No smarts!) 13/F (link)
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As a guy, I think I'd advise you to just talk to him about it. DO NOT go and profess your love to him. It really doesn't sound like this guy's ready for a 'love' thing. Just ask him why he changed and try to work it out together. Chances are, he's just not sure how to be a boyfriend. Talk to him, maybe he just needs a bit of help, or a bit of advice.
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Can a passionate love-hate relationship work out? (link)
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A love-hate relationship cannot work out in the long-term.
This is to say that you won't spend your life with somebody in a love-hate relationship.
That aside, this relationship could be the best short period relationship you could ever have. The passion in a love-hate relationship is intense, but very destructive. You'll likely have the time of your life, but it will soon crash and burn.
If you're unsatisfied with my answer, or you have further questions, feel free to ask more.
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