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Drifting
I have been going out with is cute guy 4 about 2 weeks. But when we were friendz I liked him better than now. He is so serious now. He never talks to me, calls me, & sometimes ignores me! It makes me feel ugly! :( I am getting very mad at him. I don't know why he is like this. I mean I want the old guy that I used to know that would cut up and laugh and everything! Not a guy who completely ignores me!! Please Help! (PLEASE No smarts!) 13/F
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You should at least try to talk to him about it. But to me not to sound harsh or anything but it sounds like he doesnt care or want to be around you and really doesnt want to go out with you but doesnt want to tell you that because he doesnt want to hurt your feelings or your friendship. So just ask him if he likes going out with you or does he perfer to be friends. If so take it from there and see where things go.
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you should definently talk to him about it, because you don't want to just go on in this situation do you?
maybe he's thinking the same thing that you are. maybe he also thinks that it was just easier when you two were friends.
you should first just talk to him, and then wait for about 1 or 2 weeks to see how it goes, and if doesn't change then you should brake up with him.
if it just doesn't go well and you want to brake up with him, then do it really nicely and explain to him why you want to brake up. just say that it was easier when you two were just friends.
if you do brake up with him, then it'll probably be awkward for a while, but it'll get back to normal sooner or later, so don't worry.
when you talk to him, you should talk to him really nicely in person, so that you can see his facial expressions, to kind of get the idea of how he feels about everything.
just say that you feel like he's mad at you or something, because he never calls you or talks to you, it he acts sort of serious now. tell him that he seemed more happier and nicer to you when you two were just friends.
just see what his reaction is about that, and if he says he'll try to do better or say something positive like that, then give him another chance.
but if he says that it's just different now or something negetive like that, then you should probably brake up with him.
and by the way, this has nothing to do with you being ugly, so you shouldn't feel ugly because of this!
~hope i helped!~
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you should definently talk to him about it, because you don't want to just go on in this situation do you?
maybe he's thinking the same thing that you are. maybe he also thinks that it was just easier when you two were friends.
you should first just talk to him, and then wait for about 1 or 2 weeks to see how it goes, and if doesn't change then you should brake up with him.
if it just doesn't go well and you want to brake up with him, then do it really nicely and explain to him why you want to brake up. just say that it was easier when you two were just friends.
if you do brake up with him, then it'll probably be awkward for a while, but it'll get back to normal sooner or later, so don't worry.
when you talk to him, you should talk to him really nicely in person, so that you can see his facial expressions, to kind of get the idea of how he feels about everything.
just say that you feel like he's mad at you or something, because he never calls you or talks to you, it he acts sort of serious now. tell him that he seemed more happier and nicer to you when you two were just friends.
just see what his reaction is about that, and if he says he'll try to do better or say something positive like that, then give him another chance.
but if he says that it's just different now or something negetive like that, then you should probably brake up with him.
and by the way, this has nothing to do with you being ugly, so you shouldn't feel ugly because of this!
~hope i helped!~
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As a guy, I think I'd advise you to just talk to him about it. DO NOT go and profess your love to him. It really doesn't sound like this guy's ready for a 'love' thing. Just ask him why he changed and try to work it out together. Chances are, he's just not sure how to be a boyfriend. Talk to him, maybe he just needs a bit of help, or a bit of advice.
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Wow.. sound like me and my guy.. but this isnt about me and him.. listen!! The best thing for you to do is tell him that you love him.. and tell him that you want him to pay more attention to you and be like a best friend to you again.. if he doesnt understand it much then tell him that you guys will be better apart then.. i kno it will break youu and his heart but then you can try out other guys and still be a great friend with the other guy. But if you boyfriend or ex boyfriend makes fun of you just laugh it off and when he is actually being nice, remind him of all the good times you had with him. It usually always words. I hope i helped a little.
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Umm tell him something loving like "I like you a lot but you havent been paying much attention to me and i really want you to" and if your to embarressed to say it, write it in a note, with small pink hearts and put shiny lipstick on and kiss the paper and stuff.. and at the bottom when you write LOVE write it in BIG pink or red letters.. haha i hope i helped uuu!!!
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From my experience, guys like this aren't ready for relationships. He probably doesn't know how to act like the boyfriend that you deserve to have. More than likely, he's ignoring you because he doesn't know what to say or do now that you're in a relationship. He's being serious (most likely) because he doesn't want you to think he's stupid. I think you'd be better off to give this guy his walking papers before you get so mad at him that it completely destroys the friendship.
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hmmm i think you should tell him about this and sit him down and say what's wrong? if he says nothing why? say i just been noticing you been acting very different how? you just havent been your slef your a little uieter. if it doesn't work there is some one lot better for both of you :)
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