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Hi there!!! My name is Bianca, I'm 15 and I loove Tae Kwon Do and i LOVE SPONGEOB!, I go to High school and I'm currently a Junior. Well in my spare time I enjoy doing sports and going out with my friends. I am out-going and I am a burst of energy and I love making people laugh. But I can be pretty helpful once it gets to advice. I'm currently single and I am a karate instructor. I live near Miami and I am Cuban. I have been through so much and I can probably help with anyone's problems! I hope I can help you in many ways please rate my advice! It helps me!

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ok i need a good dance mix or w/e that i can get online for a dance rutine (lmao i cant spell) ok but yea i need a good beat n shit for one of my dances so if u guys have ne good songs i can download please help me out

Oh I know Siarra (or how you ever you spell it) it goes like this in the begging i dunno what the song's called
I think it's
-THIS BEAT IS automatic supersonic, hypnotic, funkyfresh...(dunno the rest) lol it's a good beat and foor for dance routines
Hope I helped! :) -Bianca

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does anyone know what would be a good outfit and makeup combination 4 skool dance? ill give ratings. thanxs

For a school dance hmm, probably get an outfit that was meant to be an outfit meaning like when you go to the mall and there's a shirt and then underneath is a matching bottom. Like that or like maybe a peach top and light blue jeans with a peach belt and for the makeup use natural colors to go along with your outfit like peach and light browns. Hope I helped! :) -Bianca

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ok im 13/m & im 4'9 & about 80 pounds well i wunted to know if im underweight or somthing b/c ive been like this since like the 5th grade.Im very muscular b/c i have a six pack i have big nice biceps & triceps & my legs r pretty muscular to ive played sports ever since i was 4 years old & i started working out this year.My gurlfriend says my body is fine & she loves it but i jus wunt to make sure i dont have any health problems or if im underweight. please help i'll give 5's

Yeah I think you are underweight. The thign is is that apparently the 80 pounds that you have are all muscle and bones. You need to have some meat on those bones girl! Do you eat much? But I don't think it's that bad of a health problem you just have to eat more becuz wen i was 13 i weighed like 105 or something like that and I'm skinny and muscual too from karate. Send me the feedback on everything. Hope I helped Bianca/HunniBunni

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I had a dream about my bestfriend (he's a guy) ok well i had a dream about my bestfiend this is what happened:I the dream we are like 17 or 18 still i high school.(but we really ar 13&14)we were on the phone then he asked me to come over and i did.Then we were in his apartment hanging out.Then this wome around the age of 40 came over.I openedthe doorand then he(my bestfriend) asks me to leave so i do but i come back and i see them 2 having sex!!And when i see him at school (in my dream the next day)im am so mad at im and i yell at him and push him but he is still there then h grabsmy shouldes and looks me in the eye.that all im cofued i dont know why i was s madcn you tell me what this might mean.thanx

It probably means that you like this guy and you want to have a relationship but your afraid that he might want a another girl or cheat on you with another girl because he kicked you out, get it? I don't think that her age made any difference it just resembled maybe in the future you two will be together, and your just scare that he will cheat on you. I hope I helped. Send me some feedback if ya want. -Bianca/HunniBunni

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I'm a 14 yr old female and I'm having trouble on what gifts to get for guys. Girls are so easy (most of the time) to get presents for. But guys...ugh...that's a different story. lol. What kind of present would a guy want? It seems like most of my friends are guys this year, which doesn't make getting presents any easier.

And...there is this one guy that asked me out a while ago. I didn't deny him, but I told him I thought we should hang out more and see how it goes. We've been hanging out a lot now and I'm pretty sure I like him as much as he likes me now. Everyone already thinks we're going out. What kind of gift do you think I should get him?

Get your guy a nice jersey ask him what his favorite team is, or you can get him something as simple as Chocolate, guys never get tired of chocolate. I gave my guy friends colone. That's a good one. Ya know something that will show that you care for him. Hope I helped! :)
-Bianca/HunniBunni

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does anyone know any good poem sites? because i wanted to add some to mybuddy4u.....thanx in advanced...

www.famouspoet.com I think that's what it's called. Hope I helped :D

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Ok I've got a boyfriend who I love and who loves me but lately he's been really confusing me because he flirts with two of my best friends and it makes me jelous even if he's mine anyway he keeps smoking weed and injects himself with heroin but i don't who if he's telling the truth but he's got little marks on his arm and I'm really worried about him if it's true he could die and I know Id be really upset if he died how can I talk to him about it because he thinks it's cool and his mate does it to

first of all any guy who injects them self with heroin and smokes weed, is a loser. I'm sorry even if he's your bf it's wrong and he needs to get a life and realize what he's doing is wrong. The way to tell him is express your feelings and tell him how much your care for him and tell him not to do it. Ansd if he flirts with your friends and your friends are flirting back I think that there both no good, your bf should pay attention to you and only you and your friends should brush him off and they should of told you that he is flirting with them. It's wrong you need to either get over him and get with someone that picks the right choices or just let your life qwith him keep going. Send me feedback on this or anything else! Hope I helped ya! :) -Bianca/HunniBunni

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srry if this is long but
there is this kid in my school and he is shorter me and not very good lookin but i still lik him alot and no one understands and ppl always make fun of me for likin him and i already went out wif him lik 3 times b4 and he dumped me all the times but i still rely lik him and alot of ppl make fun of me for it and i hate how no one understands mee

how can i get them 2 stopp??

I think it's gerat that you like soemone shorter than u and less attractive, it shows that your not shallow probably like those people that make fun of you. I used to like someone shorter than me, but I got over him for some reason. Still apparently if this guy keeps dumping u he doesn't realize wut a good person you really are and he doesn't know wut he's missing. I still think it's great that your not shallow because more than half of the people on this earth are! They probably won't stop making fun of you unless you just stop liking him. Or agree with them about it i was made fun of just for stupid things like, liking someone ugly, or something like that and I was jsut like "yeah i no, yeah there hot" and they get annoyed that I'm not be offended by it and they stop trust me it always works!. I Hope I helped. Oh and send me some feedback k! I wanna c how everything works out or just ask me anymore questions! :) -Bianca/HunniBunni

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srry if this to long but i rely need help

my two best freinds used to be best freinds till they got into a really big fite are not freinds anymore so lik when ever i hang out wif 1 of them my other friend will get mad at me n stuff lik that and i no for a fact they will never become friends again cuz the fite they got into was a huge fite

how can i hang out wif 1 freind w/o the other 1 gettin madd??

ok first of all there's always a way to patch up a friendship that's wut happened with me and my best friend cept me and her got in a big fight and my other friend was in the middle, she ended gettin us both on the fone and w just let it all out! She let us fight on the fone but wen it was her turn, she told us how stupid were acting and stuff and we ended up being fine. But really there is probably no way for you to hang out with one and not let the other get mad, becuz there will always be a tension between all of u, the only thing you can do it patch up the relationship and tell them how you feel about them fighting stupidly, and that they need to fix the relationshipbadly or your gunna be the one getting hurt and being split up by friends. they will understand and probably make an effort to talk to eachother. Everything will be fine. Hope I helped and send me feedback! -Bianca/HunniBunni

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ok i found out this guy liked me and like i like him so i wrote him a note askin him but he said he wanted 2 ask this other girl out so i was ok im cool wuteer n then his friend wrote this note makin it look like it was from him n it said i dont like i nvr liked u and like i didnt noe wut 2 say after i read that n i got tha note on monday so on friday i decided to write him a note sayin lets 4git aboot this and lets be friends and he told my friend that he doesnt want 2 b my friend and that he wishes he nvr met me. I feel like shit and i want to b his friend but he wont talk to me like after i found out wut he said i tried 2 talk to him but he walked faster away wut shood i do to get his friendship back and 4git this ever happened b.c im practically in tears please help srrie its long

Signed: broken heart

Aww, don't feel bad obviously this guy is just a jackass. I don't think he will want to be his friend, he probably thinks he's being cool, doing that. And don't cry for a guy, there nothing really. But maybe there's hope, you just gotta talk to him, tell him that it's really important and maybe he will listen, oh and if his friend wrote the note that shows that he has no balls at all and he needs his friend to do everything for him, but maybe his friend didn't want you and this guy to have a relationship so he wrote that so you can forget about him. Send me feedback not just on this but on anything! HOPE I HELPED. :) -Bianca

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o0k well you see i like this guy, that well my friends dont approve of. they say he's such a kid and he's immature and stuff. my friends go for the older, hot, guys with nice cars, this guy that i like well, his name is osama. funny huh? its actually kinda creepy, lol but well a while back, we're freshman, in the begginning of the year, he and my friend joe were in a fight, it was about a month ago and osama punched joe and things have been really shaky between them. but now i see him around and we make eye contact and i think i like him, i think about him a lot. my friends think im crazy and its 'just a 'phase' ' and stuff so yeah i dont know how to tell joe. osama doesnt even know who i am, our school is realy big. he's not cute or anything and i've never really talked tohim, but there's just something mysterious about him that gets me. but yesterday i told my friend if she knows him and she said yeah and i told her to find out if he has a gf and i told her i think hes pretty cute, and well today she told me she told him, and now today he went around asking everyone if they know me. he only knows my name. so hes trying to find me out, and i dont know what to do. i mean my friend joe, its gonna be tough on him and so what do i do about the whole situation? should i just come up to him sometime next time i see him and talk to him or should i forget about him or what? please help!?! ill rate you, thanks.

.p.s.i ii rate good!~!~`!!!! =)))))))

First of all, if your friends were really your friends they would support anyone you like, and I mean I used to like a guy that wasn't so cute, but my friends really understood me and they approved, but if your friends don't approve on that, then there not very good friends. I'd say if you like Osama and you can't stop thinking about him then go for it! Obviously you know what your doing and that's the type of guy you like! Ok now the Joe thing, I think you should actually talk to him about it! I know it's gonna be tough but, if you and Osama go out with eachother he's going to find out the hard way. I don't think you should stop liking Osama just because your friend doesn't like him, it makes no sense. I went out with guy's my friend's didn't like. They were still my friends, the only thing they had to do was ignore the kid and don't talk to them. Once you start getting the hang of being with Osama, it will be easy to maintain your friends and your boyfriend. And get Osama's phone number girl! Talk to him more and set up little dates, because the more you guy's talk the more he'll like you! And the reason that you like him and he's not that attractive is cuz your not shallow! You actually look inside instead of just out. Hope I helped! Sorry it's so long lol. SEND ME SOME FEEDBACK, on anything not just that. I'm here to help! :D
-Bianca

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hey i just got fake nails and they are starting to eat my fingers, i ripped them off but i woke uo the next morning to see those nasty buggars still on my hands!! what do i do? just rip them off cut um up and burn them or leave them on and lose my fiiijersnnerrssffdssss....oh no...my figners!

Cut those babies off and burn them to hell! lol, they are possessed or something lol. oh and for the nails thing it might not be that there eating your nails, it brobably cuz the glue is still on your fingers and it looks gross, you just have to use a buffer or a file and file your nail not the top part the nail, and use alcohol too, it might help! Hope I helped! Send me back some Feedback!
-Bianca

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What would you do if you liked a guy and you asked him out? He said that he would tell me Monday because I had to go. I don't know if he likes me, but all the others guys do not like me and think I'm a weird psychotic,crazy,mental person. PLEEZ HELP ME! Thanks!

Well first of all, it depends on the guy, do you flirt with him a lot? Is he popular because if he is popular, it is more than usual that he will turn you down or lead you on. The reason those guy's call you those names is because there probably being shallow and thinking that there "cool" when really there the ones that are being uncool. Send me feeback with the info! Hope I helped. Rate me!

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I have a crush on a teacher of mine and I can't get over him. What should I do?

Holy cow a teacher, first of all if you have a crush on a teacher apparently your young and he's old..(good way to stay the obvious) but seriously, even if you did have a relationship with this teacher it is illegal and against the law and if you really care about him THEN U WOULDN'T WANT TO GET HIM INTO JAIL if your with him. Make sure you mind your distance becuz people realize things quickly and spread roomers and then the teacher will be fired and u wont see him again :O! But really it is only puppy love, and he's is probably to old for you. Write me some feedback. Hope I helped! Rate me!

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heyy! im 13 yr. old girl.. ok so i had this friend and she was my best friend since kindergarden.. we were friends from kindergarden to 5th grade .. then came middle school .. she became somewhat popular somehow .. but she was trying wayy to hard .. anways im in 8th grade now and its only the begining of the 2nd marking period .. she has been mean and stuck up and a bitch to me .. i get upset sometimes (i dont cry but her being me to me hurts bcuz we were friends for so long) and like should i be upset or am i jealous? plz helpp !

Oh wow, i was put in the SAME position!! I don't think that your jelous or anything. Apparently you made a change t the better and she made a change to the worst. I had a friend like that only we were best friends since 3rd. Now I'm in 9th grade and I have her in my 6th period. I was talking to her online for a change and she said that she feels bad that we don't talk and things, and now me and her are working up to being good friends. Soon she will relaize what she is missing and want to come back. Trust me on this, most people realize there mistakes and fix them when they get older, but this dosen't mean not to give her a chance, because apparently she wants to be your friends and she is giving your friendship a chance, and you can also talk to her and ell her how you feel and if she doesn't listen fight back, becuz apparenlty that's the only way to get through to her. Hope I helped!. Write me feedback! Rate me!

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At school a few weeks ago, I walked into the assistant principlals office to get my locker combination because I couldn't remember it. While I am in there, the assistant principal takes me into her office and informs me that several teachers and staff that walked into the office said that it smelled of alcohol, and that the strong scent of alcohol was coming from me! She asked if I would be willing to take a breath alizer test and I told her yes, I will take one. Well, I obviously passed the test and then she kept talking about how strong the smell is. I told her I couldn't smell anything! I told her that maybe it's the halls in my mouth that is making the room smell like alcohol, but we both agreed that a tiny little halls can not stink up the whole room with a strong scent of alcohol. So, she brings me all the way out to the front of the school so I can smell fresh air and then back into her office, and I informed her that I still can't smell any alcohol. She was very surprised at this, and kept saying how the smell of alcohol was so strong. She asked if I smoke cigarettes. I told her yes. She asked if I had them on me. I told her no. She asked if I could prove it. I confessed that I did have cigarettes and a lighter on me, but I do not smoke in school and I only carry them on me because I walk home from school and smoke on the way home. She then, searched my things just to be sure, but she asked if she could beforehand. I didn't have anything else on me, and then she suspended me for 3 days. Well, just yesterday, I got a letter in the mail ordering me to court for this. For having cigs and a lighter at school. I just wanted to know..do I have an argument? Was she allowed to do all those things? Do I have any argument at all? I'll rate 5 for everyone. I really need help on this.

You definetly have a arguement, she really had no reason to go through all of that, and I don't think it's fair that she could do that. You didn't have alcohol on your or in your breathe. Ciggarettes don't have anythign to do wit Alcohol and it didn't seem like it smelled like Smoke, she was just tryng to get something out of you just to know if you have cigs, i dont know what was herproblem bcuz if you smoke or not it is none of her bussiness plus. Smoking is BAD don't do it!

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my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends?

My friends do that a lot, but I know I can trust them bcuz, when I really need them they come, but you don't have to tell every single one of your friends who you like, it's personal and it gives you a sense of security like only you know it, but you shouldn't tell them if you don't want to. If you have to hesitate to tell them who you like don't do it becuz if there a goof friend then no hesitation should come what so ever

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is it weird for a grl to ask out a guy?

Oh wow I have been thinking about this question for so long! And I totally think that that is a load of crap. I mean honestly if you like a guy well enough and he likes you back. It shouldn't seem weird to any couple. It just shows that a girl for a chance is making the first move for a change. There's nothing wrong with that! Hope I helped. Rate me! :)

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y do girls stereotype guys so much? I mean, we may think about "stuff" some of the time, but girls always jus automatically assume thats wat guys r thinking about 24/7. And u also always assume that in a relationship, the guy is always wanting one thing and he will always make the first moves towards it. And another thing that bothers me is y girls are such feminist. ok, back then guys were thought to be superior to girls, but now days we r equal. however, lots of girls are always arguing how they have to go through so much pain, or how they have to endure so many more hardships. it really annoys me. And also, y is it always sexist if a guy does something or says something to a girl, but no one cares if a girl does or says something about a guy? i mean, a male teacher can favor guys and not pay much attention to girls, and automatically he is sexist and fired....but a female or male teacher can favor girls, and no one cares b/c no one thinks that is sexist except the guys who are on the short end of the stick. i jus want to know y.

Well first of all, it is usually the guys who are the one's who are thinking about sex first. Although girls think about it, I heard that guys think about sex every 10 seconds which I think is a load of crap. Girls, when we say that we go through so much more pain than you we reall just want to go through all the pain when it happen's and I guess the battle against sex's are still up because of the hole deal that woman can't work and all, there are many feminists in the world and still are, we just don't want to hav to go through all of those things again. It sort of gives us a comfort in our live. HOPE I HELPED!! :)

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the drugs in question are legal, OTC drugs, but my boyfriend is completely over-reacting on the matter. they are harmless but he has some kind of paranoia about them. what should i tell him to ease his fears so i can expand my mind?

NO DRUGS ARE GOOD DRUGS, I have nothing to say about calming your boyfriends fears because I totally agree with him, I mean doing drugs is basically thorwing your life away, I have never been in the position of drugs and hopefully I never will, it really can hurt you and mess up with your head. I mean I'm not saying DONT DO IT OR YOU'LL DIE! but i mean it's not good for you, but if you want to try things out you can just to know how it feels, it helps. But truly if you feel that you want to do those drugs then go ahead and do it, just in my opinion, it's no use

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