So, for those that didn't read my previous question, it might be a good idea.
But basically, I dated this guy two years ago. I was 16 going on 17 and he was 17 just turning 18. We had a good relationship. Dated 6-7 months. I don't know if I loved him or not..but I definitely had strong feelings for him.
So, I broke up with him because lack of communication and we were fighting basically for three weeks. And afterwards, I told him how I shouldn't have made such a rash decision and I told him how I felt...three times since we've broken up. And three times I've been rejected or given bullshit answers.
ANYWAYS, that's the short story and like I said, reading my previous question would be a good thing. :) AND, fyi, he was a great boyfriend, not controlling or anything, we had a great relationship except the last three weeks of it.
SO, last week, he messaged me after not talking to me for well over 6 months. He came over. We were wrestling/flirting/tickling eachother. We made out and I had butterflies in my stomach. I stopped in the middle and asked him why he kissed me (which I didn't mind at all) and he said that he still had feelings for me and that he's been wanting to kiss me since the last time he saw me (which was the last time I told him I still had feelings for him...which I got rejected...again because he was getting over his psychotic ex-girlfriend).
So then, we kept talking all last week and I invited him over to my house this past Saturday night. I waited at my house for him to come over, and finally I messaged him around 9pm to see what he was doing and he said he was an hour away and forgot to tell me that. Btw, I'm now 19 and he's 20.
He ended up coming over around 10:30-11 Saturday night when he got home and we watched a movie, wrestled/tickled/flirted and we made out for hours. I loveee kissing that boy.
But that was Saturday night. He hasn't text me at all & I don't know why.
I haven't told him how I felt, but I'm sure it's pretty obvious. And he usually texts me everyday as of lately just to see how my day is going, which I like the fact that he does that. The only time that I have text him first is the time that he was supposed to come over and I said "Hey, what's up?"
I haven't text him at all, and I don't want to. Since he's the one who approached me this time around, I want to make it a challenge for him. He needs to fight for what he wants. I'm already putting my heart out there to see what happens, but I'm being careful with it. I don't trust him with it because the last few times I have been rejected by him, so it's weird that he's been doing this. But, I don't understand why he hasn't text me.
We are not virgins and we didn't lose our virginities to eachother, we have both dated other people. He is the boy that has always had that soft spot in my heart. I'm playing hard-to-get but I'm not being a total bitch about it either.
And also, he didn't have any classes today, or work. UGH. And I don't expect him to jump into a relationship...although it's been like 6 months since his ex-girlfriend. I haven't mentioned anything about a relationship. And I definitely haven't told him how I feel...but we've made out so it's not like I'm not giving him a chance. So what the hell is going on!?!
SO, why do you think he hasn't called/text me?
Well to me it seems that he has feelings for you. Why he isn't texting you I'm not sure. Guys are always busy and they like playing games with us. Perhaps he is sorting out his feelings, maybe he has a girl friend you never know? He doesn't seem very trustworthy but you care about him he means a lot to you. Don't give up on him just yet, but maybe messaging him or calling him would be the best. Ask, him why he hasn't tried/or haven't had time to contact you. You don't just make out with a person and ignore them? Very childesh and you guys are adults. So, he needs to realize his feelings, and tell you about them and not lead you on. Give it a try
I hope I helped.
Emily
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my girlfriend cheated on me with her ex and everything is all screwed up now were still together but i dont trust her at all anymore im always wondering what she's doing and who she's talking to it doesnt help that she works at a bar to i mean i guess i still love her but it makes me sick just thinking about what she did how am i supposed to trust her again
That's horrible and I'm very sorry :/
You can't help that you feel that way, its your right to feel that way she betrayed you. None of its your fault. Make sure you talk with her tell her how you feel, tell her hoesntly that you can't really trust her anymore. Talking is the best remedy. It will take time but you will eventually trust her again, just as long as she promises to be faithful to you. Make sure you talk to her and let her know why you feel the way you do.
I hope I helped. >.<
Emily
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hi well this is hard for me but im 16 and have had sex with 14 mabe 15 people how high is my risk for an std. is is possible to me addicted to ask everytime i get mad or sad i always feel the need to have sex like its almost like i have to to feel better what do i do how i make my addiction go away. and also how high is my risk please i need help.
Hi >.<
I'm not going to judge you just starting off with tht..
You should probably get checked..for stds..there would be a very high risk of you getting stds..of course if you didn't use protection, and because you have done it so many times. I suggest you to talk to your parents..be hoenst with them..and see what they can do for you. :) They will do something..your there daughter they love you..they want you safe. Instead of having sex..try doing something else..to make you feel better..take a walk..write in a diary..sounds stupid but it helps..just try anything ..you will be alright and you will be helped..just believe in yourself XD If you need anymore help just message my inbox!Hope I
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So i used to like this guy since the beginning of the school year...five months later he found out from one of my friends that i liked him...we started talking and then ended up haning out...he doesn't drive so one of his friends was going to drive us to the movies....it was me, him, and a whole bunch of his other friends all squeezing in one car....we ended up going to one of his friend's houses and then all his friends left to go pick up their other friend...i didn't want to stay at the house alone with him because the whole time i was thinking...oh my gosh...i feel set up, i feel like they are are going to make up lies about the whole situation so we should have never stayed.....while we were at the house, we talked...and he ended up wanting to do stuff/get down...but i told him i'm not that type of girl that i have to get to know him....so we ended up just kissing/making out....a while later he decided that since i wasn't down for anything he was going to call his friend to come and get us....so they all came back...and they thought we had done something but we didn't do anything....the next day i started hearing all kinds of rumors that he had spread that he and i had gotten down and i had given him head!!! oh my gosh i was freaking out...but i decided to keep calm and just ignore it.....i knew he was just saying all that stuff to look cool.....so now a month later.....i hear more rumors that he is still talking about it saying that i was in love with him and the same things about us getting down...it really hurts me, and i have dealt and ignored with it long enough......so i feel like it time that i confront him about it....if you guys have any advice about the situation please tell me because i am so desperate to know what you guys think...i know the whole thing is my fault...i should have never agreed to go to his friends house and let them leave us there because anyone would think we were doing stuff...and i know no matter how hard i try people will keep thinking that..even though nothing happend....it just hurts to be called a slut, which is something i know i am not...i just don't know how to deal with this so whatever advice you guys might have thank you so much...sorry if this was long
First of all I would like to say, that I'm sorry this guy did all of this to you..you don't deserve this treatment at all..and this guy is very pathtic and imature. I think that confronting him would be the best. Tell him you had enough, and your done with him. Yes, it won't stop anything that happend..and your reputation..is pretty much messed up but if people see you confront him...they may believe you. The most important thing is that you know your not like that, and you KNOW your not a slut and you respect yourself..it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks. I hope I helped? >.<
good luck :)
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i was talking to this guy i like and hes been busy with work and we was texting he said he was going to bed so i said goodnight silly text me sometime even if its fuck you or something laugh out loud and he said ok next time i want to fuck ill holla laugh out loud jk(just kidding) i said laugh out loud your funny what i mean is text me sometime because i kno your busy but id like to hear from ya and that your still alive and kicking he said damn wasnt tryin to be funny laugh out loud ok i will get some rest. what does he mean by all of that?
Well..it means that he could like you..he was flirting...so yeah keep talking to him ..keep flirting..XD Hopefully you guys will go out lol ;)
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someone that I've been trying to impress for the longest time and I finally got him to talk to me the other day. There's all these rumors about him having sex with girls though and were only 15. And he even asked me for naked pictures. I finally sent 1. And now I regret it and I'm scared he might show someone, or it might get leaked out somehow. What do I do?
I have been in the same situation..and i know what you mean, and feel. I feel horrible about it..now..I don't do that anymore. It's illegal and..if you did do that u have to make sure you can trust that person. I just knew one of my friends had to change schools because she sent nude pictures to a guy..that was a total perv..his name was trevor. The person that pressured me into it his name was Jimmy..i feel for you..and its ok remmeber everyone makes mistakes. :) im sorry to say but there isn't much u can do..and thts wat hurts the most. ;/ Hopefully he won't show anyone. i hoped i helped..if want to ask me anything..just message my inbox XD
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im only 13 but all the girls at my school have huge boobs. i dont. so the guy i like wont notice me. should i stuff? or i am thinking of saving for implants. tell me what you think i should do please.
Omg hun..Do not STUFF your bra! It's quite obvious when someone does and you don't want to emabarras yourself like that do you? Your 13..you will grow..>.< It doesn't really matter if you have a big chest or not..to be real not al guys like big chested girls..>.< I wish I was smaller at the top haha I'm a 34B nd I rather be smaller...but please don't get implants..your to young for that. I hope i helped.
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my boyfriend of about a year keeps indirectly pressuring me to have sex with him and it bothers me. and i feel kinda guilty cause hes on the football team and he gets pressured from people and i know that. but i wouldnt do it because of that, but im just really feeling pressured now, even though i never thought i would. but im not ready yet, cause im only a junior in high school, and ive told him that im not ready yet. what should i do?
I understand about the foot ball thing but if he really loves you he won't pressure you into anything. If your not ready..your not ready. It's your body you know when your ready and if he won't wait, you don't deserve him as your bf. Don't do anything your not ready to do because you will regret it later. Don't feel guilty he should know how to handle the pressure, its hard but you can get threw it. I hope I helped and good luck ;)
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I'm 15 and have recently found out that I'm pregnant the guy wants nothing to do with it and i've been really stressed out about it, people keep saying you can hit yourself in the stomach and make yourself miscarriage is this true ? and what are the symptoms of miscarriage.. thank you
Alright..im 14.. and I'm not going to judge you here. People make mistakes..and i understand that..but please do NOT make yourself miscarriage.. that is a horrible thing to do. I don't believe in abortion but..i rather you get that than harming your baby yourself. Tell your parents..decide on what your going to do..but please do not harm that baby inside you. He/she shouldn't die because of your mistake..;/ i hope you take my opinions in consideration. god bless.
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what are some cute love songs?
ok..here's come..lol XD
love you so by natalie
heaven by dj sammy
we belong together by gavin degraw
truly madly deeply by savage garden
i knew i loved you by savage garden
rose by nlt
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I was waiting in the hallway with the other jazz band people to start our sectional class. We have to wait like an hour, so we sit there and drink the free sodas we get from the teachers who feel bad for us and listen to music. So this one guy was looking through my friends phone, and came across a name with over 200 texts messages sent to it; and this name with over 200 texts messages to it happened to be a huge crush of mine. The person who had been looking through my phone annouced that my friend sent a lot of text messages to this guy, and we were all laughing and I was saying "ooooooooh!!" . But then my friend pointed at me and said loudly "You have a crush on him!!" and then I think it got quieter. Then I started babbling, saying I didn't have a crush on him, and I could feel my face turning bright red. I was fully aware that the hallway was full of my crushes friends. After that the conversation shifted, and I realized how hurt I was. That friend, who blurted out my crush, is my best friend and we tell everyything to each other. And we pinky swear (or pointer swear, because my pinky hasn't bent right since band camp) that we'll never tell anyone about anything we want to keep private, like our crushes. And she completly broke our promise! We both tried pretending it never happened after that. But a half hour later, when I was getting up to go to my sectional, she pulled me over and said "I didn't mean what I said", and I got up and responded, without looking at her, "You still said it". She then called after me "And then the drama begins!" After my rehearsal, as I was packing up, she waved and playfully bumped into me, but i just ignored her. When I got in the car I saw that she had sent a text soon after she blurted out that crush apologizing. I responded with a long text explaining that it matter whether she meant it or not, what mattered is that she said it in a room full of his friends. I then told her she needed to fix her mistake, so she said she would convince my crushes friends that I didn't like him.
Should I trust that she will follow through?
How do I forgive her?
How do I see my crush tommorow in homeroom?
Should i start being more careful around my crush?
hey
Well this might sound stupid but ..you know this CAN be a good thing? If your crush does find out about your crush something good could happen? You never know. A lot of this happens to people with friends..they accidentally messed up and told..but i've been threw worse..haha my friend acutally wrote on a colored peice of tape "hey matt look here" and placed it on my back..and he saw it.. soo embarrasing..at least that didn't happen to you? She probably will follow threw but you don't know if the people will go along with it..there's proof that you like him..in your phone. Sense your friends it won't take you long to make up..it doesn't take me and my friends long to make up haha ;) When you see your crush in homeroom...i advise you to just stay away..act like nothing happend..or you could talk to him about it? Might help. If want to start being careful around him..but maybe you should try to get closer to him? Well..everything will work out...XD i hoped i helped! Goodluck
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16/f
On New Years Eve my friends and I went to my best friend's boyfriend's house. A bunch of his friends were there, they're seniors and my friends are juniors. I ended up flirting with his good friend who I always thought was really hot and there was just something about him but I had never even talked to him before that night. I never thought about being with him since he has had the same girlfriend since practically freshman year. I hear that he really doesn't like her, it's one of those things that they've been going out so long that it's just easier to be together until they go off to college...who knows. I was confused because yeah guys can be flirty even when they have gf's but he was SUPER flirty like trying to impress me, practically trying to get with me but not being so forward. I had such a good time with him, we really connected. BUT HE HAS A GF GRRR! I am not one to everrr break up a couple but I can't get him out of my mind. I feel like I'm passing up something that could be really special. Apparantely his gf said he could hook up with other girls just dont tell her about it...WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP IS THAT. UGH SO CONFUSED. I havent talken to him since. I pass him in the hall but we dont make eye contact...its weird. There were just so many things that showed he was so into me. What do you think I should do?? I cant even tell you what I felt, there was so much chemistry thats why I just cant seem to let it go.Just be honest. Thanks guys
Well, guys are really hard to figure out..we all no tht. hhaha Hmm..well that's a pretty good sign that he see's something in you. :) That's not really a relationship in my eyes? What girl friend lets someone hook up with other girls? That's horrible. I think they should break up. ;/ You don't have to break them up..just try getting closer to him..don't over do it..though you don't want trouble. Just try that out and if it doesn't work think about something else..you never know..he could do the same thing with u if you date? Try to hook up with other girls. Maybe he lied and said his gf don't mind it. ;/ You never know..just be care full and good luck.
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What are some cute nicknames for your boyfriend?
Hey well from my past relationship his nickname was hunnybunny..and mine was cuppycake XD
The relationship im in now.. he calls me many names..like angel, dirty angel rofl >.> ..i call him louie..lmao because his names Lou..hmm you can call him baby boy..babe, baby, cookie monster..lmao..marshmellow..lol i don't know anything else..XD
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im 15 years old. and weigh about 165 pounds. i hate everything about me. im fat and ugly. my sisters 19 and i hate seeing her. shes so pretty and skinny. but everyone says we look exactly alike. i think im suffering from depression. i need help. its not normal to hate urself. i hate myself. i wish i was dead sometimes. people call me fat and ugly and i cry my eyes out and i feel like a little baby for it. i need help asap. i barely goto school. cuz im always worried about how i look and i hate it . i hate myself so much =[
Hey there hun XD
You weigh 165 pounds? That's not that bad! Some girls would die to be that weight. A lot of people way more than that you should be happy. :) I went threw some depression and it hurts so bad and you waste SO much time when you could be living your life. Don't let people get to you, most people make fun of people when they r jealous.They might want something that you have. You just have to ignore them, i know people always say that but if you show them that you don't care they will stop. I feel like that all the time, but i remember that i have great friends. They tell me i'm crazy when i say im fat. Your not fat or ugly.. come on people are stupid as hell? Don't give into them. It's alright to cry..but don't let them get you that far. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself something that you like about yourself. Sounds stupid? It works :) You need to go to school you need to be there incase you miss something important in your classes. Don't worry about how you look, if you clean and everything you don't have a problem..your fine just the way you are don't change yourself. I hope i helped and plz if you have any more problems feel free to leave me a message in my inbox :)
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Ok, my guinea pig has dandruff and i am not sure how do get rid of it. i am pretty sure she does not need to see a doctor for it but i am wondering if i should just give her a bath, or brush her but brushing doesn't seem to work. so i am wondering if you can help me with what i decide to do.:)
MeeGlees27
hey there XD
Hmm ur guinea pig has dandruff? haha well they make shampoo for hamsters,guinea pigs, and gerbils. You can buy them at pet land..or any pet store..maybe even a super market? I bought mine at pet land. I don't know if they make a dandruff shampoo for small animals ? You can ask them at a pet store if you like..maybe you can use a dandruff shampoo like the normal kind we use? I remember my friend Sam giving her guinea pig a bath with normal shampoo and nothing happened it was just fine? I think you should ask if that would be alright. I hope i helped! Good luck :)
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i'm 20 years.i'm from egypt..I've no life....i'm beautiful .but i can't make a relationship with any guy...someone i love now and he love me too ,but i don't know why i go back when he get close my heart...i don't know why i did this...i want him sooooooooooo much i love him .....i can't tell him that i love him ,but he felt that and want to be sure...i don't know how make him sure without telling him 'i love you'????
if i can't conect with him i will commet suicide.. because i really love him..
Ok. So you really love him..and you can't tell him you love him? Is there any reason why? Think back in your past did anything happen? The only way you can really make sure he knows you love him you have to say "i love you". It's ok if you do, i bet he loves you back. Just go what, your hearts telling you that's the only way you can go if you love someone. Do not commit sucide, please think ok? That won't solve anything and you will hurt everyone around you and you don't want that do you? Please think before you act on things. If you need anymore help, please feel free to ask more questions. I hope i helped. :)
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i am an eight grader and there will be a talent show i need to write asong , but i have no theme . I have been thinking but i got nothing.
Can you help me think of something to write about, i rite alot of songs but i want ba fresh new one for this. Thanks alot!
Heyy there >.<
Hmm, how about forbidden love?? That seems like a good theme. Or how about heart break? That's a good theme. I don't write songs so.. I'm just throwing things out here...how about a song about...friendship..or if you have a bf a song about him? I hope i helped? Sorry if i wasn't that much of help. Good luck! :p
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OK so this guy I've been dating for a little over three years, treats me like crap. I know I love him and I think that is why I'm still around. He has always been like that but he doesn't have the best past. When he's in a good mood and talks to me like I matter believe me; he's the best guy in the world. He's the one and only person I would ever allow to treat me like this. I would never tolerate this much disrespect from any one but him. I was raised to be a lion not a sheep. My parents have the golden relationship, they've been married for over 20 years, and it seems like their souls were ment to meet. My boyfriend calls me horrid names, and he does all of it I believe to watch me cry and I do I usually cry. I love him so much. Any way my question is what do I do?
Should I stay with him?
Or should I leave and not look back?
Someone who treats you like couldn't possibly love you:/ When someone loves someone they show it by calling you names like "baby" "Sweety" not horrid names? You really should break it off with him. No one deserves to be treated like that. Especially you.. you will find someone who will treat you better than that, but first you have to break up with him. Good luck! :)
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Okay so 14/f
I have known this guy Dillon since Grade 3. and in grade 7 he asked me out but I wasnt ready to be more then bestfriends. So now this year, in Grade 9, he said we could see where this year takes us and we could maybe date. well its pretty much in the middle of the year, and I really really like him. and I have health and career with im and im trying to sit with him more. these are the signs I get from him:
Makes eye contact
Looks at me a lot
Laughs at what I say
Smiles & blushes
Tryes to make convorsations
And when Im outside of the school him ad his friends alway look at me and me and my best friend swear they talk about me.
So my question is.. Does he like me!!!? And if he does how can I get him to like me more, I make him laugh I make eye contact with him, I smile and blush. I dont know what elese to do! I feel like I have tried everyhting adn he stil lwont ask me out!? :(
omg! hehe lol its soo obvious he likes you... those are all the signs that he likes you. :) lol its so cute isn't it? hehe
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Ummm I'm 15 f and I have a bf and he wants to know when I'm going to kiss him and I told him he has to earn it first...I dont know why I told him that I guess its because I'm shy and I didnt know what else to say at the time but now he wants to know how can he earn it and to tell the truth I'm kinda nervous because if we do kiss it will be my first kiss but what do I tell him??? And where do I kiss him??? and how do I kiss him??? sorry if some of these questions sound dumb but I need to know.
hey
well my first kiss just happened recently.
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