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I regret it


Question Posted Monday March 15 2010, 10:54 pm

someone that I've been trying to impress for the longest time and I finally got him to talk to me the other day. There's all these rumors about him having sex with girls though and were only 15. And he even asked me for naked pictures. I finally sent 1. And now I regret it and I'm scared he might show someone, or it might get leaked out somehow. What do I do?

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Faith42 answered Tuesday March 16 2010, 7:34 pm:
I have been in the same situation..and i know what you mean, and feel. I feel horrible about it..now..I don't do that anymore. It's illegal and..if you did do that u have to make sure you can trust that person. I just knew one of my friends had to change schools because she sent nude pictures to a guy..that was a total perv..his name was trevor. The person that pressured me into it his name was Jimmy..i feel for you..and its ok remmeber everyone makes mistakes. :) im sorry to say but there isn't much u can do..and thts wat hurts the most. ;/ Hopefully he won't show anyone. i hoped i helped..if want to ask me anything..just message my inbox XD

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LagunaBabe answered Monday March 15 2010, 11:06 pm:
My dear friend, even though I am late on this one, never send any type of naked pictures of yourself. Never under any circumstances. This will not make a guy like you for who you are, just what he thinks he can get. Listen, this guy is scum, a dirtbag, if he was a good guy and liked you for you -- he would never have asked for such a thing and he wouldn't be out sleeping with all kinds of girls, and I bet that those rumors are true just from him asking you for pictures.

Please in the future know that you do not have to send pictures of yourself like that in order to get a guy to like you or respect you, unfortunately, he won't do either because he'll only like you for what he can get and he won't respect you. This guy is bad news, I hope that he does not show anyone, however, I'm not sure what you can do at this point because you have already sent it.

I wish you the absolute best of luck friend, I hate to hear that you are going through this. Just remember, if you ever want to impress a guy -- do it by being who you are, showing your personality, being kind, etc. You should never have to take naked photos in order to impress someone, if so, then they are scum, like this guy.

You are worth so much more, so please, I urge you to never do this again and sincerely hope that you do not have any problems coming from this situation. Best of luck, friend. :)

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pandorainaboxx answered Monday March 15 2010, 11:05 pm:
i'm sorry but the deed is done. there's not much you can do about it now. just wait it out, or talk to him about it. OR if your desperate get a hold of his phone and delete the pics.

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