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I decided to make this to help people out if they need it. I've been told I'm a good advice giver. So we'll see. =) Feel Free To Ask Me Questions About Anything! Hope I help.




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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....

There's nothing wrong with that. If you like him, go for it.

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ok.. one of my best friends uncle died last nite we were all really close with him but they were like really close n shes talkin about killing herself wut do i say to her to help her try n stop trying to kill herself? help i rate high

Tell her it isn't the end of the world and she shouldn't want to kill herself. Tell her that there are people in her life; family, friends; that care about her and love her. Let her know how you would feel if she was gone. Tell her that when life throws something bad at her she can't just give up, she has to be strong and work her way through it. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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is it better to wear tampons during your period if your a cheerleader or pads??? plz help!

tampons

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im really confused.im a catholic and bieleve in everything it teaches.iv been baptised and confermed too.but i also beilieve in abortion.i think women should have the right to choose if they want.is this a sin? does this mean im goin to hell? pleaz answer.

I doubt you'll go to hell for believing that. I believe women have the right to choose also, but I would never do it myself. Thats being pro-choice. It doesn't mean you agree with abortion, just that people have the right to choose. And considering being a christian means you are a follower of christ or whatever, just for that you'll prolly go to heaven. So don't worry about it. And don't let other peoples opinions make you think you are wrong. Its ok to be Pro-choice. Cause it doesn't necessarily mean you are "anti-life" or whatever. Hope it helps *amber*

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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(

You should be using a condom anyway. There are always chances and sperm can swim so if they are anywhere near you vagina theres a chance of getting pregnant. Safety first, use a condom.

hope it helps *amber*

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I have a bff, and a really good friend. My bff and I are EXTREMELY close. My really good friend gets all mad and jealous. What should i do?

Talk to her about it and let her know how you feel. Tell her she shouldn't be jealous because you hang out with both of them and it doesn't mean ones better then the other. And if she doesn't quit tell her she needs too, cause it prolly annoys you right? Well yea, hope it helps *amber*

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Hey Hey You guyZ- well i have a really high metabolism- and after every meal i eat even if its a big meal i feel hungry again- i eat alot even all my friends say i do- im 5"5 and weight 103- any suggestions on gaining weight? or will i gain weight as i get older and my metabolism slows down. Ive tried protein shakes but they didnt work-:/

I know how you feel because i have exactly the same problem. I eat and I eat and I eat but I hardly gain weight and I'm always hungry, lol. There isn't really much else you can do until later in life when your metabolism slows down and what not. Eating a night supposedly helps but I dunno cause I've tried and it didnt help me much. Don't worry about it though as long as your healthy =) Hope it helps *amber*

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Ok does anyone think this is wierd..my dad goes in the kitchen cabinet and its like 4 boxes of cereal n he looks at my favorite box and he tellls my mom not to buy them cuz HE DOESNT LIKE THEM..wtf is that?I like the freakin cereal y cat i keep it?...plz tell me if u think thats realli retarded

Mm yea thats pretty dumb..

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ok, i was the one who asked the question about what happens after a breakup. i saw my ex tonight and he seemed really pissed. he would talk to e or my friend which is his friend too. which in turn made her mad at me. what should i do? i find myself liking him again. and not liking the guy i've liked all year. what's going on and what should i do.

When I was a freshman I wore jeans on my first day of school. And now i'm gonna be a junior.. lol. Hope it helps.. *amber*

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Ok, today my mom called me fat. Well, I don't think I'm fat because I'm 13 (turning 14 in 2 weeks), I'm 5'5, I weigh 113, and I pretty skinny but I don't have a 4 pack. I don't know what to do. I think I'm just gonna stop eating and become anorexic. I don't wanna go on a diet because I get of them in a few days and they are not help. Also, I don't wanna watch what I eat because I usually eat healthy food. Please help!

You are definately not fat! And you should not become anorexic. thats dangerous and has a lot of risks. you could die. All you need to do for that 4 pack is work out some. Do crunches and situps and what not. You don't need to diet! Your mom is crazy... hope it helps *amber*

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is it wrong to flirt and make out and stuff w/ a guy when you aren't dating..? like little benafit buddys?

No its not wrong, its fun. (as long as you don't have a boyfriend) Its harmless. So do what you want. You only live once. =) *amber*

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i am finally over my ex but now i find myself constantly thinking about my best friend's ex. i missed him while i was on vacation..do i have a crush on him? If i do...what should i do? should i tell him? my friend still isnt completely over him.. what if he likes me too? oh and im a 14 yhear old girl

You probably do have a crush on him if you can't stop thinking about him. As to what you should do.. Talk to your friend about it and see how she feels about you liking him. If sh eis okay with it talk to the guy. And eventually if you feel comfortable with it, you can tell him how you feel and see where that goes. If your friend isn't comfortable wit hit, you probably shouldn't try to pursue anything with him just yet. Hope it helps =) *Amber*

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okay i just got a new computer, and all the sites i had saved under favorites were lost, so my question is...does anybody kno websites where all those HTML codes are for buddy4u's, etc? like scrollbars, transitions, fonts, marquess, etc. any help is good..i`ll rate you good

http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true#effectstext


Hope it helps =)

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how do you see who asks you the questions on your column?

You don't. Everyone who asks is 100% confidential.

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Ok, whats 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base. I mean I know what they are but I forgot which ones which, help? lol

basically its 1st- kissing or making out, 2nd- feeling/touching (fingering or hand job), 3rd- oral sex, home- sex

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OK, the othere day I went to the doctors and the doctor told me this scale on puberty. 5 being you have gotten your period and stuff like that. Well, my friends mom told me mom my friend was a 5. And the other day we got in a fight and my friend was really frusterated. My friends mom told me, my friend, and another friend, you get really frusterated during your period. Do you think my friend got her period? PLese help! Oh yea, she has been in a really bad mood lately.

She may have.. or maybe she's just not in a great mood at the time. I don't understand why this is important, but hope it helps *amber*

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whats a wigger?

Someone who is a wigger is white and tries to act ghetto or black.. Yea, I guess thats all. hope it helps *amber*

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Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.


Sincerely,
CameronLover1

Just go. This is your first chance to get to spend time with th guy you like and see if he possibly has feelings for you, too. Good opportunity an dyou shouldn't pass it up. Don't worry about getting embarassed. If by chance something happens just play it off, or laugh it off. Thats what me and my friends do, and it just makes it humorous rather then embarassing. Hope it helps *amber*

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ok i am a freshman, and september 17 is my homecoming dance. well all of my friends are always talking about their really pretty dresses and then my om was like oh u can stay at home with mom. i dont know if she was serious or not. and even if she wasnt she would prolly make me go in a skirt that i already and wore to school and stuff like that bcuz she is like a really sporty mom and she doesnt like getting dressed up all the time, so how do i ask her like if i can go, and if i can get a dress n' stuff like that?

Just explain to her how important to you it is. After all it is your first high school dance. And if money is an issue for buying the dress and what not, tell her you'll work for it with chores, or babysit, or something. I think she should understand. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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is it wrong to be so in love that you would die for him?

No. It just means you love them so much you'd do anything for them, take any risks, take chances, do anything. And usually this means that your love is really true for someone. As long as you wouldn't kill yourself bc something went wrong or whatever.. but I think you get what I'm saying.. hope it helps =) *amber*

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