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Well I use to be on advicenators a while back, & then life got way too busy & I no longer had time for it, & after I while I forgot all about advicenators. =/




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My names maria, but people call me smalls.
I'm 5 feet tall, which would explain why my nick name is smalls. ;]




I'm 17 years old, and a senior in high school.
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your hands on me. i'm pressing hard against your jeans. your tongue in my mouth, trying to keep the words from coming out


Hey

BRIGHT EYES - Lover I Don't Have To Love

You can get the lyrics here:

http://www.plyrics.com/lyrics/brighteyes/loveridonthavetolove.html

♥ maria ♥

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hey everyone

whats a good song out now?


Hey

I like making the band 3 - Touch my body
& making the band 3 - Ooh La La La

♥ maria ♥

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what perfume is out that smells good?



Hey

I really like britney spears fantasy.

♥ maria ♥

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me and my family want to see a broadway show

any suggestions?


Hey

The BEST broadway show i went to see was phantom of the opera.

♥ maria ♥

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what kind of medicine helps sore throat, and coughs, and runny nose
i do rate high so please help me okay and if you give reasonable advice I will rate you high


Hey

Awww i'm gussing your sick! I'm sorry. Feel better baby doll! Umm let's see, what i use when i have a score throat, and runny nose is, Nyquil! Also i sometimes take Advil Cold and Sinus. Make sure to buy LOTS of Cough drops.

♥ maria ♥

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I've had the same pimples on my face for what seems like months. How can I get rid of them? I don't think they're scars..They are red bumps. If it is scars, is there anyway to get them to fade?


Hey baby doll

Aww that sucks. Umm let's see you can use proactive but i don't think they'll get rid of the red bumps. You should try getting murad.

Heres the site for it:

http://www.murad.com/Acne-Skin-site10020.jsp

♥ maria ♥

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my bf and me just broke up and its hard for me to cry and crying is the only way i can be okie. Whats a good sad love movie i can dl. thanks and no not the notebook. i saw it and didnt like it. If someone dies in the movie that helps, or if they dont end up story.


Hey

Aww i'm so sorry. Umm some good movies that made me cry are King Kong, cruel intentions,moulin rouge, a walk to remember.

♥ maria ♥

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There was a site for aim fades.
Does any one know what it is?

Hey

Try this:

http://www.boletrice.com/aimfader/

♥ maria ♥

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Does anyone know if the boys like the smell of britney spears curious perfume? I just got a box of it and lotion for christmas. So i was just wondering.

Hey

I personally HATE it! To me it smells so BAD!
My ex boyfriend smelled it once and hated it, so i don't know. I guess some boys are going to like it , and some aren't!

♥ maria ♥

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lOl sorry um i was the girl that asked you about the very sexy perfume from victoria secrets! how many sprays do you usually put on? because i want people to be able to smell it but i dont want to over-do it!

well thanks for helping again!
by the way your really gorgeous ♥

Hey

Aww thank you baby doll!
Umm i usually spray alot on myself. Like about 8 or 7. But that's just because i'm crazy like that! LOL But what you could do is, take a shower right before you leave the house, and right after you get out spray as much perfume on as you want. This way your Pores are opened from the warm shower you just took and it will stay on longer. Heres another tip, spray some behind your hair. That helps it stay on much longer. You could always take the perfume with you, that's what i do sometimes.

♥ maria ♥

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ok well im about 5'7 and i have not currently weighed myself but i think i weigh about 120-125? and like to me i dont think i look fat..unless i sit down and when i have jeans on..i have like a big bulge that goes over..i mean its not huge but its enough to bother me!! but then other people tell me im too skinny? because im so tall!! i usually do anywhere from 30-100 situps each night..im not sure if thats helping. but im not sure what to do..because i mean i look fine when im standing and stuff..people even think i look too skinny..but it just bugs me when i sit down. i try to eat healthier but lately it seems like im ALWAYS hungry..and i cant hold myself back. i always eat and eat..and eat..ugH! what do you think i should do? do you think im too skinny..but what do i do about my stomache bulge?!

thanks babes

Hey

It honestly doesn't seem like your fat at all, your pretty much skinny. I think it's all just in your head. If it really bothers you that much then work out a little bit everyday. If your looking for a fast way out, the only thing I could think of is surgery, but in my opinion you don't need it at all. I'm sure if you work out everyday, eat healthier, cut back on junk food and soda you will see results. Remember it takes time to see the results so don't give up!

♥ maria ♥

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well im not exactly gonna do this but just in case..

im 15/f
and i usually have alot of discharge..like everyday of my LIFE. it sucks! and i already have gotten my period so ya. just the FYI on me haha.

well im just wondering if a boy fingers me..there its gonna be all wet then..like his fingers *embarassing* because of the discharge right? so do you think i should never get fingered or what? well thanks hunnie!


Hey

Want to hear a funny, but yet very embarassing story. One of my friends was getting fingered and once the guy took out his finger there was discharge all over. She was so embarassed, but the funny part was he didn't care at all. He actually .. ( as gross as it is) licked it off and said yum! haha yeah i know. But that goes to show you, some guys care, and some don't. You shouldn't be letting a guy finger you unless you trust him, and i'm sure if you trust him , and he likes you, he won't pay it no mind.
By the way if your not planning on doing it anytime soon, don't worry about it. It will go away as you get older.

♥ maria ♥

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Lately ive been feeling really..just plain ugly. i mean sometimes i look in the mirror and im like wow im kindA pretty. but then like sometimes its like i see something totally different. i feel really self-conscious about myself when i go to school games. like hockey and basketball games. i feel like when people look at me..their lookin at my flaws. i know most arent lookin at me because they think im [pretty] well i shouldnt assume but you know. i hate looking at the super gorgeous girls..it just makes me really jealous..but then again when i see other people im that that i look the way i am. i mean i cant take what i have for granite. but i dont know what can i do to make me less self-conscious. and less shy and more outgoing and not care what people think of me.

thanks alot

Hey

Don't worry sweetheart, this is just a horrible faze your going through. Sometimes I get those days too. One day I look in the mirror and think wow I actually look pretty good, and then other days I look and I want to break down and cry because I don't see anything I like in myself. Before I use to be very self conscious about myself and just like you I always thought people weren't looking at me but at all my flaws. The truth is no one notices your flaws except you. No one even cares. They have their own flaws and problems to be worried about. Maybe you are right, maybe people are looking because they find you to be pretty. In that case don't sweat it! Even those pretty girls that your jealous of have flaws and hate something about themselves that they would like to change. In order to make your self feel beautiful you must believe you are. You have to build your confidence. If you act as if you are beautiful soon enough you'll start to believe it. Confidence is the key to beauty. Once you have confidence you'll get beauty, and others around you will find you beautiful.


♥ maria ♥

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is there any way to get your but bigger without like gaining any weight in your stomach or thighs? ive been doing these exercises like bending down then up again? haha i dont know if that is helping! but yeah thanks ♥


Hey

Nope. Sorry babe. There's no way unless you get surgery. I personally don't think it's worth it!
Also in my opinion a big butt isn't attractive!

♥ maria ♥

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have you ever heard of or smelled of the perfume from victoria secrets called "very sexy" for her?
because i got it! but do you think the guys will like it? haha i wanna smell good :) well just seein what your opinion on it was!

thanks babe

Hey

I just got it too, not so long ago. Well i like it.
My ex boyfriend seemed to like it . He would always smell me and go ohh boy i could just eat you up! LOL So i'm sure other boys will like it too.

♥ maria ♥

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as you know this week is BREAK :)
and i wanna go out and have some fun! what can i do tho? i cant have a party..i dont ever get invited to parties..uhm yeah and i dont have a car..and i live in somewhere where its like below 0 and snowing..hah! so i dont know what there is to do? also..if i DO find something to do..i wanna meet a boy :) i mean im KINDA good at flirting..but then like if i first meet a guy my face will get all red if he asks me questions and i hate it! then he will know im shy..and i dont wanna be!! and i wanna look cute haha but i recently got my haircut and i hate it!! there are so many layers that frame my face and it looks so stupid and its really short now..so im self-conscious about that and so what can i do to make myself look 'hot'

well thanks gorgeous!


Hey Beautiful

Awww please don't be self-conscious over that. I'm sure it's not that bad , and it will grow out soon. You could always put your hair up in a messy bun with some layers out in front, or if you don't like your hair in your face take two cute clips and put them up on both sides of your head.
Umm i really don't know where you can go to have a good time, like party but try going to the mall with some friends, or to the movies. I know for a fact that hot guys hang around both of those places.
Maybe you guys could go out to eat somewhere, or try going bowling. That's always fun to do and last time i went i couldn't keep my eyes off all the guys. The key to flirting with a guy or at least getting him to notice you, is your smile. Trust me on this one. Also even if you don't have alot of Confidence, act as if you do. Act as if you are all that, and you know it too. When you do go out, you can try to do your make up nicely ,wear something super cute/sexy! But no matter what you do, if you don't have the confidence you won't get noticed. Remember Confidence is SEXY!

♥ maria ♥

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does anyone know the actual age you have to be to go skydiving?

Hey

Age 16 and up, although you need parental consent under 21 years of age in South Africa. On the other side, there is no maximum age.

http://www.skydiveorange.com/faq.htm#18

♥ maria ♥

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HeY HAPPY HOLIDAYS SWEETIE :)'

15/f
ok well i just met this girl from a friend and ive talked to her alot on the computer but we are going to hang ouT! (as friends lol im not a lesbian or anything) but yeahhhh...its gonna be kinda weird at first since i mean i know her but i havent exactly hung out with her yet. and i think she is coming over here. but i dont know what to do! my house is boring. and i cant drive..and she cant drive and my dad cant drive..longggg story..and yeah i dont think my mom will wanna drive us anywhere..at least not far. so i dont know what to do!? i mean i wanna come off as a fun person so she doesnt think im boring! and i want her to have funn..but i really dont know what to do :(
any suggestionS?


Hey

Aww thanks. Happy holidays to you too! I wish you and your family the BEST! Umm let's see, you could try to go see a movie or something. That is if yor mom is willing to drive you. If not maybe you guys can take car services. Maybe the bus. If you don't want to see a movie try going to the mall and just hanging out! If you want Invite some other friends to come over your house and just hang out! You could always rent scary movies and watch that. Or Buy some junk food and just watch some movies.

♥ maria ♥

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well im kind of a shy person..but like sometimes i wanna drink..ive never gotten drunk before..but kinda close.. i mean i havent drank since this last summer..but i kinda wanna sometime soon..just a little bit! its just fun for me..it makes me all crazy..i mean i know i shouldnt be doing it..but i dont know :( most of it is nasty! but some of it is good..

what do you think i should do?
i feel guilty drinking..but its not like
i do it every day or weekend

i dont know..

Hey

Honestly it's up to you and nobody else. I don't see anything wrong with it but that's just my Opinion.
Your a teenager and you have the will to try new things and experiment. As long as you don't start drinking everyday i don't see any harm in it! If you do get drunk make sure your around the right people. You know! I don't want anything bad to happen to you.
Also drinking doesn't make you a bad person. Everybody has tried it at one point or another.
Your only Human so don't stress yourself over it!
It's your life and do as you wish!

♥ maria ♥

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okay so im 16 and iv had discharge ever since i got my period as a freshman. and i know its always sopose to be clear, but sometimes mine is more of a cream color, and sometimes brown. is that bad? and if you have a infection wat is the "smell?" thank you!

Hey

Don't worry about it! It's not always the same color for everybody! There's nothing to be worried about. Also it could be that your period is coming so that's why the color is more of a creamish color then clear. Sometimes right after my period ends i get discharge that's brownish. That's perfectly normal that's just the left over blood you have inside that didn't come out yet so it comes out with your discharge. By the way you would know if you had an infection. You would smell really bad, and it would be painful or very itchy.

♥ maria ♥

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