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I'm not very booksmart, and I'm definately not street smart. However, if there's one thing I am, it's PEOPLE SMART. That's why I'm good with this whole advice thing. You can ask me ANYTHING and I'm always glad to help. There's almost no question I can't handle, so ask away. Make sure you RATE and leave FEEDBACK, so I can improve my advice.infinate x's and o's,
cindy
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14/f...ive been going out with my boyfriend for about three weeks and his birthday is on the last day of school. One of my friends is throwing an end of school party on the last day of school (his bday). I can't bring him to the party because ALL my friends don't like him at all; they won't let me bring him basically. We've already talked about his birthday but I haven't had the courage to tell him that I would rather go to my friends party but I don't know how to tell him. What should I do?
Awww..I know what you mean. This is a tough decision, but personally, I would spend the time with your bf. After all, it is his birthday, you want to make it special. I understand you want to go to that party, but sometimes you can't always do exactly what you want. Your friends aren't going to get mad at you if you don't come to the party, there will be other people there. However, if you ditch your bf on his birthday, there might be a problem. Avoid that problem and just hang with him. Plan something sweet and fun, then you'll forget about the party altogether. If you need ideas, you know where to find me. Hope this helps.
-cindy
i want to make a new screen name but idk im dumb i cant think
any ideas?
i want it to do something with kiss and with x0 in it
thank you soo much
-x0iLoVeUx0
-x0sWeeTkIsSx0
-x0kIsSmEx0
-x0kIsStHiSx0
Hmm...Hope this helps.
-cindy
somebody spread a rumors that im bi please help what should i do? i was just playing around my friends all the time and i dont know why some people spread the rumors about im biosexual 100% straight!! help
Gossip is definately a bitch, but don't worry, the rumors will die down. In the meantime, if people come up and ask you if your bi, correct the rumors. Also tell your friends that if they hear anything, to stop the rumors as well. That way, people will be so confused they will stop.
Hope this helps.
-cindy
If the guy you like, asked you if you liked him, what would you say? Should you tell him the truth and take the risk, or just tell him you don't like him and keep it all inside for him to find out?
Thanks.
Go for the truth. It will show you are confident and courageous. Even if he doesn't like you, who cares? Then you'll move on to the next guy. Everybody gets rejected at least once in their lives, so don't worry about it. But always tell your feelings because you never know, he might like you back :).
-cindy
I am 18 f I dont like my body cause I am tooooooo little I eat everything in front of me and then some but I cant gain wait for anything I know there is nothing wrong with me cause I went to the doctor what can I do
You just have super fast metabolism. People would kill to be you. Enjoy it while it lasts :). Hope this helps.
-cindy
i have really skinny thighs. how do i make them bigger besides running?? will eating help?
Hmm, well I'm not sure how your body is built, so I don't know how you store fat. However, if you do store fat, you can try eating, but I would suggest exercising. Focus on the legs, so do stuff like cycling, squats, elephant walks, and weight lifting (for you legs). That should build up some muscle. Hope this helps.
-cindy
hi everyone:)
k so i'm 14/f and i'm really fair skinned and for some reason i can't find out how to get a natural tan (without using a bed or spray or self tanner) i mean real tan from being outside. How low long dose it usually take to get one? and is there anything i could put on to get a tan while i'm outside?
Thanks,
Becca
Lay out by a pool. Water reflects the sun, therefore, you get tanner while your by a pool or an ocean/lake. Also, by being in the pool you will get tan, for the same reason. Make sure you apply sunscreen, you don't want to get burned. As the summer goes on, you can use a lesser SPF, but to start, start with something higher. Hope this helps and have a great summer.
-cindy
how do you get quotes from shows like grey's anatomy? i find quote sites that have a few, but i want a site for that kind of stuff.
thanks = ]
i'll rate 5's
OMG...loves it. Here's a site with some good ones.
http://www.greys-anatomy.com/meredith_quotes.html
You kinda have to click on the links because I can't seem to get it to the home, but once you search around, you'll find some pretty good quotes. Hope this helps.
-cindy
okay...is it at all possible to feel as if you are totally in love with someone and then for a little while not feel as strongly and then a few days later feel in love again??....yea weird...i know but idk...
~thanks!
-Rosemarie
Love's weird, so yes it is possible. Just follow your heart and you'll be set. Hope this helps.
-cindy
why do people count seconds after lightning happens? like what does that have to do w/ how close the thing is to you?
ya. jw.
They say after lightening strikes, the number of seconds equals the number of miles it is away. I'm not exactly sure how they figured it out, but that's just how it is. Hope this helps.
-cindy
i know this is kinda random, but what are the bases. like 1st 2nd 2rd & homerun. well, i know what a homerun is lol but what about the other ones. just wonderinn lol
It all depends, this is how I think about it:
1)making out/feeling up
2)handjob/fingering
3)giving head/being eaten out
4)sex
Hope this helps.
-cindy
Well, at the moment i feel sick with a thumping headache, and the past few days ive had a headache. Tomorrow night im going toa party and i really wanna have a good time (i.e i dont wanna have a thumping headache).
Are there any things i can do that will make me feel fresh and healthy by tomorrow night?
Drink lots of water. Lots and lots of water. The weather has been hot lately, so you are probably just dehydrated. Also, take advil or motrin, that will help relieve the pain. Sleeping also works on top of that. Make sure you get at least 8 hours. Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy
would it be weird to talk to your dead grandmother portait about things? cause i know a friend that does it and it helps her or something
It might seem a little strange, however, if it helps her cope with loss and get through problems, it's not weird at all. What works for her, works for her. Hope this helps.
-cindy
do you guys know of any way I can get rid of my sore throat? I have a throat infection plus strep. They gave me vicoden and amocticillian, but it still hurts a little. Any ideas? I want to kick this thing and fast. It takes every bit of strength out of me.
When I have a sore throat, I usually take advil and cough medicine. I also spray chloriseptic spray down my throat. I also get my mom to buy chloreseptic throat drops. Also, you should gargle with salt water. Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy
okay my friend she's 15 and she really likes her boyfriend and stuff and she talked to his friends and they said that he is only dating her for 2 reason: to make out with her and to make someone else jealous. I would try to help her more but i don't know what to do. She then asked him if it was true and he got mad. If you guys read this answer asap i need your help as soon as possible. If your a "guy" then i'd love to hear your advice to thanx :)
I'm not a guy, but I might be able to help. You, as her friend, should try and find out if this is true or not. If you know for a fact it's true, talk to your friend. Make sure you are there to support her, because she might need it after she finds out this information. Make sure she knows you are there for her. As for her boyfriend getting mad that she asked, it seems he has something to hide. Personally, I think your friend should dump him. That way, her bf will not only be embarresed because he was trying to make someone else jealous, but he will lose his "play toy". Revenge can be sweet. Hope this helps.
-cindy
well today i went out with 2 of my friends one ive only seen once and another is a long time friend amd i asked others to join me and they said they were busy and had to do stuff at home then my friend got asked to go swimming and they never asked me.....and my friends have been doing this for fucking ages and i cant get new ones cuz they live all the way in town n it costs heaps 2 get into town etc
You could try inviting them places, that way they will know that you are making an effort to hang out with them. That way, they should invite you places. You could also talk to them about it. If they are your true friends, they will listen and care what you have to say. They will also make an effort to solve the problem. Hope this helps and if you ever need to talk, you know where to find me.
-cindy
I really like my BF but I am going to Kentucky and Florida this summer and wont see him for 5 weeks =/ I dont know whether to break up with him, Go on a break, or just stay with him. BUT if I stay with him I will never see him for awhile. What should I do?
If you love him, stay with him. Distance is hard, but if he is truly worth it, it will all work out for the best and make your relationship stronger. Think of it as a test..Hope this helps.
-cindy
Okay. So there is this guy. I was always attracted to him, and at times I really liked him, but it was just there, never acted on it or anything. Well he was a little wasted and he told me that he has feelings for me and that he likes me. How do I know if he was just saying that or he really meant it. When guys tell you that they like you and have feelings for you, are they telling the truth?? Now that I think he likes me, I am beginning to like him also. A lot. So if a guy tells you that he likes you should I take it seriously. The biggest problem is that he is in college and i am only a sophmore. So guys do you really mean it when you tell girls that you have feelings for them?
I'm not a guy, but this still might help you. When a guy is sober, you should trust him. When he's drunk...well, that's another story. Call him up and tell him he said some stuff while he was wasted that night and you would like to get the story straight. Hope this helps.
-cindy
okay. well ive been havinh family problems. im very unhappy. because of this i havent had a friend over in 5 years! other then 2 girls that ive known my whole life. i hate my father, who comes over all the time. and my mom just doesnt get it. she sees how happy i am. but its almost like she doesnt care. and i think ive gone through so much in my life. i reallly want to move. and she has a boyfriend in another state that she is in love with. and it would be wonderful to move there. but everytime i bring up moving she just tells me to be quiet. i dont know what to do
I know it's hard, but try and stick with it. If you can get through this, you can get through most things. Just think of this as a way to become stronger. If you really want to move, try talking to your mom at a time when she is in a good mood. Point out the things that are bothering you, and make sure she knows you are unhappy. I'm sure she cares about your happiness, even if she might not show it. Hope this helps and if you need to talk, you know where to find me.
-cindy
im 15
this happened a while ago but i still am not sure...so my bf fingered me then a week later broke up with me...
what im asking is: is fingering a big deal?
thank you
No, fingering isn't a big deal, especially since it was with your boyfriend. It all depends on what you want to do. Hope this helps.
-cindy