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(♥) Lynsey (♥)


::im 15
::im really hyper
::i dont have a bf
::i go to m.h.s
::i love soccer..its mi life
::im kinda short > 5'2
::and ya ill answer any ?'s u guys wanna know :)

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week now. and the other day he asked me if i wanted sex.
we r madly in love, but im not sure if its the right time in the relationship?

what should i do?
luv nicki xxxxx

OKKKK first you cant be madly in love w/some one only in a week relationship....TRUST ME!....i was just like that i went out w/this guy and i was like OMG im soo inlove with him blah blah....but then i met someone else...and we been going out for 5 months...and thats more like love...but i mean if hes already talking about sex...and its only been a week...that might be the only thing he wants...=\....yes, guys are so like that....if you really think you madly in love with someone youve only been with for a week...and if you totally ready then i guess go on and do it....but if your having second thoughts, which you most likely are, or you wouldnt be asking for advice...then wait..and see if he really loves you or jst loves you body...*think of this...i read this on a fact site*...if you are in love with him....you would be comfortable farting infront of him...LOL i know its cheesy but hey its kinda true...so just think about everything...

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I need a lot of money to get a god straightner because my hair is extremely FRIZZY!!! What are some ways to earn $$$? Or some hairstyles for FRIZZY PEOPLE??

Thankx a bunch!

hey...BABYSIT!! ur neighbors, cuzins ANYONE i make soo much money by doing that...if you cant do that then do chores around the house and ask your parents to give you an allowance and just save up...or you could ask them for a loan n say that you will pay them back but you just need one now..or save up some and ask them if theyll pitch in half and when you get the striaghtener...start doing work and stuff for them....but the straightener you should get is called hot tools...omg it works so good i think it was 40-50$ tho and its only sold in hair salons...other straigtehners that cost 20$ break in like 2 months...its worth just getting on expensive one that really works....also something that works for firzzy hair is called Biosilk...also sold at salons..its like 11$ a bottle tho but it works....and if you just want a hairstyle put moose and hairspray in your hair and scrunch it..

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Okay, so I have this problem, im 16/f and ever since i can remember...Ive been harrassed by hispanics because of my butt. I have a ghetto booty and im white. People call me racist because I dont like talking or getting to know hispanics but its not that im racist i have NOTHING against them because i know a lot of them arent "dirty mexicans" but those who are, Im SCARED of them, I cry in public because im harrassed and the littlest things they do like wink at me, will make me cry just because i have been sexually harrassed since I can rememeber...Ive talked to my parents and they say im full of myself and that I think everyone is in love with me, so they dont help, ive talked to my sister , same thing and my friends cant do anyhthing about it. I talked to a lot of people about it, and im honestly scaared to death of them because they always make me feel uncomfortable, ive had them grab my butt and say dirty things in my ear, and I just cry...in public, please help :( I cant take it anymore. Please dont answer if your just gonna call me racist because Im not. Im scared.

hey same here when i walk by mexicans they whistle and yell nice ass....or they honk and their like 40 years old!! just ignore it...i know its hard...but think of it this way...atleast your not ugly and atleast people are noticing you!! i mean...its their way of complimenting you that you look good.....and dont hold that against all mexicans.....thats jsut not right...let it go....they think your cute....

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OK so I have my period, and Im really just not in the mood. You know cramps all that fun stuff. But what I really wanna know is well... this is embarassing but I wanna shave down there and every time i try the hair gets stuck inside the blade and it really hurts. What am I doing wrong?

thanks~

hey shave the way that the hair grows...it grows down...so instead of shaving up towards you (like you do on your legs) shave downwards...

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ok say i met this guy on the internet and we wanted to met somewhere but not alone i mean with like other people. What if he says he is 14 but is really 45 or something should i bring a knife or a gun????? should i have a cell phone ready just in case he tries to do something to me????? NEED HELP FAST !!!!!!!!
OXOXOX,
DONT WANNA BE KILLED

ask him to make a salute...to prove that hes really who he says he is...if he says he cant or something....THEN DONT GO....bc its really dangerous i watched it on opera once and girls were killed and raped and stuff

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ok so theres this guy, and he's on the swim team with my brothers, and he is their friend. recently i've been talking to him online, staing up really late, and of corse it doesnt matter bcuz its winter break. but one night we stayed up until 4:20 talking....and he's even giving me a nickname. my friends say that we've been flirting, and sparks a flying, but im not sure. i get a flushed, fluttery, and i start blushing sometimes when i talk to him online. i think i might like him, but does he like me? my friends also say that we would make a cute couple, but they can never give me a straight answer of why. the come up with, you are both tall and have brown hair.

please help!

oh yea, im also a year younger than him

hey it sounds like he likes you..i mean if he stays up late just to talk to you then he has to have some kind of feelings for you...and he makes up lil nicknames..thats cute...but dont come right out and ask him....just do like how your doing right now, getting to know him...i mean you havent even talked to him on the phone or anything....next time your online and talking to him say something like "oh my mom has to use the computer now, but if you want ill call you"...if he gives you his number...its really obvious he likes you....if he doesnt and says no its okay then thats kind of sad.....or if you dont want to call him...next time online ask him if he wants to hangout..

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Does anybody know any store that sells Paul Frank hoodies?? Pacific Sun doesn't sell Paul Frank hoodies anymore.. but thanks

urban outfitters and tillys...maybe anchor blue has them? i know for a fact tillys does...

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Does anybody know any websites you can get Long Distance quotes? And I've already checked firehotquotes. thanks for ne help

www.quotemania.2ya.com

go ther i think they have it!!!!!!!!1

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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!!

hey...it depends how long distance it is...me and my bf live about 10mins away from eachother and go to different schools...on wednesdays i go to his house from 5- 93o...and on mondays he comes to my house....and we see eachother fridays, saturdays, sundays...so it works....and i love him alot too and we been doing this for 5 months....so get to know him better, let his parents meet yours...TRUST ME...if you havent told your parents about him yet...YOURE GOING TO HAVE TO...i tryed to keep it from my parents...and it wouldnt work....you have to tell them....and let your families meet...then theyll trust you with him...and you can see him alot...so just set aside a certain day of the week and go to his church (if he goes to one durrin the week at nite or something) or hangout at his house...and see eachother over the weekend...and it could work...

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omg.. ok there was this whole rumor going around at school that all of me and my friends are lesbians... well they only think that because a couple of my friends told them what we did at partys.. Its true what we did but its not true we are lesbians.. what should I do?????

ok...take it from me...me and my best friend spreaded a rumor about these two girls we were friends with....we got mad because they were talking about us behind our back and they ALWAYS were together....so we got mad and we just said that they were lesbians....*big mistake.....karmas a bitch...* but anyways.....the way they handled it....they acted like it didnt bother them ONE bit....and it got around to other schools and everything..but it blew over real fast because they acted like nothing happened....so just be like WHATEVER because the girls who started it are probably jealous of you and your friends...so stick close with your friends and youll get through it....

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when i signed up for this this morning i didnt read the contract..i just hit ok...now i am wondering if this costs money??? can anyone tell me if it does???

no....if it did you would have saw where you make your payment 2

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My cousin knows I do this advice thing, and she has a question, but she's embarassed to ask me and she wants to ask the whole site not just one specific user. The problem is, she's 12. Would I get into trouble letting her ask it under my username? What about if I at least convince her to ask it to just one specific columnist, would that be okay? She won't tell me what the question is, so how do I go about it? I know that you're supposed to be 13+ to ask questions on this site, but... I don't know. What kind of trouble would I get in for letting her ask under my username? I won't if I'd get into trouble, like if I'd lose my modship, or if I'd be banned, but I can't convince her to ask me. So, would I be breaking the rules?

OMFG....your such a little goody good...."oh but shes only 12!!" DUMBY WHO WILL KNOW! god your STUPID.....but to answer your dumb question...NO YOU WONT GET IN TROUBLE NO 1 WILL KNOW SMART ONE!

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ok i have this ex who is always trying to get back with me but is also always hitting me and leaving marks. I know it makes me sound stupid but i still keep coming back to him, i cant help it i still like him. Is there any advice someone can give me out there and by the way this is monkeygirls friend not her!!

okay....get away from him...if hes hitting you it will only get worse...its like that episode of degrassi...i dont know if youve ever seen it but the girl got really hurt....just get away from him...i know it will prolly be hard but still...do you enjoy getting smacked around? just tell him that your not going to hangout with him because he hits you...

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MY DOG is 12 years old and is suffering from arthritist.and last year he started to eat charcoal and vomiting it out.Do u think this is normal?does your dog do this?

hes really old...i know its hard....i had a dog since i was a baby and she got a tumor and had stuff wrong with her heart...we wanted to put her out of her misery and jsut put her to sleep instead of having her suffer....maybe thats what you need to do...remeber dog years are multiplyed by 7...so your dog is 12x7...which is very old....if shes in pain and suffering i think you should consider puttting her to sleep...even though it will be sooo hard but remeber its for her.....you wouldnt want to be suffering would you? talk to your parents about it...and ask them if they would let you get a new dog after you did it....but if thats out of the question and you dont wanna put her to sleep....to answer your question...no its not normal....see a vet a.s.a.p

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Ok..So i am 16 years old and i have never had a serious relationship...I have been sexually active with guys but i am still a virgin....I tend to get attached to guys very easily and when i get them i get scared and i break away letting go a guy that cood possibly be someone who i cood date for awhile....am i scared or and i just doing this whole dating thing wrong? Ne advice?

ok well im 15 and im in my first really serious relationship....and at the begining i was like the sme as you....getting scared and breaking away......like if my boyfriend would forget to call or something id like freak out...id be like...OMG he hates me thats why hes not calling or something id just think of all the bad things....and it would end up being something as simple as his dad wouldnt let him use the phone...theres nothing WRONG with you...but its that you have low self confidence....be confident...just think good things....and act like you wont lose the guy...i mean he is with you out of all ppl rite? just act like your relationship wont end...your scared ofl osing him...and you will lose him if you keep thinking you are going to...just be confident you know?

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well me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months now and everything is great i guess we hang out alot and everything and the first 4 months of our relationship we just talked on the phone alot and hung out a little now we hang out more and were talking on the phoen the same but its kinda like everytime we get on the phone we sit and listen to eachother breath!!! he complains about it alot but i just cant think of anything to talk to him about! i mean i love him alot and i dont want things to end but is this soposto be telling me somthing? do you have anything to tell me? talk topics? anything?

okay my boyfriend and me talk on the phone for like 3 hours...we talk about realllllly random stuff....like whats on tv, what we did that day, what were doing tomrrow, siblings, umm pets, school, music...ANYTHING....new movies coming out...just say..."oh ya i wanna see that new movie coming out" or something....and then ask him if he wants to go and make plans, umm talk about how much you love him or your guys inside jokes, or how you met....JUST ANYTIHNG!!

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My boyfriends said all of his friends say im miserable and they dont like me and not one of them has even talked to me in lunch i dont sit next to anyone besides him so i dont talk and he barely talks to me and at night when he calls me we dont even stay on the phone fore more than 3 mins usually..i want to know why he has such a big problem with me wantin his friends to like me and maybe talk to me, Help what should i tell him to make him understand i dont want to never sit with him at lunch because now i sit with my friends and dont even sit with him at luch..

hey i know where your coming from because im ALWAYS hanging out with my boyfriend and all of his friends....i even call them when im bored!! theyre like my really good friends too now....well next time your sitting with them at lunch...TALK! just say wats up or something...make conversation...be funny...outgoing...they might call you miserable because you just sit there....it makes them unconfrotable having you just sitting there starring, looking miserable...so next time just talk!! and maybe you shuld try calling your boyfriend..maybe since you dont call he feels like you dont wanna talk when he does call...so call him up and just make conversation...talk about tv, movies coming out, christmas rpesents, plans for winter break...ANYTHING!! what u did that day, etc....and if he still wont talk to you for very long, maybe hes not a fone person...my bf and me did the SAME thing....but it wasl ike less than two minutes!! eventually, we became closer and now we talk for HOURS...so just open up, be urself around him and hell WANT to talk to you....bring ur friends over and sit by him and ull feel more comfortable maybe having your gurlfriends with you....

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Okay, does anybody know for sure how old you have to be to get your bellybutton pierced in Oregon? And how much does it cost? My parents won't let me get it done so i have to be old enough to get it without their permission because they think it will get infected. But if i were to do it by myself, what do i have to do or buy to make sure it doesn't get infected? thanks

you can be any age but you have to have a parent....you cant get it by yourself.....in california you can if you go down to venice beach or something but in oregon i dont think you can because most places make you have a parent incase you sue them...try talking to your parents...or make a deal with them...say if you get straight A's next report card can you get it pierced or something....and tell them if it gets infected youll take it out but they dont know it will get infected unless they let you try....and for what you have to buy to make sure it doesnt get infeected./...when you get it pierced it comes with the cleaning medication...mine came with dial soap and this purple box called Dr Piercings.....they work great mines isnt infected @ all...so just try talking to them

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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!

OMG thats happened to me once too just say you got them passed out in health when you guys were learning about sex ed....or say that you were at the mall and they were handing free ones out at spencers!! if she freaks out tell her your not having sex and if you were atleast your being protected...and if she doesnt believe you tell her she can take you to the gyno to tell if youre having sex if she doesnt believe you...but if she asks just stay calm be like OHH haha the condom! they were passing them out at the mall outside of that one store called spencers! chances are she probly didnt even see it because the zipper could ahve came unzipped inside the washing machine

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sorry its so long.. Well friday i was wit my boyfriend.. well its the first time we did anything.. well his cousin knos bout it which dont bother me.. well my boyfriends cousin told one my friends.. well the guy his cousin told is somebody to chill wit but not somebody to tell that kinda stuff to cause he'll tell everybody.. he's done it before.. so should i let it go and forget it or is there something i can do.. before it gets to everybody.? please help cause i dont wanna be made out to be a hoe or something.. i rather our business stay between us..Thanks alot LaDessa..

act like it doesnt bother you one bit...and if people call you a hoe say no a hoe is someone who sleeps around with random guys....this guy is your boyfriend....dont act like it bothers you and if he trys to spread it around ask him if he has a life because thats pretty stupid hes gotta go tell your business like that he must have nothing better to do....and if it gets really bad go talk to him and threaten to say stuff about him if he doesnt shut his mouth soon

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