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Help, Im scared of them ...
Okay, so I have this problem, im 16/f and ever since i can remember...Ive been harrassed by hispanics because of my butt. I have a ghetto booty and im white. People call me racist because I dont like talking or getting to know hispanics but its not that im racist i have NOTHING against them because i know a lot of them arent "dirty mexicans" but those who are, Im SCARED of them, I cry in public because im harrassed and the littlest things they do like wink at me, will make me cry just because i have been sexually harrassed since I can rememeber...Ive talked to my parents and they say im full of myself and that I think everyone is in love with me, so they dont help, ive talked to my sister , same thing and my friends cant do anyhthing about it. I talked to a lot of people about it, and im honestly scaared to death of them because they always make me feel uncomfortable, ive had them grab my butt and say dirty things in my ear, and I just cry...in public, please help :( I cant take it anymore. Please dont answer if your just gonna call me racist because Im not. Im scared.
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I feel you all the way. I feel the same way as you do. When i walk dwon the street they always say stuff to me and i always feel so dirty. It makes me feel so uncomfortable. But i learned to ignore them.
Think of it this way they like the way you look.
so take it as a good thing. Also if that doesn;t work think of yourseld as a queen and walk by them
as they do not matter to you.
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lots of mexicans act this way because they like sexually harrising girls. just try to stay away from them. i think its ok to have a big butt and its very attractive. just dont let them tkae advantage of you. :)
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I think its a blessing and them hispanic girls are jealous of yo j.lo bootie and their juss afraid that your taking the attention off of them. Girl, you use that butt but don't let the boys grab it, they can look but don't let them touch cuz thats not right. Show em how strong a white girl can be and never show them your tears.
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How incensitive of your parents. Anyway, the Hispanic culture is loud and colorful and the men don't generally make bones about their desires. You are a shy girl, and harrassment is terrifying when you don't know how to handle it. It's bad enough when you do. I would suggest some professional counceling and making sure you walk with friends as often as possible. See if you can't get your mom to go with you to a few places so she can get a first hand example of how you are treated. Unfortuately there is no legal action I think of to help you unless something more serious happens. Good luck!
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hey same here when i walk by mexicans they whistle and yell nice ass....or they honk and their like 40 years old!! just ignore it...i know its hard...but think of it this way...atleast your not ugly and atleast people are noticing you!! i mean...its their way of complimenting you that you look good.....and dont hold that against all mexicans.....thats jsut not right...let it go....they think your cute....
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