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Should i let it go..
sorry its so long.. Well friday i was wit my boyfriend.. well its the first time we did anything.. well his cousin knos bout it which dont bother me.. well my boyfriends cousin told one my friends.. well the guy his cousin told is somebody to chill wit but not somebody to tell that kinda stuff to cause he'll tell everybody.. he's done it before.. so should i let it go and forget it or is there something i can do.. before it gets to everybody.? please help cause i dont wanna be made out to be a hoe or something.. i rather our business stay between us..Thanks alot LaDessa..
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act like it doesnt bother you one bit...and if people call you a hoe say no a hoe is someone who sleeps around with random guys....this guy is your boyfriend....dont act like it bothers you and if he trys to spread it around ask him if he has a life because thats pretty stupid hes gotta go tell your business like that he must have nothing better to do....and if it gets really bad go talk to him and threaten to say stuff about him if he doesnt shut his mouth soon
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theres really nothing you can do bcuz if you say something about he'll prolly blow it outta proportion just bc he knows it bothers you if anyone asks u about it just say it isnt true
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LaDessa, You need to talk to your boyfriend about this. If you do not want people to know what goes on between you two then he should respect your decision and not tell anyone. But also dont care what other people think of you, if this is the first time that you did something with him then you are not a slut and if people think you are they dont know what a slut is. Ask your boyfriend to talk to the person who is not trusted and haev him ask not to tell anyone. Im sure he will understand. :)
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Know what I think? I think you are a hoe. You my friend, are NOT married. That is shameful. I personally believe you'd have NO problem m here if you didnt sleep with anyone untill you were married. Well, its too late to take your mistakes back, but if you dont want word to get out, then tell the dude to STFU.
Thank you for considering my straight-forward advice.
-Tyler
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Do you really like the guy? if you do then you shouldn't let his cousin ruin your relationship. I think you should talk to his cousin about it and ask him/her to keep on the DL...oh and if you really like the guy then you shouldn't care if people know..luv ya lotz!
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hey, dont let that spread around! especicially because you said you dont want it getting around, and who does. Talk to the guy who your afraid will tell everyone. Get him to tell everyone he told that it was just a rumor n he found out its not true. You can stop it before it spreads around school!
best of luck
-melissa
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