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♥ Hey!! My name is Allie Ribley.♥ I'm 15 years old turning 16 in April. And I live in Springfield, Illinois. It's pretty boring and theres not much to do. That is why I am so thankful for all my friends, they keep me busy and give me things to do! :) We like to go shopping,♥ some times go see a movie, but we like to rent them better, hang out at each others houses, and party! I love to party!!♥ Some people say I am wasting my life by just partying all the time, but my theory is that you only live once, so live it how you want!! And this is how I want it, so don't tell me to change it! :)
♥ I am not single anymore! I have been dating my boyfriend, Derek Betzer, he is also 15. We both go to Pleasant Plains High School.♥ And we have been together for 3 years. He has brown hair and blue eyes.
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♥ My family is not so great though. Both of my parents are alcoholics, I have an older sister [20 in February] I talk to her about some of it but I don't think she fully understands because she is not hardly ever home to know what I have to go through.♥ Their drinking problems really bother me. There's not much else to say about them.
♥ I have a lot of different sites. Here they are.
♥ CHECK THEM OUT!!
♥ Also, I can help you with any questions that you have! That's why I made this column. I hope you enjoy it, I try to get around to it every day! I have some other sites as well..If you want them, then you're gonna have to ask for them! =p.♥
♥ Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle♥ are my life. I love pearls, and long necklaces.♥ Rings are a must. I'm a really nice person, unless you piss me off, I can be a total bitch! I speak what's on my mind. Some people don't like me for that, but whatever get over it. Don't be fake around me, cuz thats annoying. I hate bitches, but I love mine. I love glitter, ♥ and bracelets. Many other things as well. As long as your nice to me, I'll be nice back. Please don't ask me stupid questions. && we'll be okay. ♥
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My friend's father died recently. Does anyone know any quotes from the bible i could put in my profile? Also, does anyone know any good quotes about friends from a song or anything that would be appropriate? Thanks.
♥ I'm so sorry!!
♥ I don't know any quotes off the top of my head. But I suggest you go to www.firehotquotes.com - they have a bunch of categories with a ton of quotes.
okay, theres a guy that i really like. he always gives out clues that he MIGHT like me. but, when me and my best friend ask her bf, and the guy i like, to go somewhere, he says no. (NOT a double date) hes the only boy i ever liked so long. i already told him i liked him. well, my friend told him. and,i probably won't ever stop liking him! does he really like me? what should i do?
♥ You probably scared him or made him nervous when you had your friend tell him that you like him. Maybe you should just give him time and he might see what he's missing.
♥ And trust me, you will get over him. hehe. it's just a cruch! ;)
♥ Good Luck, Sorry x3.
ok well i told blake that i loved him and idk im anxious to get the reply (i sent an email) like i really want the email to see what he has to say. but i havent gottin it yet. its only been like a day since i sent it. but i mean i know he checks his email like everyday. could he be avoiding the email because hes scared that it says something. i dont know, but i really want the email. is there anyway i can hint to him to check his email with out having me sound like im desperate for him to check his email?
♥ You could start up a conversation. Maybe start by saying something like, I got this really wierd email the other day.
♥ that should chigger his memory and if he hasn't already checked then he should soon.
♥ If that doesn't help I'm sorry. But I hope it does.
how do you make out
i tried making out with my boyfriend, but we keep feeling eachother's teeth..
♥ Awe. okay step by step. here we go.
♥ both lean in, one person needs to tilt their head a little to one side so you don't hit eachother's noses.
♥ then open your mouth a little, not to much though.
♥ then just stick out your tongue, and he should do the same, where you guys can just play a little game with your tongues.
♥ make sure at times you close your mouth and swallow though, otherwise it could get a little messy!!
♥ once you have done it enough, you'll have enough practice and you'll get better at it. until then just keep practicing!
♥ good luck, and congrats.
Ok, well my school holds a talent contest adn this year me and my 5 other friends are doing it. The thing is we want to do our own mix to all our favorite music. Is there a program online i can download so i can mix songs together. (I want to skip them, rip, and repeat somestuff) thnks
♥ I don't know of any programs online. But, I am on the Dance Squad, and when we want to do this we take one tape player and have a bunch of other c.d. players ready and where we want the songs. Then we just play the songs in the order that we want while it is recording onto the tape player, so in the end it ends up on a tape.
♥ sorry that was so confusing, but if you need more help just drop one in the inbox. x3
From a female,
When you are sexually active is there supposed to be hair uhh "down there"? or do you shave it off or what? sorry if this is like a stupid question or whatever but i'll rate.
♥ Some people shave and some people don't. It's up to you and what your partner wants. Good luck. Hope I helped x3!
hey this is the same girl who asked about the situation with my boyfriend and the 2 girls.. thank you so much for your help. i was just wondering, what would you do if you were in my situation??
♥ First, your welcome! I'm here anytime.
♥ Now second, well haha. I kind of have a jealousy problem hehe. And I get really jealous of other girls when they are with my boyfriend. So I would just go with them. I don't know them, but I don't think they would make you smoke. And if they do that's just wrong. like really wrong, and maybe you shouldn't hang out with them as much anyways.
♥ but yah. if it was me I would just go along for the ride. [but also there is the chance of getting caught] So if you do go with them, then make sure everyones being careful.
ok ive always wondered if a baby comes out of the mothers stomach or vagina?
♥ The baby comes out of her vagina.
Okay. Well Im 15, 16 in march. And there is this guy...hes 14 but just turned it in october. He's close friends with my brother. He is still in 8th grade and im a sophmore. & its not some random crush thing... Its love. Ive been around and in a few relationships but I know its different. We barely ever get to see each other because I dont drive yet and we live 25 minutes away from each other. I think its OKay now for us to date other people but still everytime we get online we talk to each other and its like Online dating kind of. But we know everything about each other and I need him. He was gone for a week and he was always busy so their wasnt long to talk on the phone. But alot of people think im weird i guess for loving somebody that young.. is it normal for the girl to be older? And what should we do until we can be together...like it seems crazy. But we do plan stuff for when we get older. But its something i give all effort to to work us out. Nothings really wrong except i never get to see him. and i feel i guess like '2nd best' because hes got other girls on him. I was his first real kiss and I just want to be with him forever... but im afraid the longer we wait to be together another girl will take my place.. but anytime i say that he says 'Dont say that its never going to happen.' What should i do?
♥ No, it is completely normal for you to like him. I am dating a boy that is younger than me too, he just turned 15 in mid december and I am going to turn 16 in April, so it isn't as much of a difference as yours but still. I'm just using that as an example.
♥ you can't help who you like, and it doesn't matter how old they are. Just follow your heart.
♥ If you think it is right to be together right now, then go for it and just wait until you get your license so you can see him more.
♥ Good Luck, I think you should go for it. And don't mind what other people say to you or even think about it. It's not them in the relationship it's you!
omg this is really frustrating me and if anyone can answer this i would love you forever. ok well my aim wasnt workin and it was screwin up when it was so i downloaded the new edition (triton) and i downloaded the whole program and it told me i needed to restart so i did.. and now it wont work at all! i clicked on it and it wont pop up or anything.. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!!
ps. the same AIM problems are happening to my friend right now too. so this will help out the both of us!
♥ There is probably some kind of default.
♥ Although, I had trinton for awhile and I hated it. If you liked your older addition then I would just download that again and try it once more.
♥ I'm sorry if this doesn't help. Good Luck with it. x3
i like this guy.he liked my friend before
i dont know weather he still likes or not.but now i like him.how am i suppose to hint him i like him without telling him n lookin desperate.i really really like this guy so much
but i dont want to make fool of myself. and at the same time how am i suppose to know weather he likes me too.
♥ Just flirt with him, but not too much or you might annoy him. && Talk to him, be yourself around him. Don't act like your someone your not. Then maybe when you guys get a little closer then you can ask him if he likes you.
♥ But until you get that close to him, you can just see if he flirts back. See what kind of body language he has. Good Luck! x3
i have a friend who moved here last february & we have become really good friends. i mean really close...we can talk to each other about things that i don't think i could even tell most people. i just feel like i am missing something, because i don't know about her past. i know she has a dad, stepmom & stepsister (her stepmom has been married to her dad for only a little over a year but they are luckily very close). however, i have no idea what happened to her real mom. she has never mentioned her ever...i don't know if she's dead, if her parents are divorced, or what. it never use to bother me, but now that we are so close i just feel like i should know something. i know that she proabably has never mentioned her for a reason (she might be sad or angry perhaps?) but as her close friend i feel like i should be able to know somehting. do you think i should bring it up? if so how would you go about doing that (and if something bad happened with her mom i really don't want her to get upset or angry). do you think it is appropriate for me to say/ask anything at all? if you were in this situation would you ask?thanks!
♥ You are right, she probably hasn't talked about her for a reason. I would go ahead and ask her. If she doesn't want to talk about it though, don't push her. Just let her know that you are interested. If she doesn't talk about it then, she will open up with time. Just give her awhile. But I would go ahead and ask her.
♥ Good luck, I hope you find out what your looking for.
I'm 17/f if that helps.. My friends Lisa and Rachel (who are friends with my boyfriend) asked my boyfriend Derek to get them some weed (cause hes got connections). Then they asked him to drive them somewhere like a park so that they can smoke it.. and my boyfriend wanted me to come along. I dont want to go because i dont wanna smoke weed.. but i dont want my boyfriend to go and get high alone with 2 girls either. He told me that he wouldnt go if i didnt want him to. But it seems like he wants to go and i dont want him to feel like im controlling him.. should i let him go or not?
♥ all people act differently when they are high. If you really have enough trust in this guy though, then I think he should be okay.
♥ also, just because they are smoking doesn't mean you have to. Don't let them peer preasure you.
♥ I think you should go with him, and if they ask if you wanna smoke say 'no' and if they keep bugging you about it, then they aren't real friends anyways.
♥ your guy should understand
♥ good luck, I hope you get it all straightened out. x3
I was wondering
if you want to have a baby, like when ur old like 25 and stuff, do you not wear a condom?
i was always wondering
and does sex hurt for the first time??
♥ yes, if you want to get pregnant, than you don't wear a condom, that is what it is there for. [protection so you don't get pregnant, and so you don't get and STD.]
♥ and it depends on your first time, on how big the boys penis is, how tight your vagina is, how wet you are [that means how much discharge you are letting out - this happens to girls when the get horny], and other things like that.
♥ but for the most part, yes it does hurt for your first time.
I know alot of kids don't like their step parents but my step dad takes it to another level.
My younger sister (15) and I (17/f) have never liked him and he doesn't like us either. My mom knows that we don't like him but she thinks that he trys his hardest with us.
Well, I know what you're thinking, give him a break and you'll see that he really is trying.
I don't think so.
Last night my mom and him threw a party and my sister and I had to be there. When everyone was leaving around 3am, my mom had gone outside to say bye to everyone while my step dad, sister, and I stayed inside.
My sister and I were talking to each other about these guys we had met that night (my mom's friend’s sons). He was listening to our conversation and said, out of no where, "I don't know what boys would be interested in you two." He always says this stuff so I just told him to shut up and mind is own conversations (I know, disrespectful but it's hard to respect him).
We got into a little argument and he then told us how immature, bratty, spoiled, we are and how we think we're princesses. Jokingly, my sister told him that we were princesses, in our dad's eyes anyways. I guess that got him mad because then he went off talking about my dad and how he's the problem because he gives us what we want. He then said that if we didn't believe everything he was saying about us that we should ask our mom and grandparents on what they think about us.
After all of that, he told us about all this stuff that my dad did while he was still married to my mom like how he once slept with a hooker and how he was always at work and never home. Alot of unnecessary things that we didn't need to know and probably shouldn't have known, specially my sister.
I knew that my parents had troubles and things like that, why else would they have gotten a divorce? But who is he to tell us exactly what happened and what my dad did. I mean does he seriously think that we would turn against our dad or end up hating him or something? Or is he just jealous of him?
Like I said, I know my dad did some things (now I know exactly what) but so did my mom. But we still love him and he's great to us and is a good parent too.
After he went to sleep I went into my sister's room to get something from her and she had cried herself to sleep. When I saw that, I went to talk to my mom about what had happened because I usually just blow it off. When I told her, she didn't believe me about the names he called us and how he told us that she and my grandparents thought the same! And all she did about the part about my dad was say, "Well, at least you know the truth about your father now." She just talked about how we never once tried to be nice to him and he was trying his best. She didn't even care about the stuff he said about us or my dad.
We were nice to him before when him and my mom first started dating but he was still mean to us back then so we started being mean back. he always used to talk about my dad too.
I don't know what to do because it seems like no matter what she's always on his side. Plus he has no right talking about my mom and dad's relationship.
♥ wow. that must be really hard.
♥ honestly, i don't even really know what to say to all of that except i am reallly really sorry you have to put up with that!
♥ you shouldn't have to though, so try talking to someone you really trust. I know it will help to get it off your chest.
♥ I'm so sorry. and I hope things get better.
okay i am 19 years old i am not a virgin and ive been going around with this guy for 2 weeks hes 16 and hes a virgin well was on new years he asked me if i wanted to do it and he had protection so he wanted me to be on top which i hate and in the beginning it just hurt me i think because i wasnt wet enough but after it didnt hurt so bad but i was enjoying it and he finished really fast i was bummed out but i just understood cuz it was his first time but my question is why wasnt i enjoying it i mean i want to what can i do? or what can i tell him to do
♥ well next time, how about you try being on top.
♥ if that isn't more exciting, then change positions.
♥ to get you more wet, have him finger you before you start to have sex.
♥ hope this helps. good luck.
okayy so me and "brad" have a history .. i've liked him for months .. me and him dated for about a week but he dumped me for a diff girl. he says he wouldnt have dumped me if he knew she had a bf tho .. and when i asked about a future "us" he said i can see us together again. that was a month ago .. now hes like i honestly dont know. so last night he called me and asked if i wanted to go hang out w/ him and justin. so he came over on his snow mobile and picked me up. he came and got me at 9 and we hung outside for a lil bit and then talked then we got on his sled and went over to justins. we had so much fun. there was fireworks and drinks and we hung out in the barn and we flirted SOO bad. it was so much fun. at about midnight we went up to the guest room, him me zach and justin and spent like an hour tryin to get the tv hooked up then once it was me and him laid on the futon and watched a movie and zach and justin were on sleepin bags on the bed. me and brad fell asleep and they brought me home at 3 when the movie was over .. he said he'd probably talk to me today .. probably? yeahhh well he hasn't called yet .. did i do something wrong .. was it just a friends hangin out? or do u think maybe last night kinda worked in my favor for a more than friends relationship? any help? please!
♥ just wait for it. I'm sure he'll call sometime. and even if he doesn't dont get too upset about it. You'll talk to him sometime. && I can't really tell, you should ask him how he felt about the whole night. x3
♥ good luck. sounds amazing.
This boy I was going out with says we should be just friends because he thinks we are too young to be going out(we are both 13). So we have been talking more as friends than we have when we were going out but when we talk he seems annoyed of me and whenever i ask to hang out as friends he comes up with an exuse. I dont know why I am really confused.
♥ well maybe he just doesn't know how to act around you. also, he could just be nervous about hanging out with you now.
♥ try talking to him about it, and see how that goes.
♥ good luck.
ok so finaly my bf made a move on me liek alout of them he didnt kiss me bnut were getting there the thing is when ever i think about it my stomach get realy uncomfortable i want to kiss hims so so so bad i mean i know i am ready for it i have waited so long and he is so awsome and he treats me great i am comfortable around him but last night i was at my aunts house there was alout of kids (i haver a big family) so he put his arm around em adn scooted close to me except made it realy obvious and all of a sudden my stomac startes freaking out i feel like i am so messed up i dont knwo how to get rid of this feeling or what is means i mean its not jim but i dont know maybe i was around my family and i didnt want him to be so obvious but i likes it so much mayeb i need freinds i just need help so how do i get ride of this feeling adn what does it mean thatnxs i rate high
♥ awe. this is so cute.
♥ i think your stomach is probably feeling that way because you like him so much, your getting butterflies.
♥ if you really like him, and it sounds like he likes you too, just kiss him!! he'll like it. i promise.
♥ your too cute. good luck with him. you too sound really cute for eachother. x3
♥ oh and the feeling will probably go away just later when you guys start doing more together.
i know the how the saying goes " don't judge a book by its cover ", but i'm still wondering what is it about 'reality' shows that make them so popular. i don't really see anything so special about them whatsoever. im a guy, and i even hear other guys talking about tv shows like its the latest gossip or something. i really don't have time to watch any tv though... ive asked around and everyone always says " because of the drama ", shows like laguna beach, the oc, etc. is that all there is too it or is there more? thanks, will rate.
♥ pretty much it's just for people to get entertainment out of.
♥ honestly, some of them shouldn't even be called 'reality' shows, because sometimes they just create fake things for a dramatic effect.
♥ i don't really know if that answered your question or helped you at all. but i don't really know what else you want me to tell you about them, if you have any other questions just reply to it.