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now can i enjoy sex
okay i am 19 years old i am not a virgin and ive been going around with this guy for 2 weeks hes 16 and hes a virgin well was on new years he asked me if i wanted to do it and he had protection so he wanted me to be on top which i hate and in the beginning it just hurt me i think because i wasnt wet enough but after it didnt hurt so bad but i was enjoying it and he finished really fast i was bummed out but i just understood cuz it was his first time but my question is why wasnt i enjoying it i mean i want to what can i do? or what can i tell him to do
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You will have to tell him what you like.
The majority of young men just don't have the ability to spend a great deal of time on the act itself. It is not their fault, control is a learned thing and they don't have the experience yet.
Spend more time on the forplay and show him how. If you have questions about it check this web site.
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obviously the people that already answered are mentally challenged. were you stressed out? upset? your emotions can affect your ability to thoroughly enjoy sex. if you were on top, and you dislike that positon, it can be very boring and feel like a chore. he most likely wanted you to be on top so that he wasn't "bad" his first time. he left it up to you to make the sex good, and you weren't into that position.
if you're not wet enough before sex, have him finger you. or, just put some plain ol' water on his penis for some lubrication.
if you're still not enjoying the sex, then you may want to think about your feelings, if you're stressed out, etc. that plays a major role with your sex drive. you can tell him that you'd like him to pleasure you, and for him to make you orgasm.
since he's not experienced, tell him to find a position he's comfortable with, and just do whatever feels good for him. chances are, if it feels good for him, it'll feel good for you.
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OKAY ladies have 7 sexual parts one lick the nipple and keep going down then nibble on her hips and not the virgina not yet just go in circles with your toung and then lick it side to side and then circle your penus in her very slow and make sure he is on tophe push down and then you push up or just get some one older hope this info was helpful and ask more questions.
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♥ well next time, how about you try being on top.
♥ if that isn't more exciting, then change positions.
♥ to get you more wet, have him finger you before you start to have sex.
♥ hope this helps. good luck.
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