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hello! i'm abby. october is my birth month! i am a cheerleader on competition this year. i got hurt at one of the camps over the summer and now i am in a leg brace because of it. i tore a ligament and chipped a bone, all because i twisted my ankle. haha, i'm a klutz. and i am also a self-proclaimed helpless romantic, i've read too many fairytales. i am a non-cusser, and i hate hearing cuss words. love me or hate me, it's your choice.

advice

My eyes water a lot.

If theres wind outside, my eyes will water.
If I cough, sneeze, laugh, or yawn my eyes water.
If I look in the sun/light my eyes water....
its soo weird! many of my friends think i'm crying or something but really its just my eyes.
How do I make them stop?

If theres wind outside, it is normal for your eyes to water.
If you cough, sneeze, laugh, or yawn, it is normal for you eyes to water.
If you look in the sun/light, it is normal for your eyes to water.
Your eyes might just water more than others.
It is normal.
If you really don't like it though, go to your doctor for possible solutions.

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well like i want to get stronger, not like ew manly but like strong.
and my arm are kindof flabby.
so if i lifted like weights and gained muscle would like the flabish part go away or like turn into muscle.
pls help.

&cardio ideas in general would help cos im trying to lose weight, and i dont wanna like run outside but i dnt have a tredmill.
thanks.

The easiest way to get arm muscle is to do work out. I prefer pushup, wall pushups, and girly pushups. I think it is the quikest way to bulid up your arms. For exlpanations of the different types of pushups mail me.

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K so I am almost 15, and very mature for my age. And me and this guy have a thing, he is 18 almost 19. And i know it is quiet a difference, but if we are happy, get along, have fun together, and respect each others wishes, who cares about age. But the thing is, I doubt my parents will aprrove of this, and my question is, what do I do? How do I hang out with him without them knowing? Right now we just always hang out with a group of friends, should we just keep doing that? Anything helps.

thank you

You should tell your parents. Sit them down. Tell them it isn't always about age. If your parents are a few years apart, bring that up. If you feel comfortable bring your "guy friend" along. Tell your parents why you like him so much.

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sometimes when i breathe deeply, i feel this little thing.. it sounds like.. when you have a little bike pump and you push the air into the air a little. its weird.. i can hear it, and i know its coming from me but idk where. is it because sometimes i breathe too deep (the other time it comes. but sometimes i feel like breathing that way.. or i feel kinda uncomfortable. and im not asthmatic either) uhh whats the meaning of this? how do i solve it? thanks.

Since I am not a doctor. You should go see one. This could be very serious. You could have something wrong with your lungs. I know it is a hassle to go to the hospital, but do it! A.S.A.P.

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are girls supposed to buy guy anything for valintines day?

Valentines***

and yes. Something cute like a card w/chocolates. Don't go to over the top.

ADVICEABBY

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okay i have no idea what to get my girlfriend. i want to ask her what she wants but i hear that's not good to just ask her. i need to just get her something she will like. what should i get her?

Well if you want, buy her a shirt. Determine her size and ask your mom to go, and together you can pick out a cute top or sweatshirt. Never get something with inaproppriate stuff on it, not cuss words either. Oh, and don't buy anytype of bottoms for her. That is personal.

OR

You could easily go to hallmark and ask someone there what is the most popular gift for a girl this holiday??

ADIVEABBY

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Who's playing in the superbowl this year? Haha I haven't been paying attention and I'm too embarassed to ask anyone else.

COLTS vs. BEARS

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17 female

my name is Rachel and my boyfriend roosevelt and i have only been going out for about 3 days and on the first day we started to go out he asked me if he could kiss me and i told him that it would be my first kiss and i would have to think about it first the thing is iam kind of nervous becouse he wants to french kiss me and i've never kissed a boy before much less french kissed a boy and i don't think iam ready since i've only been going out with him for 3 days and i want to know how do i know when iam read to kiss a boy?

Ah, Rachel. The thing about kissing is, when it's right it's right. When you think you are ready to kiss him, go for it. The first week usually doesn't involve kissing. I would say about a week and a half you should start thinking about it. 'Til then, just tell Roosevelt you are ready for the whole "kissing" thing. Tell him you want the time to be right. Kissing isn't planned out. It just happens. Go with the flow.

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On average what age do your boobs really grow? That sounds weird. I was just wondering if there was a certain age in which they grow a lot for most people. Thanks

AVERAGE
age 10-13

POSSIBLE
age 8-16

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haow many dates do you go on befroe you can call yourseves boyfriend and girlfriend?

It depends on how much you like him/her. If you guys want; when the time is right; you two can figure it out. Sometimes the first date is good enough. If you have kissed, hopefully you are boyfriend and girlfriend. =D

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i am 20, and i've been having rather regular menstration cycle so far(24 days cycle). this month, my menstral cycle was only 17 days.
my period usually lasts for 4-5 days.. but this time it's been 7 days already.
usually i bleed a little after my period ends. i thought its due to excessive excercise. but this time it seems way too long!
i'm worried.

It is normal, but if you are really really really really concerned see a doctor. Or wait and see what happens!!!

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hey i need some quote pages where i can find things to go in my profile

heres some examples...


RECIPE FOR DRAMA
1 cup of gossip
1/4 tablespoon of rumors
&& a dash of jealousy


god made us best friends 'cause no mom could handle us as sisters

tmobile is jealous because my sidekicks are better




quotes like that

i rate for good websites =]

Here is one:


http://www.expage.com/page/cutiequotes23


Here is another:


http://groups.msn.com/CuteQuotes/lovequotes.msnw


Here is tres:


Nevermind, I could only find 2 good ones. =]

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TOTAL MIXED SIGNALS!
my crush and I, we IM:ed earlier today..
and he went "you're so perfect for me, we like the same movies, songs, everything" and i was soooo happy because of that, but i had to go offline, so i said bye, but then i realized id rather talk to him than do anything else.. so i went online again, and he blocked me! my friend said he was still online, but he "went offline" as soon as i logged in.. WHYY? i cant ask him about this, so do i just NOT talk to him until he talks to me? or what?

Well if he got that upset about it. I wouldn't worry about it. Just make him jealous, I know it is bad, but sometimes it works.
Or!!!
Try to get his number and talk to him about it. Hope everything works out!!!
AdviceAbby

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I want to keep more things to myself. I complain about everything all the time, and I always talk about people, good or bad. I hate it, how do I learn not to tell people everything, like when to stop? thanks!

I know this is really stupid but take time to listen to what your friends have to say, maybe they have some secrets that they want to tell you cause you are always in the spot light...Oh, and you know you have gone to far if someone says "Oooo, Im telling" or "Eww". If you want more advice mail me! I will talk about anything!

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My boyfriend just got braces, and I don't blame him because they're really hard to clean but... His breath STINKS!!! everytime we kiss it's like *Faint*. How can I tell him he has bad breath without hurting his feelings?

Offer him a piece of gum at the mornig of the day and after about a mintue kiss him. If you are old enough and you use tounge you could take the gum back while you kiss, lol.

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I'm 15 and just signed up for soccer this year. We have been conditioning most of this month and now we are conditioning from 8-10 in the morning then having practices from 3-5 in the day. I'm not in good shape and conditioning is killing me. Its hard running long distances and keeping up with the team, I even threw up today. I'm not big, I only weigh about 115 (5'4). I need advice on how I can do better at conditioning and not get as tired. And, would "creotine" (the powder you mix with drinks to give you energy) help me?

Before you condition go to a gas station and get and energy drink and buy some powder and before you go to bed make yourself a smootie with it..

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17 years old/female.. so this may be kind of long but, I'll try to give you the briefest version.. so there's this guy, let's call him jay. and so like a month ago me and jay spent a lot of time together, and we ended up making out and such. and like we still talked and everything, and saw eachother on weekends, but nothing seemed to progress from that, like we were just friends, but my friends and including myself thought he was totally into me, since I was like kind of into him. well, we stopped talking for a couple of weeks at the beginning of the summer, so I ended up making out with this other guy, lets call him mike, when I was drunk the one night. it didn't mean anything, just an innocent make out, and I still talk to mike, as friends. well like two weeks after that, I ended up seeing jay at a party, and I starting like him again. and since I drank a little too much, I told his best friend, and his other friends, that I really like him and such. well the next night I threw a party, and he ended up coming with his best friend. and everything was going great, we were flirting like usual, and we ended up outside me and him making out again, and I guess my friend had a bit too much too drink, and came outside, and bluntly stated that I had made out with mike. well jay totally flipped and was like "get the f*** off of me" so I was like got off, but was like what's wrong blah blah blah. and he just got so mad and like wouldn't talk to me, so I started drinking with his best friend, and got a little drunk, so started flirting with his friend cody, just to make him jealous. (yeah I know it's not cool that I used his friend, but his friend was totally into it, so whatever.) so jay just got more mad, so my bestfriend talked to him, and was like whats wrong? and he's like nothing, and she's like well like why'd you get mad? do you like her or something? and he's all like I don't know I'm confused. so I started telling him I hate him and such, while holding onto his friend cody, so he ended up getting so mad, and leaving, and told his friend "to go for the gold" (aka get some action)which is so mean, but I know he was just super mad. and like I'm just totally confused, and it's been a week since this happend, and I have no idea what to do. like do I talk to him? and apologize for being a jerk? or do I wait til I see him, which will probably be on this weekend, and talk to him in person? I just don't know what to do. and does it not seem like he likes me, like if he got that mad just because I kissed again, when we weren;t even dating, let alone talking:S? please help :):) thanks in advance.

Oh wow. That took me about a bajillion mintues to read, and wow. Your life is messed up!!! Get rid mike. Keep Jay, wait to talk to him in person make up, make out, and say sorry over and over, and also. Say you were using Cody to make him jealous, hope I helped!

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im 14/f.. would it be wierd if i went into abercrombie kids? because i looked at their stuff on the site and it looked like what teenagers would wear? do any of you guys shop at abercrombie kids? and also if a medium is in abercrombie, what would be the size for abercrombie kids? thanks

Shop there!!! They're stuff is more affordable and it is so much cuter, maybe a extra large or a extra extra large, lol.

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I want to do my hair on the frist day of school, but i have no clue for something to do. What are good ways to put my hair. Be specific and give complete steps, please. If possible add a link of a website that shows or tells you how.

P.s. I don't have short hair but not long. My hair crosses my shoulders, but not my elbows.

Go to seventeen.com and look at there hair dos! They are really cool and up to date.

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If you make out with braces, do your braces get stuck to his teeth? Can you still make out with them on?

Yeah, duh...Nothing bad will happen, unless he has braces then you might want to stick with little makeouts.

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