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"you're perfect for me"/ 2 min. later/ blocks me ??
TOTAL MIXED SIGNALS!
my crush and I, we IM:ed earlier today..
and he went "you're so perfect for me, we like the same movies, songs, everything" and i was soooo happy because of that, but i had to go offline, so i said bye, but then i realized id rather talk to him than do anything else.. so i went online again, and he blocked me! my friend said he was still online, but he "went offline" as soon as i logged in.. WHYY? i cant ask him about this, so do i just NOT talk to him until he talks to me? or what?
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Well if he got that upset about it. I wouldn't worry about it. Just make him jealous, I know it is bad, but sometimes it works.
Or!!!
Try to get his number and talk to him about it. Hope everything works out!!!
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Think about this for a minute. Pretend it happened the other way around. You get up the courage to tell him that he is perfect for you. You are so nervous and have all these expectations about how he will react. Right after you tell him that he is perfect for you, he tells you he has to go and signs offline. You'd probably be crushed. You'd think all kinds of things. You'd be convinced that he didn't like you and was just trying to be nice.
He definitely misinterpreted the signals that you sent to him. He's not sending you mixed signals. He's just very disappointed that he didn't get the reaction from you that he was looking for. The next chance you get to talk to him, tell him that you realized that he may have gotten the wrong idea about the way you felt about him. You signed offline because you really did have something to do and were really upset that he blocked you and you couldn't talk to him when you came back on. Explain everything. Then it would be a good idea to tell him how you feel about him. It's a great opportunity to start a relationship. Good luck. :)
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hey there!
dont worry! i dont think that he blocked you because he doesnt like you, he might just be embrassed and doesnt know what to say to you. dont worry too much just give him some time and he'll unblock you when he's ready or the next time you talk to him or something just bring up that converstation. let him know that you feel the same and tell him about what happened. hope this helps!!
-manda
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Aw, he's so sweet.
He blocked you because he got nervous and felt embarrassed about what he had said to you earlier.
Let him know that you feel the same way about him. You NEED to talk to him, so do not wait for him to talk to you. That might give him the impression that you think he's some freak for randomly saying that stuff to you.
Wait till he unblocks you and just act like you didn't know about it. IM him and say, "Hey. You know what you said to me earlier?" and wait for him to say something. Then say, "Well, I feel the same way about you." Just wait for his response and see how it works out, which from what he said to you, I think it will work out great.
Good luck!
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Blocking isn't always an indicator that someone doesn't like you. He might be blocking you because he doesn't know what to say right now and needs time to think. If you don't hear from him in a few days, try sending him a friendly e-mail asking how he's doing and saying that you've missed talking to him.
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He might just be embarassed and doesn't want to talk to you. Not talk to you in a BAD way, but he might think you didn't feel the same as he does for you, and he's shy now and embarassed to talk to you cause he might feel dumb. Just text him or call him or talk to him in school and let him know you feel exactly the same way, and keep talking to him. I'm sure later he'll block you then. Guys can just be weird sometimes and send out messed up signals, haha. Believe me, if he's telling you you're perfect for him ; he digs you ALOT. I hope I helped.
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You may have not gotten the point across that you like him, too. He might be embarrassed about telling you how he feels. Boys are really confusing. Don't stop talking to him. You definitely need to find out what's going on.
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