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Q: In elementary school I was a straight-A student. Suddenly in the 7th grade, everything's different. I am soooooooo disorganized! I always get the format for the HW wrong or don't understand the assignment.

I just got a progress report:

English A-
Science B
Math F
History N/A
Spanish C

This is sooooo embarassing! An F! Isn't it awful? I failed a quiz, got a B+ on my exam, and failed all of my homework, usually because it isn't in the correct format (the progress report came out before I got my exam back). I feel so terrible---I go to a private school and everyone gets A's! Am I stupid or something because I'm so disorganized? How can I be more organized? About how much more of the 1st quarter do 7th graders have? 7th graders, could you give me an idea of when it ends???

thx

*Luna*

your not stupid.You just have to work harder thats all.Work gets harder and tougher when you get into the higher grades, elementary school everything was easy and you got alot of a's i wish the work could stay being that easy as you get older but it isnt.So just try to study more,ask for help when you need it from like a teacher,friend,older sibling or parent.And get plenty of reast before a test day.And use study cards sometimes to help you remembering stuff.And do all your homework! Your grades are not that bad,just you need a little extra help in math.Hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle

Q: should i carry a purse to a homecoming dance tonight?

i brought one to my dance.Because i had makeup and an camera in there.I danced alot so i put it under my chair at the table.I would say bring a tiny purse.Hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: is an orgasm the same thing as "getting off"

no, when you have a orgasm that means you have reached sexual climax after like you "masterbate" or "jerk off", when you "jerk off" it means your playing with yourself to get pleasure. Hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle

Q: On Iconators, they have these buddy icons that users made. How do you make a buddy Icon? What do you do? What site? Do you have to have special software installed? It would be nice if someone could give me some info

*Juno*

yeah you need to have something like photoshop or like photopix i forget the specific name of it but you need software for it.Try looking at www.dollzmania.com they have this link where you can make an icon.But you have to search for it. Hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle

Q: okay well i was wondering if the people who no longer get their periods because of eating disorders can still get pregant even though they dont get it anymore?

yes, you can still get pregnant, but theres a pretty good chance that the baby can have something wrong with it because of the eating disorder.If you have one you should get help, its not good for you at all, it just makes your body worse.And it can affect the baby too if you are pregnant.Hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle

Q: my mom has a plant that is big i think she should put it on side and replant it .but she wants to keep it in side should i do waht i want or just for get about it :(

i think your mom might know more about that certain plant, so maybe you should just let it go. Theres probably a reason why she wants it there, maybe that type of plant cant have to much sunlight.You should buy your own plant that you can take care of : )

hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle

Q: i was thinking of kinda having a party/get together for my birthday and i was thinking we'd play cards (great idea w/my kinda friends) eat, watch a movie, and then play man hunt (game outside when it's dark) now i have a guy friend and he has a girlfriend. she has a hate list of people she obviously hates... and i'm not sure if i'm on there, but i don't really want to invite her to my house... do you think she'd get mad if i had him over (with a bunch of people) and not her?

yeah, she might but she really shouldnt because you invite who you want to invite if your not really friends with her or dont talk to her that much, then obviously you wouldnt have her at your party.I think its really rude she has a "hate" list, dont worry about being on the list, if you are then just shake it off, forget about it.Invite your guy friend if you want him to be there, even if he has a girlfriend dosent mean she has to be with him everywhere ya know? lol well,Hope your party goes great!

♥ danielle

Q: Alright, I'm making a new xanga layout and I want to decide which quote I should make it of. I'll give some backround on me- I've never had a bf so if any of these quotes are too "you break my heartish" tell me NO! And I dont want to sound to pathetic and emo(tional) because thats not me! But something not HAPPY! Here's the ones I have to choose from:

Why can't anyone love a breath taker, a smile faker?

Do you ever wake up to realize your life is meaningless? Does it give you strength or lead you to your grave at a young age?

It seems that when I ran away from my past all my dignity, my faith, my pride got left back.

I think it’s time that I realize self pity’s meaningless.

Now I realize I‘d give anything I have to walk a day in those old shoes

Wondering what my first smoke would be like, my first f***, my next f*** up. Or the next band that would change my life.

From confidence to self doubt in 60 seconds.

Trying to win approval from people that I don’t know.

Not admitting I’m fake.

ALRIGHT! Thanks for all the help...I know this was probably a pain to read!

"Now I realize I‘d give anything I have to walk a day in those old shoes" thats soo true i LOVE that quote! i wish i was younger again when everything was easier and every one was friends with each other, being a teenager sucks sometimes lol.

♥ danielle

Q: I just downloaded the brand new AIM and I can't find where I can change my buddy profile. With anyone who has just downloaded this, do you know where you can edit your Buddy Profile? thanks!

go to my AIM on the top of your buddy list.Click, stroll down to "edit profile" keep clicking through next about 3 times until you get to where thes the bold,italic and underline icons,etc.Hope i could help you out! ask me if you need anymore help, ill be glad to make things more clearer to you!

♥ danielle

Q: what are some good songs by sugarcult?

besides pretty girl, memory, and crying?
thankyou

go to www.azlyrics.com and search "sugarcult" and see all the songs they have then listen to them. Sugarcult is an awesome band i heart them.

♥ danielle

Q: what are some simple and very discreet ways to turn guys on.. something that will make them go wild but have to hold it in because we're around other people.. lol

um.. well i know guys like it when you like rub there "thing" down there lol while yoru making out. And they like it when your sitting on the couch, or if your sitting anywhere and whisper in their ear something naughty or dirty like something you want to do to him maybe.And if you kiss his neck.Also if your talking or hes talking to one of your/his friends put your hand on his leg and just kind of run your hand back and forth on his leg. Hope i could help you out! tell me how it goes!

♥ danielle

Q: What would be worse?

Straightening your hair alomost everday

or

Putting mousse,gel and hairspray in it almost everyday as well?

you can decide.

this website is for straightening:

http://www.ivillage.co.uk/beauty/haircare/problems/qas/0,,547398_185101,00.html

this website is for mousse,gel and hairpsray:

http://naturallycurly2.com/curlscene/entry.php?id=408&entrytype=curlyqs

hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle

Q: whats your favorite song??

this question is so we can all learn new and different songs just for the fun of it.

right now its "photogragh" by nickelback, it just reminds you of the good times when you were younger.My favorite song changes everyday lol

Q: does anyone know any good ways of making your own board game counters at home,thx

i'll rate automatic 5's.

http://raeside.home.mchsi.com/guides.htm

try that. I dont know if its going to work for you or not. Try typing in "how to make board game counters".Hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: Does anyone know where i can get music codes for my xanga?

yupp, ive found a couple.

www.xanga.com/omfg_itsmusic

www.xanga.com/music_galore

www.xanga.com/my_fave_music

www.xanga.com/hot_beatz

and if you need more try serching on xanga, go to blogring and type in "music codes" and click on a music blogring and youll find plenty of music places.Hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle

Q: My face is always kind of shiny. Are there any products or anything I could do to get rid of this?

yes, use a very good cleanser like from neturgena, or clearisol. Look for something like "oliy skin" because your skin is either oliy or mild.You should use these very thin papers that you use on your face to get rid of excess oil, you should you them throughtout the day because your face can get really oliy. Hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle

Q: My cat (4 year old female, spayed) has been diagnosed with multifocal vasculitic septal panniculitis, according to her vet this is an extremely rare decease for cats

What is it?
What does it look like?
What causes it?
What treatment is required?
What are the chances of recovery?

Please help with answers. Her mom (ME!) is extremely worried.

Thanx,
J

you should really ask the vet about this,ask your mom if she already knows or call the vet for imformation about it.Or you can google " multifocal vasculitic septal panniculitis" and see what pops up on it.Hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle

Q: My dad smokes and im really worried about him. I really want him to stop, but i dont know what to say and i dont want him to get mad at me...what should i do? thanks in advance *i do rate8

dont you hate it when people smoke? its disgusting. If you ever learn anything new in school about the dangers of smoking TELL HIM! go online and find all the ingredients in a cigarette theres some nasty stuff in it like rat posion, floor cleaner, stuff to preserve dead bodies and plenty of toher stuff.Find stuff on the internet about smoking.Or write him a letter explained why it hurts you soo much that he smokes.Im sure he will evantually quite because he knows it hurts you.Hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle

Q: This is to all the 7th heaven fans....

Does anyone know if mary will ever be back on 7th heaven....they bring her up alot but will she ever appear on 7th heave again?

Thanks to any one who takes the time to answer!

7TH HEAVEN ROCKS!!!!!!!

no, i saw some spoilers on some website, there kind of trying to kill her off the show thats why there making her sound like the bad person.Its kind of odd to do it that way but what other way can to take out a charater in a story on 7th heaven? so yeah so as far as we know it she wont be returning at all.But maybe plans will change, but i doubt that. Hope i answered your question! i love 7th heaven too.

♥ danielle

Q: I have a friend and i count her as my best friend but i dont no if im her best friend she doesent tell wat do i do

ask her, just say hey so and so do you concider me you know a "best friend" of yours? and she will tell you. If she says yes, then thats a good sign you got the answer you were looking for.If she says no, try to get to know her more.Even thogugh if she says no that would be really rude of her.Try to look for other friends to hang out with. Hope i could help you out! tell me how everything goes!

♥ danielle