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okay, well I am 12-f (almost 13) and I really like this guy lets say his name is Jermy, but I dont know if he likes me back..and I really want to tell him how I fell about him but I have a feeling that it will make things wierd between us..and I dont want that to happen...I really need advice on this one, should I tell him how I feel or no? We have been friends for a while and I dont want to screw things up-but I really want him to know how I feel about him

yes you should tell him...tell him you like him more than a friend and if he wants to try things out... he will never know how you truelly feel about him until you tell him.

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about 50 responded to my last question about sex. My b/f was trying to to get me to have sex with him. When I told him I wasn't ready he accused me of cheating on him with my my older brothers friends lets call him tim(whom is also my frined) I do like tim but I would never cheast on ne b/f-he then sed he didnt care be cuz he cheated on my with sum1 i have known like my whole life-altho we were never very close-now i think tim might ask me out and i really want to say yes but i think it would hurt my ex and make him spread rumors saying a whore and a slut and stuff. I really didn't cheat on him but he won't listen to me and has his 9 yr old brother answer the phone when i call and tell me he can't talk-he evn had him call me a whore- i have no one to talk to becuz my bro and sis in law live a state away-my other sister moved there about 2 days ago and my other brother went to visit them becuz i have stuff to do this week. I'm so alone and NEED HELP FAST PLZ HELP!!0ill rate well!

well... go for the guy tim. you know you are not a whore. your ex is a dog, he cheated on you. he is just mad because you wouldnt let him get a piece of ass. dont feel bad. and dont let his opinion ruin your life go for the guy tim.

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Okay.. the furthest i have been is making out.. but the guy i like has been as far as oral cuz hes older than me.. Like i dont think i would know what to do if something happen.. like.. i dont think i would know what im supposed to be doingg.. Like oral.. whats the whole thing with spit or swallow?? Which are u supposed to do? Yeahh please explain some things to me.. Thanks


you shouldnt do anything you dont wanna do... but you do spit

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hey, i'm a 14 yr old girl, and my question is about this guy that i like. he told one of my friends that he likes me too. and i went to a party, about a week ago, and he was there, and we would talk, and laugh, and i noticed him looking at me whenever he would make a joke. and then i talked to him the next day and he said that he thought i looked pretty. but now he has a girlfriend, and i don't know what to do. i feel like he was just leading me on, and it hurt me. but i still like him a lot. so, what do you think?

wow... thats messed up now he has a gf. maybe he was leading you on. maybe you should ask him. what was going on at that party that night? does he like you or what?

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ok im into this guy and hes into me but we're not dating, and i havent talked to him in awhile and i talked to my ex recently who said he misses me and wants to get together, is it ok if somethin happens between us?

well it all depends. who do you want to be with? your ex or the other guy. being with either guy is okay. you just have to make up your mind.

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cscottjr39@hotmail.com

i hate when people do that shit. its usually because they cant handle the truth. its like if you dont wanna hear the truth then why the fuck are you asking the question. half the people who ask these questions already know the freakin answer.

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what is an emo?

i have no idea... but arent you tired of hearing about it?

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okay, this guy and i liked eachother for like a week and we talked n stuff, we live like 30 mins away from eachother, it was nothing big at ALL..but neway i went away on vacation and when i came back we didnt really talk. the only time we talked be4 that was online and thru texting..then i saw him at this gathering of family friends [theres this group of like 50 families that put on bbqs every once in awhile] and like we kinda ignored eachother? lol for like no reason. i would spot him looking at me like alot..we said hey to eachother and gave eachother a hug and flirted for like 5 mins, but then he didnt talk to me the hole time after that..he was kinda busy cause he was helping with the bbq and cooking, etc..then he left and he said goodbye and gave me a hug and then i was like, "okay bye take care..thanks for talking to me?" it was in a kiddish way..then he was like, "i know sorry i was just realli busy with helping out with the cooking, etc." even be4 this tho whenever we are around eachother we are always kinda stand offish and shy..now i dunno what i feel like, im kinda sad..help..

well maybe he was busy. try talking to him again and hanging out one day

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hey i really wanna masturbate i mean i get turned on s0o0 easily like by nething it seemz like...and i dont really kno how to masturbate..i mean ive fingered myself but it doesnt feel that good its like...nothin...idk it doesnt feel good to me....i dont own a dildo or vibrater....and i kinda wanna do sumthin rite now...does ne GURLZ hav ne ideas? like wat to use? wat to do...im sry if its a lil gross...i juss need advice im sorry!! =\

yeah go take a cold shower

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Ok i like these 2 guys... but bfor i go into them heres a lil about me i hav a bf(hoos name can b matt) hoo i really like but is also my best frend and im not sure if hes really more then my best frend and if i really do like him as a boy frend, then thers this other guy(hoos name can b nick) hoo is my ex hoo i stil like but he has a gf and then agin i hav a bf but i was talking to him cus he jus got bak from a vacation and he was like i stil love u soo much and i couldnt even hav fun on my vaca. cus i was thinking about u and missing u so much. i realy realy realy like nick! and he was a really good bf and we did alota stuff together and i really miss him but he stil does hav a gf and wev broken up alot and idk! but another problem is matt... i really really love him but not so much as a bf! so idk wat im gunna do hes the kinda guy hoos heart is easily broken and it would b REALLY hard to hurt him! idk wat to do but i seriously REALY REALY REALY like nick a ton! and i really need to talk to him! hope u can help me a lil!
*tryin to decide!

i think you need to give youself some itm eot be single and weigh out your options. you should be thinking about this while you are still in a relationship, its not fair to your boyfriend/best friend.

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Well I've had a crush on my friend's brother for a while now. I'm pretty sure he's into me too, but he's older and I don't want to make things weird. Should I tell him how I feel or just wait until I'm older?

well if i knew how old you and this guy were i would be able to answer the question... but if you like him then go for him

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Me and my 4 best friends are really close. I mean we're always together..but lately, I've been feeling left out. and I don't really know if they wanna be friends with me anymore. Or if things are changing or what. Can someone please help me!

just tell them how you feel, maybe they dont know they are leaving you out.

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What can help nerves or being parinoid ??p.s im only 14 and i do have parinoid problems..

try yoga

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ok i have never had a guy go down my pants or ive never basicly had oral sex or any sex at all but everytime i do stuff with him (making out felling) i get scared after and start to think stupid stuff like im pregnaunt and its not that i dont want to do anything with him and i know in myhead i didnt do anything but i still worry but i dont know whats wrong HELP!!

youre paranoyed. stop it!

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i have been fingered like 3 times but after were done my stomach hurts really bad, is this normal?

nope. maybe you should take that as a sign not to do it anymore.

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what does metro-sexual mean?

i have no idea... i'm sure its something sick though... oh wait i know! it means you met Ro and had sex with him... eww why did you do that? you dirty dog!

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Okay my mom and her best friend have been best friends since high school so her best friends whole family practically knows me and i am best friends with her 3 daughters and i like their cousin who i have been friends with for as long as i can remember..and i have also had a crush on him for as long as i can remember...they live in ohio which is where i moved to florida from...and i still like him ALOT i have a boyfriend and I like their cousin ALOT better and I dont know if he likes me or not and i would rather go out with him than my bf but he lives like 1000 miles away.. What Should I Do

Haleigh Ann

yeah well dont you think its kinda messed up that you have a bf and you like another guy? but i think you should just stay with your bf becuase it will never work out with the cousin guy he lives to far

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i really like emo music and i wanna know some more bands & awesome songs. does anyone know any good emo bands?

emo this, emo that... just stop it already... we all know you just wanna see em naked anyway

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where can i get good pictures of Cute Emo Boys?

ask your mom i'm sure shed love to know you are lookin at that shit you sick freak

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where can i find good pictures of sexxed up boys kissing [emo boys kissing if possible]

becuase we are not aloud to like that type of shit! we are the ones who are supposed to have are screws tight! obviously yours are loose you sick faggot love... what next you wanna watch a horse screw a guy?

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