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Question Posted Monday August 2 2004, 1:24 am

about 50 responded to my last question about sex. My b/f was trying to to get me to have sex with him. When I told him I wasn't ready he accused me of cheating on him with my my older brothers friends lets call him tim(whom is also my frined) I do like tim but I would never cheast on ne b/f-he then sed he didnt care be cuz he cheated on my with sum1 i have known like my whole life-altho we were never very close-now i think tim might ask me out and i really want to say yes but i think it would hurt my ex and make him spread rumors saying a whore and a slut and stuff. I really didn't cheat on him but he won't listen to me and has his 9 yr old brother answer the phone when i call and tell me he can't talk-he evn had him call me a whore- i have no one to talk to becuz my bro and sis in law live a state away-my other sister moved there about 2 days ago and my other brother went to visit them becuz i have stuff to do this week. I'm so alone and NEED HELP FAST PLZ HELP!!0ill rate well!

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selectopaque answered Monday August 2 2004, 11:05 am:
dude.... Why do you give a shit about your ex. He doesn't seem to care if he upsets you, so why do you care if you upset him. If he's so immature that he has to spread rumors about you cheating after he was the one who cheated on you... then screw him. He's not worth anything. Don't call him, don't talk to him, don't smile at him when you see him. Just completely ignore him and anyone who tries to tell you about some lies that he is telling about you. Go for the guy that you like, go for the guy who makes you feel good, not the guy that is a complete ass to you.

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pinklemonadestand answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:47 am:
Okay hun do what you think is right if you like this Tim guy then go out with him. Your ex boyfriend sounds like a real loser and he probably heard from his friends that you cheated on him and the real reason they said that is because he had you and they didn't! They were jealous of him and you and the only way they would be happy if is their friend didn't have you! I say follow what you think is right, if you like this Tim guy then go out with him and don't worry about you ex he probably still likes you!

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Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX answered Monday August 2 2004, 6:18 am:
if he wants to be a jerk let him...u should go out wit "tim" if u worry bout ur ex ur never gonna have a good relationship wit anyone..let him talk crap..its not gonna effect anyone but u..if u worry n ppl that listen to lies...if ppl really know the real u...then u got nothin to worry bout...as long as "tim" and any other guy u date...knows the real u...dont worry bout it...and u should stop callin him...if he wants to be an idiot n stoop so low to let his lil bro call u a whore...then thats just plain immature...if he was a real man...he would face u...n not get all hyped up n outta control when u say no to sex...he would respect u if he actually cared n wouldnt rush..so fuck him

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IxAmxCrying answered Monday August 2 2004, 5:57 am:
Hey sex feels good for girls too.

Just don't yell at him for knowing what he likes.

I say ya bone him, and can him.

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crystal200022us answered Monday August 2 2004, 1:40 am:
I think if you really like Tim then go for him. Who cares what the ex thinks? He said some horrible things and I think you should just ignore that. Also, I'm sure people know that you are not a whore and if they don't then I'm sure they won't care. If they do, then just ignore them as well but definitely go for this guy. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal

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soljette answered Monday August 2 2004, 1:38 am:
yeah, its obvious that your bf, or ex, only wanted you around for sex. which is fucked up, hes an asshole. if you like tim, then id say go for him. who cares what the other guy says, hes a fuckin dickhead.. and if he starts rumors about you saying that youre a whore, tell everyone he had a limp dick with warts on it

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LilMia811 answered Monday August 2 2004, 1:35 am:
well... go for the guy tim. you know you are not a whore. your ex is a dog, he cheated on you. he is just mad because you wouldnt let him get a piece of ass. dont feel bad. and dont let his opinion ruin your life go for the guy tim.

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PuReLuVeR143 answered Monday August 2 2004, 1:28 am:
listen..i had the EXACT SAME THING happen to me....yeah, he might talk shit about u =/...but hey thats the typa person he is, so fuck him, it only shows that he is HELLA hurt... he doesnt wanna l0Ok like hes hurt so he covers it up by talkin shit bout u...go out with this other dude. who gives a fuck bout ur ex..hes a fuckin dickhead...if he talks shit bout u, its ur word against his, just deny it, hold urself up high, and go out with TIM..g0Od luCk
~kristin

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