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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!


I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!

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i really like this hott guy ..
but he has got himself a girl what should i do to get him to like me and dump his girl??

Are you sure you dont just htink hes hott? You could like him but make sure you just dont think hes hott and you like him more then " hottness" I think you should just wait it out until hes not with his gf ne more even though thatyll be really hard. I would have to say start hanging out with him more and maybe he'll come to like you and ditch the other girl and ask you out.
~Brina~

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i am deeply in love with a girl, im 13m and shes 13f, but the thing is i will never be able to go out with her or even get to see her that much. this is all because i moved away, and when i say moved i mean like far far away. after knowing her for a year and loving her for about half of that time, i can just never get her outta my head or stop thinkin about her. she knows how i feel about her but i only get small chances to evre see her agian. but i personally think shes the one... i have no clue wat to do... and i wont give her up...

That totally bites. I'm srry to say but you probably know that 13 yr old relationships dont turn into like marriage in the future. Maybe talk to her online and whatver and become friends. Who knows maybe you'll move back!!! Good Luck and i totaly know how you feel.
~Brina~

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When you eat lolly pops dye gets all over your lips. Does anyone know how to get rid of this? I have blue all over my lips and it's kinda embarrassing. So, does anyone know how to fix this? I'll rate.

It might sound weird but rub toothpaste all over you lips or scrub your lips with soap and water even if it tastes nasty. Good Luck!
~Brina~

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okay..so i have liked this guy for about 4 or 5 months..we have gotten close to getting to know each other but we are both so shy and like i am not really sure he liked me even though i heard that he did. Then something happened and we REALLY don't talk now..not even say hi and we usta say hi before.. He somtimes walks around near me with his friends a lot..but i want to try and get to know him and atleast be frinends wit him.. He doesn't seem to be tryin to get to know me though but i do kno he is really shy. Should i try to start talking to him again or is it not worth it? and cud he possibly like me?

Deffinitly start talking to him again so that he gets to know you and is comfortable around you so if you do end up dateing he will not be shy around you. You'll never know if he likes you if you dont talk to him. Try finding out if he likes you from a friend. Good Luck!
~Brina~

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im 14 years old(male) and i keep cutting myself. I've tried to stop but i keep doing it. I ve talked with my friends to see if they could help me out and one of them started to cut too! i really dont know what to do please help me out.

Do you know why you cut? Did you start doing it because other people did? If your friends arent much help then you need to go to a counselor in your school or your parents. Have your friend go with you also to Your Guidence counselor who will help you out a lot. Good Luck Hun!
~Brina~

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i just need opinions about things, me and my bf have been together for over a year, and i was at his house looking for paper and i found a letter from another girl. in the past we did have problems and he liked another girl but we were still together. i never knew he had this but since i found it and read it, it kinda made me mad that he kept it over 6 months since the problems. so i took it home and tore it up. i know for a fact he wont know its gone, but if he were to confront me about it, was it a good reason that i took it from him? or should i tell him before anything were to happen? thanx.

Yea you might want to talk to him about it. My opinion is that some people { guys also } leave stuff around and forget to throw stuff out so maybe he just forgot that it was there. IF it makes you feel uncomfortable talk to him about it and if he breaks up with you then thats not right, you prob. just a bit jelous ;) but member he chose you not the other girl.
~Brina~

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im 14 with a 2 year old 1/2 sister. i love her to death but sometimes i get fed up. i only see her every other weekend but if im trying to do my homework shes always trying to play with me. I feel bad to leave her, and i always feel im obligated to stay. my dad and stepmom dont really help no matter how much i stress i need to do my home work

Hey. Maybe you can make a schedule for time doing your work and time playing with your sis. I understand what your saying but feeling bad to just not play with her but maybe she can like draw a picture while your doing your work so that your both doing " homework". Talk to your parents about them playing with her while you do you homework. Good Luck.
~Brina~

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Okay one of my best guy friends is home for vacation. And I really like him like alot but he doesnt know (like no one told him). And I want to go to the movies with him tonight but his cell phone and computer arent working. So should I call his house (even though we hardly ever talk on the phone and if we do its on his cell phone) and if so what should I say?
ps. I would also like to invite his best friend who is home for vacatino also
PLEASE HELP I RATE REALLY HIGH!

Deffinitly invite him by calling him on the telly { phone lol }!!! I think it would be better to invite his friend so that he doesnt feel awkward and after you go to the moveis with him and his friend go alone the next time!!! Have fun!!!
~Brina~

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this may sound very goody goody but.. i am so sick of everyone doing drugs and drinking.. not that im completely innocent i mean ive done it before but it seems like right now every single person is into that and half of them are doing it to forget about problems.. now i did learn about drugs and i did learn that weed can actually make depression worse and i also know that after youve done weed for a while your wanting to try a new drug so what do i do.. i hate it that my friends do drugs and drink and dont tell me to forget about them and get new friends because i love my friends.. and also.. everyone in my school does it.. whether you want to believe that or not is up to you.. but really.. the ones that dont are like .. messiahs or something.. please help
*stonecoldmystery*

Its great that you stay away from that stuff and are against it because like you said it is a horrible thing that people do. You could get in serious trouble by being by your friends when they are drinking and smokeing but i know that you wont want to give them up but for a heads up dont be by them when they do that stuff. I like your opinion about drugs and drinking. A lot of kids in my school almost half the school smokes and other stuff. A lot of kids in my grade which is 8th smoke and i think thats pitiful!!!
~Brina~

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Okay.. I'm 14 and a female.. I've had my period since like 6 or 7th grade now I am in 9th.. It's been pretty regular for the most part! Well like the week before new years I got my period.. then I went to my friends house on new years and my ex bf was there. He still liked me and he was acting pretty fricken horny.. well hey it was new years so I got really drunk.. I only remember parts of what happened! Anyways I felt kinda weird the next day.. I thought it was just like the hangover or something because I mean I didn't know.. I don't get drunk a lot!! Well anyways.. it's now February..almost March and I haven't got my period at all!! I don't know what happened between me and my ex.. I have a bad feeling he took advantage of me when I was drunk and took my virginity! The thing is if I am pregnant by any chance... it wouldn't be rape.. at that time.. I might have wanted it! Does anyone know what I can do.. I am going to take a pregnancy test and all I just don't know if I should be looking for signs.. I have gained weight since then too.. not a lot but like 5 pounds! I am really small too I went from 89 to 94 in the past month and a half! Should I be having any discharge or what?? Someone help please!

Yes it would be considered rape if you were drunk. Deffinitly take a pregnancy test to see if your pregnant. You could have gained weight from the stress of all this cuz you might have munched on some junk food. He probably did take advantage of you too. But right away get checked out. Good Luck Hun!
~Brina~

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hey i really like this guy, and i think he might like me, cuz he ALWAYS flirts with me, but im not sure (i am shy) how should i find out

Talk to a friend of his and see what the deal is. Just say that someone you know likes him and she wants to know if hes interested in anyone. Good luck!
~Brina~

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there is this one girl that likes the same guy as me and she keeps on stealing him. I know he likes me b/c he has admitted it, so why did he go out with her?? I really like this kid. Should I ask him out again when he breaks up with this girl, or should I find someone else?

That happened to me i member in the 6th grade. I was really upset cuz i thought the guy liked me. I moved on after a while. They didnt go out till this year lol and it only lasted for a week. If you have feelings for this guy then go for it but find out why he would go out with her if he liked you.
~Brina~

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im bored any site suggestions for a 14/f?

Sure, go to www.bored.com or www.addictinggames.com. Call up a friend. Go for a walk. Draw a picture. Read a book or magazine.
~Brina~

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I have this friend, And I seriously think that I am falling for him. We talk all the time and we claim eachother as best friends and all, But now, I dont know, I've seriously fallen for him. I tlak to him and I get this big smile on my face and I just start giggeling. All I ever want to do is be near him! ugh... oh yea, He's younger than me. What do I do?
((Confused))

Well, i used to have a crush on a kid that was like 3 years younger then me { not anymore but i konw how you feel}. If your falling for him then thats totally ok. See if he likes you by saying if he thinks its normal if an older girl likes a younger guy cuz say that cuz your other friend in your grade likes a guy in his grade. Dont be afraid, theres a bunch of people in my school that are dating younger guys that are 3 yrs younger. And if he likes you and you go out with him dont worry bout what people say, girls date younger guys all the time. Good Luck. IM me if you need to talk about it more.
~Brina~

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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.

Everyone has there own thoughts about what guys want. My opinion is that a lot of guys do want a relationship and other { stupid guys } just want to get laid. If you know that you arent like that then thats all that matters and if girls think that all you want to do is get laid then thats there problem not yours. Besides, they could go out with a guy that only wants to get laid and they probably know it too but they go out with the guy still if that makes ne sense lol. I dont know how people can actually tell that guys want to get laid lolol.
~Brina~

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ok so this is the problem. Ive been going out with this kid for 4 months now, and i broke up with him a lil whie back for like 2 days bc i had feelings for this othre kid. In the summer the other kid and I almost hooked up and we screwed around and i really liked him. but that same night the other kid ( lets call him John) John broke up with this other girl, and so i forgot about The other guy and went out with John. BUt latly i've been haveing mixed emotions like i still like the other kid and when im not with john i feel like i dont want to b with him ne more and stuff but then i hang out with him and its like it all goes away. I really need some help. I rate 5's/

You need to stick with one guy. As you know you cant really be with all of them or that would be messed up. If you like your bf one minute then not the next and the same with the other guy maybe you shoudlnt go with either of them. See how it goes with your boyfriend that you have now and if it doesnt go so well then go with the other guy. Figure out which guy you would rather be with more. Good Luck Hun!
~Brina~

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Does anyone know if I can I have more than one Iguana in my house?

~Nokomis~

Of course you can. Just make sure they get along if you decide to put them in the same cage and if they dont then put them in seperate cages.
~Brina~

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I i got the dancing game i wanted (DDR). I cant stop playing it. My mom says i acn lose a lot of weight playing it. Is losing a lot of weight good or bad? I need help.

If you loose weight its deffinitly not a bad thing unless your loosing too much weight way to fast. I have a friend that lost a lot of weight a day because of Track so her mom made her stop participateing in sport. If your loosing a lot of weight by playing DDR then cut down your " dancing time" a bit. Find something else to keep you occupied instead of DDR.
~Brina~

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Well, I have this bf.. and i like him sooo much and i know he likes me too, but.. hes still in that "prude stage" so we arent really gettin anywhere fast.. if ya know what i mean. And im one of those girls who likes attention and i cant stand that i dont really get that from him.. and i dont know what to do or how to tell him..?? please help! :/

Well, he probably likes you a lot but goes a different "pace" then you. Just let him know that your ready to go to the next level. But just member that if hes not ready its probably nothing against you at all. And let him know you'll like him no matter what.
~Brina~

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My Friend is going to have sex with a boy this febuary vacation and i want to do it too. but the boy that i want to do it with is my friends X but she is moving do you think i should do it or do you think i should wait until she moves so she wont get mad at me?
Please Help Me.
x o Me o x
Gender- female

Hey, well i think all in all it would be mean to do that wether she moves or not but i cant stop you. If i were you i would wait until she moved. And, make sure your ready to have sex and not just have sex because other people are. Im guessing your in between the ages of 13 and 19... so just deff. make sure your ready and when you rate me tell me ur age please so i know.
~Brina~

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