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i just need opinions about things, me and my bf have been together for over a year, and i was at his house looking for paper and i found a letter from another girl. in the past we did have problems and he liked another girl but we were still together. i never knew he had this but since i found it and read it, it kinda made me mad that he kept it over 6 months since the problems. so i took it home and tore it up. i know for a fact he wont know its gone, but if he were to confront me about it, was it a good reason that i took it from him? or should i tell him before anything were to happen? thanx.
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I'd probably do the same thing as you. I'd rip the letter up, but then I would start feeling bad about it. I think you should actually talk to him and tell him what you did. Maybe you could ask him about this other girl and see if he has feelings for her. You guys have been together for a long time, so I don't think you should break up with him because of this. Just talk to him about it, tell him you know about the letter and I'm sure both of you guys can work this out.
♥ Krissy
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I think it was a good reason to take it. I would because your mad that he still has it around. I dont think he will ask you if you tore it up because then if he asks, and it wasnt you then he`ll feel angry with himself that you know he has this letter still. If he asks just say I was just mad when I saw it and I wanted to get rid of it. He will understand you are his g/f good luck hope I helped xo0xo
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Yea you might want to talk to him about it. My opinion is that some people { guys also } leave stuff around and forget to throw stuff out so maybe he just forgot that it was there. IF it makes you feel uncomfortable talk to him about it and if he breaks up with you then thats not right, you prob. just a bit jelous ;) but member he chose you not the other girl.
~Brina~
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I guess it was a good reason but u shouldnt have ripped it up. You should probably tell him or just pretend it never happend that way you would be honest or atleast sound honest.
I hope I helped
<3always Diane MWaaaa good luckk
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I would of done the same thing. No one lieks to see a note from another girl that your bf liked in his drawer. Nahh, jus tell him you felt uncomfortable reading it and mad if he confronts you, I would be seriously pissed with that girl, lol but thats me, nahh I font think you did the wrong thing. Send me feedback on how it goes. -Bianca
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you shouldn't have torn it up. that was the evidence!!! lol. you should just confront him. he might get mad but you have a right to be mad too.
i dont know why he would keep it. either as a reminder never to do it again, or it was misplaced, or he cherishes it. you need to find out. confront him.
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well think for a minute what if u were truly in love with your bf then yall break up and you kept a love letter and presents he gave you becuz it was a good relationship....then your new bf found it and tore it up what would you do? how would you feel?
♥ indeed2
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