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If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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What time in the day should you work out? (mourning, afternoon, night?)

And does stretching help lose wight??

-Zero (link)
It's best to do it in the afternoon. But there's nothing wrong with doing it in the morning,it's just that your body temperature is higher and you're more active in the afternoon. No,stretching doesn't help you lose weight. It's debatable whether stretching even helps you out at all.


ok our school theres basically 2 groups. preps and punks. and we dont get along. i consider myself a punk. and i try to be nice to the preps but they just like call me a slut and a druggie! i am not a slut. my friends know that i aint. and i am not druggie i dont even smoke. but the preps got it in their heads that i am. and they wont leave me alone about it! and the preppy guys think i am "hot" and they always ask me stuff like "ur so hot why do u hang out with the druggie guys?" well u do cuz a/ most of them arent druggies b. they are super respectful. but i just dont get why preps are so mean to me and my friends. i mean we are nice to them and they are just total jerks (i would use other chioce words) and now we are jerks back to them cuz they are to us! even the teachers are unfair to us cuz we dress different and skate. how can we get this whole thing to stop? its soo incredibly dumb and how can we get the teachers to stop? we cant report to the principal hes worse than the teachers. (link)
A lot of the time people judge others based on appearnace alone. I've done it before,but I try not to do it anymore. They're going to be jerks to you until they grow the fuck up,which,for some,may be never. You could try to talk to them and be like "I think we got off on the wrong foot. Why don't we start over as friends?" And if they're still assholes,then you've done all you can do.


Yes, there is a band called Butt Trumpet, and i got ahold of one of their cds from a friend, and i really like the cd, but what I want to know is have they made anymore. I have the cd called "Primative Enema" and it was made in like 1994, but its still awesome. So if anyone knows if the band is still together, or if they made anymore cds, please let me know. (link)
You can go to yahoo or google and type in the band's name and it'll give you their history. Along with a lot of other stuff.


((I'm 15/f))I think i am ready for sex but im not all that sure cause sometimes i think about it and think that i might regret it in the future. I REALLY like this guy tho. Also, I'm kinda scared that it will hurt really bad and i'm scared that i might not know what to do. What do u think? (link)
If you only think you're ready,you're not. The first time you have sex,yes it's gunna hurt. But you know what to do,you know the birds and the bees. At 15,no you don't like this guy enough to have sex with him.


It doesn't seem like we have touched on this subject much. I know how contravercial it is...so please dont pass judgement on me. I want advice not a lecture. 2 years ago on Aug 8th I has an abortion. I was 7 weeks Pregnate. I strugle every day with the descion i made. This time of year is the worst though. I had no support from anyone who knew including the scumbag who I had sex with. I mad a rash descion. And to this day I know it was the wrong one. It was increadably selfish. I had more options but I took the easy way out. I should have taken responsibilty for my actions and I didn't. With all that said, my quetion is...what are my chances of being able to conceive a child again. Are they less...or does it make it more difficult becuase of the abortion. Please let me know any info or websites you may know of that can help me. Thanks for your help ! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo (link)
At least you're sorry and you've owned up to your mistake. But no,having an abortion doesn't effect future births. I'm sorry that you felt you had no one to turn to and that you feel bad about this.


I Lost my period last month on tha either 1 or 3 ummm i havnt started yet n i havnt had sex none im still a virgin im scared cause my mom wants to take me to the doctor .....what could b wrong with me (link)
Periods can be irregular all the time,especially if you're still young like 13 or 14. I've never had the pleasure of having one,but I'm a good listener. Also,if you've recently lost a lot of weight,then that could also be a determining factor. It's not something to be worried about.


well i have had many boyfriends in the past but they all have been behind my parents back because if i tell them they r gonna begin with (this is them)"ur gonna get pregnent mess up ur future not get a job!!!" and so on but im not cause i respect myself and know when things go to far and i dont like the idea of being with a boi behind my parents back anymore and i wanna tell them now but i dont know how without them acting all mad and crazy.so any ideas ppl? (link)
If you're not having sex with them,then you're not going to get pregnant. Your parents sound very controlling if they have no confidence in you whatsoever about being smarter than that. Unfortunately,that's how your parents are and that's how they'll stay for the rest of your life. They'll always view you as a baby who can't think for herself? What can you do? Well,you're gunna have to tell them,"Mom,Dad, why do you treat me like a child when it comes to guys? Don't you think you raised me better than that? Why do you feel that I'm too stupid to go out with anyone?" You can make up some more stuff too.


Whats Emo music? What does the e.m.o stand for? (link)
This is music that's very emotional. Makes you cry and shit. Like Maroon 5,crappy band by the way.


wuts the best way 2 get rid of a pimple rell fast (link)
Pop that sucker.


I need help. Fast! I'm going to my cousins tomorrow until friday and I was just talking to her and she told me about when she was swimming in the lake these 2 guys came up to her and she knew them but..they kept touching her and one of them hit her and left bruises and..then one of them went behind her n took her hands and held them behind her back and the other one took down her bottoms...then she kicked them but she cries all the time! She's scared to tell anyone..and she told me to promise not to tell...and I'm scared and I don't know what to do!

PLEASE help! (link)
Your cousin was a victim of sexual assault and she has a duty to report this immediately. Why is she scared to tell anyone? These guys might do it again to some other girl. You have to break your promise to your cousin and tell on those bastards. These guys might even do it again to her. No matter what threats they make,the police will take care of them. I just wanted to say Heart of Gold needs to go to law school. That's exactly what arguments a lawyer will use too.


Im a twin. Were both 5'4 except im 94 pounds and shes 104 pounds. Im getting harassed constantly. they say "o shes the anerexic twin", "well thats how u tell them apart, ones anerexic", nd just regular stuff like hey anerexic girl n stuff like that. they even call me mary kate! should o try to gain a little weight or should i just deal wit it? thanx (link)
You may need to gain a little bit,but you're not severely underweight and you're not anorexic.


is there camreas in the moive theateres? (link)
No.


im horney.. no guys here, what should i do?! (link)
Im me.


Hey my boyfriend recently got drunk and while he was drunk he said a lot of sweet things he has never said to me before. He told me he wanted to marry me and start a life with me. I was wondering if that really could be true. Because he was drunk. Do drunk people say whats on their mind or make up bullshit? (link)
When you're drunk,you say a lot of shit you don't mean. It feels good to say it but you're not at all thinking clearly.


Well, I have a band with three of my friends, we don't really play instruments though, we just sing. But we're auditioning for the school's talent show and I don't think that they actually WANT to be singers as much as I do...and I want to ditch the band and get with a REAL band who is actually interested in singing and not just to do something, you know? Also, I feel that I should be the lead singer since I have "the voice" and they...don't. How can I tell them this without actually telling them? (link)
Well,first of all a REAL band would have instruments. You sound like you have quite the ego,what makes you have the voice and not them? You can simply drop out of the band like David Lee Roth did for Van Halen. After he did though,the vocals just weren't the same.


on buddy4u hOw do u get music ?! can u answer me please ill rate u !! (link)
I really don't know.


Hi, MFS here again...

This is not really a question, but a request...

Can we please stop it with the "I rate" and "Rate me!" crap? Are getting ratings THAT important to you? Does it somehow make your life complete? This site isn't a game, people... ratings are not for keeping score. There is no competition - just advice. The ratings are supposed to be for keeping the bad advice off the site, much like we have the moderators in place to help keep the really bad questions off the site.

I mean, when I see a question that says "I rate!" in the body or even subjet of it, it just screams "OMG! PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!!!!" It is getting kind of pathetic, as we're seeing it ALL THE TIME!

Let's give it a rest. (link)
I totally agree.


ok this is totally imbarising but when i pee i pee red and i no its not my period cause it always goes on please help im scared and i will NOT go to a doctor cause when i was younger one mollested me :( (link)
You may have a urinary tract infection. If you do,you have to see a doctor. No ifs,ands,or buts about it. Just because one molested you when you were younger,that doesn't mean this one will. Besides you're gunna get sick in your life and you're gunna need to see a doctor eventually. If you don't see a doctor,then you'll end up living the rest of your life like this. Oh,and report the doc that molested you.


I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
You should take responsibilty for your actions and have the baby. Put it up for adoption,but anything is better than abortion. Your parents will be disappointed in you and your bf is shallow,so he's gunna leave you too. Your parents love you and they'll get over it. Carrying the baby for 9 months will teach you to be more careful next time. You have no right to end that child's life,no matter what the law says.


im lezibian but im really scared to tell my parents and friends any advice on how to break the news?? (link)
You don't have to tell any friend you don't want to,but yeah you need to tell your family. Just sit down with your parents and tell them that you like only girls(I can relate). They'll still love you,even if that is your descision.




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