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im lezibian but im really scared to tell my parents and friends any advice on how to break the news??
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u could just keep it to ureself if u thought thatd be the right thing to do or u could just straight out tell them nd if they wont except u for that then theyre not worth it ure parents nd family will always love either way though so dont worry bout them plus they should kno wuts goin one in their kids' lives hope i helped
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* ~ some of ur friends might have known but all u can do is tell ur family.....even if they disagree with u they will still love u ~ *
* ~ Ashley ~ *
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well first off..most likely one of ur friends or most of ur friends might know u r...my best friend was a lesbian since 7th grade and me n all my friends knew it for a long time...she finally came outta the cloest to everyone in the end of 10th grade...but if ur really scared u should just talk to ur friends...ask em what they think bout girls bein lesbians..and see how they respond to it and go from there...urfriends will usually accept it before ur parents...but who knows...most likely if ur parents r the kind that dont believe in things like that...they will be pretty scared at first..so...u gotta let em get uset to it and not expect all hugs and happyness or whatever i guess right away
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You don't have to tell any friend you don't want to,but yeah you need to tell your family. Just sit down with your parents and tell them that you like only girls(I can relate). They'll still love you,even if that is your descision.
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If you're sure this is how you feel, I reckon you should suss out how your parents feel about homosexuality, to help determine how hard it will be to tell them. If you think they'll be very uncomfortable with it, maybe drop hints, then when you tell them, it won't be as big a shock. The only way to really go about it is just to sit them down and tell them straight out. Remember that they are your parents, and though they may be shocked at first, they love you and will accept it in time. x
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Leave hints in your room and lyk say stuff that hints it and once you do thast enought sum1 sure as hell will ask you if you are! and anyways this is the perfect oppurtunity to see if your friends ae your true friends! any other questions just ask!
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haha your a lezibian
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*I know it's gonna be hard but you just gotta tell them. Wait for a time when you're ready to though.*
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hey one of my BEST friends went through this.. wen she was 13 she new she was a lesbian and she always asked me what she should do.. or if she should tell her parents.. i told her that she should wait till shes ready.. but she had a really hard time hiding it from them cus she hated that she knew they wouldnt understand.. shes about to turn 15 this month and she just told them like last month.. she cried a lot when she told them but they sed that they had thought she was already.. it turned out that they were pretty much ok with it and accepted her for who she was.. so if you feel like they'll understand and realize that that's just who you are than tell them but if not.. you can wait as long as you feel like you need to =] hope i helped =] xOxO -des*
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