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Q: im still pondering about what to get my boyfriend for valentines day before I put it off until the last minute...any cute suggestions?
something that smells good with a box of chocolates-trix

Q: is it necessary to have sex to have a good and long relationship?
Yes as long as you are committed and make sure you dont think you are making a mistake-trix

Q: Hey, my average rating was a 4.78. I was just rated a 5 and my rating went down to a 4.5! What happend??
Your rating probably wasnt calculated right in the first place. It calculates every 24 hours or so. And then its probably added up from all. Just go to help and look and click on "i want to see my rating calculated right now" click on that link and then go to it and loook at your past ratings for the 30 days-trix

Q: My teacher put us in groups and she put me with all ppl i basically hate! and i don't think we'll get anything accomplished cuz none of like each other! what should i do? thanks!
Well you just need to suck it in and same goes for the others. Its about the grade right now and what either of you guys hold against eachother needs to be put back and forgotton right now. I dont know why everyone hates eachother or whatever but just try and put it behind you no matter how hard that might be for being what they did but its about the grade right now-trix

Q: Sorry...I knoe this isn't anything about advice but I just was wondering....how did u make your background blikie like that? lol!

haha its okay. I went to www.trickletrunk.net or .org and just copied the link into column settings

Q: I am 41 year old male, at 18 I married my best friends sister who had been date raped at 16 (not by me) and was pregnant. I married her and raised the child as my own. We took in 2 foster children that we later adopted because she could not have any more. Although I was never in romantic love with her we had a good life and wonderful family. 5 years ago she had to have a hysterectomy and died for several minuets they revived her but she has never came back to "herself" I am now more of her caretaker. There is no sex, romance or even adult discussion. I can't leave her nor want to for the fact it wouldnt be right to leave her because of an illness that is not her fault.
I try to release my stress in the gym and other ways and have developed a very good physical appearance and have many friends, but Im so very lonley. I am afraid to have an affair, it wouldnt be right to either woman, but I so long for the touch, caress and conversation with a woman. I dont know where to turn. Whats your Advice?
Well I would go to a therapist. And not leave and get out of this. But divorce her and still take care of her. Im sure you would still have the same feelings for her but you can't hold yourself back no matter how hard that may sound but its true. Now we all will keep your wife in our prayers but you are trying very hard and its just not working out. So you need to talk to someone professional and get help with someone that can actually communicate with you in person and will help you. Good luck-trix

Q: when you shave down there do you shave it all off or just a certain way? i rate high!
You can shave it however you want to. Some people say not to shave all the way because you get bad bumps it looks pretty wrong. You are just putting yourself the pain. So you could just trim and shave a little bit. Just like enough so you can wear a bikini. Hope I helped ya!!-trixxie

Q: hi im toxic x babii x3, i was just wondering how to add links at the top of my advice column. i want to add another link but i dont know what to do.. so bottom line. how do i do it?

Xo,
ali
You just put them in about me or are you talking for the part where it says "my website" or whatever and it says something cool?-trix

Q: so ...ok awkward question.

when your going out w/ someone do u have to have sex w/ them?...like wuts required cuz i dont feel like i'm ready to but he already has a lot and i just dont no wut to do...i dont want to like hold him hostage by being like you cant have sex w/ neone else but i wont have sex with you either. but i just dont feel ready to do it. idk.
Hey you know you shouldnt do anything you dont want to do so therefore you shouldnt be pressured into it. If the person you are going out with makes you have sex with them then they realy dont care about you. Harsh. But i know. THey would respect your opinion. Anyways. If you feel like you are holding them back then just break up them or talk to them about it. Chances are if they havent pressured you to have sex then they respect you and your decisions. You have the right to say that you dont want him to go have sex with someone else. Because that is your boyfriend so you arent tying him down. Because that would be called cheating if he did do that. Im just thinking you should talk to him about it and see what he has to say for himself and ask him if would ever pressure you and what not but if he does say he would then you need to cut the relationship off no matter how hard it is because you would be getting yourself into some things you wouldnt want to. So dont set yourself up for a burn. Hopefully that helped-trix

Q: can anyone tell me how many chapters the book "haroun sea of stories" has??? and can you please giive me a quick summary of each if there arent too many chapters!?!?!? thank you so much!!! i rate 5s for evey answer that does not piss me off!!!
never heard of the book but you could type in what is .. whatever your book name is on ask.com

Q: Alot of my friends are really annoyed by one of my friends latley. She's going out with someone that she doens't really like (she likes 2 other ppl) and one of them is some one that her friend got dumped by (it's been a month but she still really likes him)and sometimes she wears clothes that r uh...too small and well...i'm torn between my tow friends, they both have good points but i don't kno wut to do, i don't want one ot hate me.

plz help me
You need to say that you cant be put inbetween this this is there deal. Not yours you'd love to help them out anyother time but not when it comes to friends. You can never ever choose between friends. You shouldnt anyways. Just let them know you'll be there to listen but you cant hate one of them and if they are really truely good friends they'd listen to you-trix

Q: this might be confusing. but here goes. ok i liek this guy named matt and ive liked him since last summer and he likes me too. every time i talk to him im so happy and i cant stop smiling but the thing is he lives in denton and i live in flowermound. (texas) so i never ever see him so it sucks. but the thing is at my school (FMHS) theres this one guy ive liked since the beginning of football season and he liked me and all but nothing ever happened besides we kissed one time during truth or dare but thats not the point. i still like him and he told me he likes me but neither of us want a boyfriend or girlfriend. he told me he just wants someone he can be really good friedns with and flirt with and he wants it to be me. well heres the bad part, this other guy likes me and i talked to him on the phone last night for like 8 hours. it was amazing. so i kinda liek all three guys and all 3 liek me and i have no idea what to do!please help! ill rate you veryy high if you give a good answer
I would say just go with the guy you can see with for a long time and that cares about you more and would put effort towards seeing you more. Because you need to see your man. Otherwize that just sucks if you cant. So just go for the guy that treats you better, and you can see with for awhile-trix

Q: hey im 13 and i cant go anywhere exept skool and sports-so if theres not adult supervisoin then i cant go which sux i talk to my mom about it all the time but i cant get her to give in she says she trust me but she dosnt think ill be safe but i kno i will-and on a totaly dif subject i have this one friend she like one of my best friends ive known her for year and i feel like im her "posse" who ever answers this dont tell me to talk to her about it cuz i dont need to i just wanna kno am i or is it just a feeling
plz help
lost ~n~ life
I dont know if you are her "posse" because i havent seen you around her. But you are only 13 and thats how alot of my friends and my parents were. They are just scarred of letting us grow up. But she will lighten up later on when you get older. I didnt really get let out of the house for late night thing until like 14 and half. So you have sometime. But my dad said he'd would have let me go out if i figured these things out on my own.. to tell him where i was going, who with, where to after, how he can reach me, and what i would do if something happaned. I guess that was the key to going out when i was 13. So try that. Hope I helped-trix

Q: im 13 and female
i went out with this guy cuz my friend told me he liked me and i liked him to we broke up a wihle ago and now i think i like more than i did when we were goin out could someone girl or guy tell me wut to do
thanx
lost n life
Well you are only 13 and you have plenty of this ahead of you. I wouldnt get to caught up in puppy love now. Or real love now. Just enjoy life and date diff. guys. You have your whole life ahead of you so just dont settle down on one guy. But you could talk to the guy and see what he thinks about going out again. Or you could just give it time-trix

Q: This is question has been designated as a QABEATD. Only moderators can answer it.
im a moderator.. and i have no idea.. sorry I think it might be for more of a higher level of moderators. email mod. 3 and im sure they can help you-trix

Q: Im doing the talent show at my school. I already signed up so i cant not do it. I wanna sing, but i dont know what song to sing... does anyone have any good ideas for songs?
I sound sorta like Kelly Clarkson, Martina McBride, Leann Rimes, SheDaisy, Play, Shania Twain...
-*%Nat%*-
Do break away-trix

Q: theirs this boy in my math class and we are friends sometimes he flirts with me and i do it back sometimes i think i like i do i let him know i like him with out lettin him know i like him if any one can relate to this please write back


thanks
You should let him know. The worst thing that can happan is that he wants to be just friends but hey you will make it thru and find a new guy and he will like you back. That is if this guy doesnt like you good luck-trix

Q: What does it mean when your around a boy and he makes u feel like no one else is around?
a crush... love.. you like him

Q: I use Herbal Essence Conditioner and it works really well. How do you know when you've gotten it out so you can get out of the shower so your hair won't be oily looking because sometimes it looks as if I haven't washed it in a few days. Does anybody know?
Wash your hair alot. Stand under the water awhile longer-trix

Q: Some of my friends tell me that I shop at expensive places. I pretty much shop at Abercrombie, American Eagle, and sometimes at Express. But there's more expensive stuff that I could get. And they say that I'm ubsessed with Abercrombie because I have lots of stuff from there. Is this true??
No it doesnt matter its just a name brand its the clothes you like so dont worry. just try to open your horizons. Go to mandys or Forever 21

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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