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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!textarea.Skem9box {width:200px; height:100px;color:White;font-size:11pt;font-family:Times New Roman;background-color:Black;}
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I like this guy he is my best friend too..i have told him i liked him before and he told me he liked me too..then a few days after that he told this guy he never liked me like that ..then i asked him about it and he said he likes me for a rly good friend..what should i do..
just be his really good friend... it seems l;ike that is all you can be
im going out with this chik but its only been for almost 2 weeks now, she just got grounded for a long time and we wont be able to hang out, should i dump her,she cant talk on phone or internet either
you might as well things probbaly wont work out
whats blue balls?
its something guys get when girls supposedly tease them and it supposedly hurts really bad.
ok wen i am in mi room i lyk pu t a stripping gshow on in mi room by myself. and wen i am at school or sumpin i am really she an dall mi friends think i am a goodie too-shoes. how can i make mi friends not think i am a goodie too shoes???
help!!!!!! ill rate u a 5 just 4 helpong me
i'm sorry but i reallly have no clue what yuo wnat to know or are trying to say
Ummm. Ok I know it sounds stupid but what is head and brain.Not like I need to know but anywayz i dont know what it is.
it means sucking dick
how do u get crabs? and how can u tell if u ahve them?
you can get crabs from havin sex with someone who has them, sharing a towel, toilet seats, bed sheets. they are lice and they jump from head to head or crotch to crotch. its just that when they are in your head they are called lice and when they are in your crotch they are called crabs. but they are the exact same bug. if you have them you will itchy and you will be able to see them if you look between your pubic hairs. they burrow inside of them. you can get rid of them by shaving and then using a special shampoo.
ok this weekend i got my hair cut and i went by myself this time when usually i go with my mom. well my hair person is a guy. and idk who to tell ive only told 1 person and they said i should tell my mom but im so scared. well neways he was talkin bout my tan lin efrom my bikini and then he started lookin at it and he pulled my shirt down and by bra out so he could see my whole boob and i tried to pull his hand away but he grabbed my hand and pulled my shirt down even more. i dint knwo wut to do cuz hes a big buff guy and i was scared to do nething. we were the only ones in there so i couldnt do nething. then he kept grabbin my boobs and he unzipped his pants and told me to look and i told him that i didnt want to and he still did. then after he grabbed my chin and kiss me on the lips like 5 times. and hes like tell me u would do me if u were older.. (im 15 hes 32)and i tried to turn away again and he grabbed my chin and said look at me in a mean controlin voice. i felt so uncomfortable and idk who to tell. idk if u would call that molestation or wut. and its horrible bc i cry all the time now, its been 2 days since it happend. and everytime i wash my hair i remember it and i start to cry bc i was gettin my hair done when this happend. im so scared to tell my parents. what should i do????
plz help me im so scared
okay what happened to you is really messed up. you need to go tell yuor mom and get that sicko in trouble. i dont know if he molested you or what he did was sexual harrasssment, but if i were i would tell my mom, and tell her evry detail, leave nothing out. that guy is a creep and you dont deserve to have to feel guilty about what he ddi to you.
i am 14 years old and i have had this porn in my room and and my grandma found it and showed it to my dad. my dad confronted me about it, but we didn't finish talking about. now that i've have a while to think about it, i really want to lie!! it's so embarrasing that he knows about it!! he might not think of me the same way again and i really don't want to be uncomfortable around him. what should i say?
tell him you forgot it was eevn ther. that your friend gave it to you and you told him to take it back but he must have left it there. say you're not interested in that stuff. you can barely stomach sex ed.
me and my brother fight 24/7...my parents hate it...i just cant stand anything he does...hes 12 im 14...he acts arite when its jsut me n him...but around his friends or when im around my friends and we include him he acts s0o0 freakin immature..i talked ot him about it and he was like ur right im sry ill stop...aand so far he has...but today he was all whiney...like everything i sed hed whine n giv me attiude..and i talk to him about a lotta stuff like he knows im not a virgin if i hav a bf etc..stuff my rents dont even kno!! and he blackmails me everytime we get in a fight...O IMA TELL MOM U HAD SEX ALREADY...*ya it was def. a mistake ...peer preshure i wuld NEVER do it again..* 5 mins of plesure is DEF. not worth worryin about pregnancy..newayz..ya whenever we get into a fight he always tells...is ther ne thing i can say to him to make him b more mature??? i hav stuff on him that i culd tell my mom but thats s00o childish!! help..
yeah well that wasnt too smart to tell your little bro you had sex already. you're only 14, of course he is gonna black mail you. you shouldnt have told him. atleast you're smart enough to know it was a mistake though. and unfortuantely there is nothing you can do to make a 12 year old boy act more mature. it is in his nature to be a frwakin pain in the ass. but if it makes you feel better you can smack upside the head.
heyy my sisters and i r not very close and whenever i try to do things with them it turns into a big fight!
What should i do?
sisters are fuckin pains in the asses sometimes. but keep trying every now and then they will come around
My boyfriend and I have been together for months and we've decided to take our relationship to the next level by having sex.
I'm hesitant, though, because friends have told me that it hurts. I understand quite a bit about sex for my age. I know that if he goes slow at first, it won't hurt quite as much. But I still feel scared.
What should I do?
whether he goes slow or not point blank that shit is gonna hurt. you're being basically ripped open. think about it. it hurts. theres no way to get around it.
what does getting laid mean? what happens?
it means gettin some, beating that shit up, the horizontal mambo, doing the no no, getting fucked, get the point...? its having sex!
My boyfriend told me that, when you have sex your first time, there's no way to get pregnant.
I can't remember -exactly- how he explained it but it has to do with a certain thing, that cannot be penetrated by sperm, coating the male organ. And this -only- happens when a girl has sex the first time.
Is that true? Or is it equally possible to get pregnant when you have sex for the first time?
no it is not true! you're bf has no idea what he is talkin about! where does he gets his info from? yeah there is something that coats the inside of your vagina that acts like acid to sperm and kills the like half of them when they enter you, but then the other half find there way in. and this acid like thing is always there not just the 1st time you have sex. and yeah you can get pregnant the 1st time you have sex. so if you're planning on it then tell your boy friend to strap up, cuz his info is wrong.
well this comming Sundae...is a concert here in my town~Stockton...Cassidy..J-Kwon..Petey Pablo..Ying-Yang Twinz will b here...and i dont know what to wear??!!...any ideas?
wear something that makes you look like a super slut! something that just screams "i'm loose! come and get it!"
ok my friend REALLY wants to know an answer to this:
for guys..which do yall like better brunettes or blondes? :/
some like blondes, sone like brunettes, some like red heads...it all depends on the guy
if i'm like 5'2 and weigh 108 lbs. is that a lot?
no! you are a little thing!
whats the best way to stuff...to make it look like ur boobies are bigger when they really arent?
you should like yourself for the way you are
ok...my boyfriend isnt that great of a kisser. hes not bad, hes just not...great lol. should i just let things move along and see if he gets better at it or like...i dunno? lol, advie please!
just let things move along and see if he gets better. a relationship shouldnt just be based on how great a person kisses.
im 5"0 and i weigh 127 is that fat?
no you're fine
Since the last time I was at the gyno my boyfriend and I had sex. I cant tell my doctor if I go back because she'll take tests for STD's and birth control, then my mom will know. Should I not tell the dr and get birth control from a friend or should I tell her and make up a reason for the birth control? I'm so scared my mom will find out, she'll kill me :-/ Thank you soo much for the advice!
go to a free clinic or a planned parent hood. they give birth control and test for stds and hiv for free to minors and they are confidential. you wont have to tell your mom anything if you do it that way.