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Question Posted Monday August 2 2004, 8:31 pm

ok this weekend i got my hair cut and i went by myself this time when usually i go with my mom. well my hair person is a guy. and idk who to tell ive only told 1 person and they said i should tell my mom but im so scared. well neways he was talkin bout my tan lin efrom my bikini and then he started lookin at it and he pulled my shirt down and by bra out so he could see my whole boob and i tried to pull his hand away but he grabbed my hand and pulled my shirt down even more. i dint knwo wut to do cuz hes a big buff guy and i was scared to do nething. we were the only ones in there so i couldnt do nething. then he kept grabbin my boobs and he unzipped his pants and told me to look and i told him that i didnt want to and he still did. then after he grabbed my chin and kiss me on the lips like 5 times. and hes like tell me u would do me if u were older.. (im 15 hes 32)and i tried to turn away again and he grabbed my chin and said look at me in a mean controlin voice. i felt so uncomfortable and idk who to tell. idk if u would call that molestation or wut. and its horrible bc i cry all the time now, its been 2 days since it happend. and everytime i wash my hair i remember it and i start to cry bc i was gettin my hair done when this happend. im so scared to tell my parents. what should i do????
plz help me im so scared


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Additional info, added Monday August 2 2004, 8:32 pm:
and also when he was lookin at my boob he kept like feelin it and grabbing it and ruybbing my nipples.... and he kept callin my beautiful and sayin that he wanted me. .

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brunettebabe answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:55 am:
u liar!

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xO_sTePhIe_Ox answered Thursday August 5 2004, 2:14 pm:
OMG, I am so sorry that that happened to you. If you are embarressed to tell your parents - you GOTTA call the police. Or, you should go to the police station and ask to speak to a girl officer. PLEASE tell someone you trust because it's serious. I hope I helped <3 Steph

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cheerchic2009 answered Monday August 2 2004, 10:52 pm:
TELL SOMEONE!!!!

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trackstarshortie07 answered Monday August 2 2004, 9:28 pm:
that seems really bad i think you should tell your parents because they will really be able to help you tell me if i helped

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CheerMMS24 answered Monday August 2 2004, 9:05 pm:
You should DEFINATELY tell a grown up! he probably does that to many other girls that are too scared to tell anyone, so tell someone!! Its not like its your fault, so you shouldn't be scared to tell anyone. Hope this Helps and im really sorry this has happend to you!

<3 xoxo
-me

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ballerina04 answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:48 pm:
you have to tell your mom!!! your not the one at fault, he is. don't be scared. he's a sick person, and he needs to be reported before he does this to you or someone else again. i wish you the best of luck!!!!! send me a message if you need to vent or need more support. i'm here for you

xox Kristen

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nEwYoRkLaDii answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:48 pm:
wow this is sum serious stuff. first, TELL UR MOM. that is the most important thing. next, contact a center that can help u with this bc it sounds like ur in a state of depression. third contact the police. think about it... wat if your not the only person hes done this too?! you need to get this guy out of here bc i know i wouldnt want him touchin my hair... n i mean do this rite now... so i hope u have the phone n ur hand. go!

p.s. its 100% illegal

~nyladii~

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iTaLiaN_DiaMonD answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:47 pm:
omg... im so sorry to hear that! you should deff. tell your parents. your prolly a good girl and you dont deserve this stuff! you did a good thing by not looking in his pants. by not telling anyone it is going to rip you appart. if you tell your parents you will feel a lot better about yourself. dont think you did anything wrong because you didnt! i would highly recomend you to tell your parents. it will help you. where was everybody while he was doing this to you? all i have to say it tell your parents...

hope i helped and everybody else did

<3 Jackie

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lil_kati22 answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:41 pm:
what he was doing was sexual harrsment you should tell your parent they'll understand and don't be scared too there your parent they'll know what to do and then you and your parents go to the cops and tell them acually what you told me and they'll put him away for sexual harrsment

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LilMia811 answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:40 pm:
okay what happened to you is really messed up. you need to go tell yuor mom and get that sicko in trouble. i dont know if he molested you or what he did was sexual harrasssment, but if i were i would tell my mom, and tell her evry detail, leave nothing out. that guy is a creep and you dont deserve to have to feel guilty about what he ddi to you.

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soljette answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:39 pm:
im sorry you had to go thru that. thats fucked up. you definitely need to tell someone about that dickhead. if you dont, who knows, hed probably do that to someone else as well.. youre very lucky that he didnt do anything more, but what hes done, he could get in a lot of trouble for it. yeah, i think you should tell your parents. thats the best thing to do

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NicoleMarie answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:38 pm:
Tell your parents! If you are uncomfortable doing this, talk to your school counselor. What he did is not just molestation, its assault! And very ilegal. Rember that he could be doing this to other girls. Stand up for your rights! Your voice will be heard.

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LiL'BiT40613 answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:36 pm:
You should definetly tell your parents b/c that is wrong. They can report him which is the right thing to do. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
Hope I helped! Rate me please!
~Brooke~

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kevin1986 answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:34 pm:
Tell the police because this guy sexually harrassed you. He's a sick asshole who needs to be arrested. Maybe he's done this to some other girls and they've just been afraid to tell on him. You have to do it. The police won't laugh at you. Do it immediately.

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LoViny0ux914 answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:34 pm:
hun thts sexual harassment! u need 2 tell ur mom ok dont be scares you did NOTHING WRONG! n if you dont tell some one who can help, he might do this to another unlucky girl. it might go even further next time..like rape maybe? turst me hun, tell ur parents. n 1 other thing, dont go back 2 tht hairstylest!! im sry tht hpnd 2 u!

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