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i was on my period and me and my boyfriend had sex and he stayed inside me.
we did that five times.
and after that we did it fifteen times with him pulling out when i was off my period.
do you think i am pregnant? (link)
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There is always a chance you can become pregnant, especially, when you aren't using protection. Plus, the pull-out method does NOT work - neither does the period method. So I recommend getting a pregnancy test soon.
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hi my names jess well today i had sex with my boyfriend. when we were done i realized the condom went into me. the ring was facing downwards and it was filled with cum. the cum was still inside the condom. if it was facing down not up is ther still a really good chance im pregnant. also ive been on birth control for 4 months but 3 of them it hasnt work so last month i got switched to a higher one. please tell me if i have a good chance of being pregnant?
thank you (link)
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I think you still have a good chance of being pregnant, unfortunately, but I recommend waiting about two weeks and buying a pregnancy test.
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over the summer i got this pair of sunglasses from the vans warped tour 2007
but i accidently scratched them and it seems there is no way to repair them
i was wondering if anyone knows the site or a way to find the sit from online to order the exact same pair
here are the glasses:
http://i17.tinypic.com/71riqyu.jpg
http://i15.tinypic.com/73li4o5.jpg
thank you! (link)
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I would go to Vans and let them know what happened, I'm sure they can do something about it. =)
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does someone know a store/online store like american apparel? (link)
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*Alternative Apparel
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Okay this is basically my hair now.
I want to change it up a bit, but i dont know how exactly i want to do it.
I have a punk/emo stlye. I do not want to change my hair to dramatically.
Pictures are amazing!.
thanks =D (link)
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*First Picture - http://www.ultimate-cosmetics.com/guides/punk-hairstyles/
http://www.free-makeup-tips.com/haircare/punk-hair-style.htm
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I have 2 questions about facebook
Like myspace where there is an Online picture, is there a way to tell if your friends are on?
And also, is there anyway to see page views like you can on myspace? (link)
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1) You don't have an online picture, but you do have some text that says, "So and so is online."
2) No, unfortunately, there is not.
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What song is this
it goes like
"drink in my juicer"
??
Thanks!!
xoxo (link)
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You can try this website, I've gotta tell you that I've looked just about everywhere and cannot find it. If you figure out anymore lyrics to the song, I'll be happy to try it again.
http://www.endlesslyrics.com/
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i want to put black in my hair
only a few stripes on the side
and i plan on buying some stuff that you can highlight your hair
i have dark brown hair and yeah
it's like light brown highlights, maybe a little orange
i think i'm only gonna do the side on my left
if it looks good, i will do the whole thing.
what do you think!? (link)
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I think the light brown highlights along with the black in your hair would look great, but I think if you put the orange in your hair - you might get the halloween effect. But other than that, I think it'll look great! =)
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http://a491.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/8/l_4dfdddbd8962c520a6717120e997e10a.jpg
does anyone know where i can get those sunglasses?
thank you! (link)
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You can find [similiar] sunglasses at American Eagle and Wet Seal.
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a friend of mine send me a pic of him on his phone almost naked by accident
it was supposed to go to someone else
he claims it was a girl but im not sure
i think he mite be gay but im not sure is there any sign or indication that a person is gay because he would never admit it to me (link)
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Just the way he acts and talks, that's about it really. But I have to tell you, it's his business if he's gay and if he doesn't want to come out - then he should have that right. I don't recommend trying to find out if he's gay or not, it's his choice and if he doesn't want anyone else to know, then you probably shouldn't.
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Ok, so I know you've probably heard it all before.... but I've liked this guy for the past year (I'm female sophomore now, 15 years old) and we really didn't talk much last year. This year, we have the same lunch/studyhall and two other classes together. Well,we both go to the school library during the lunch/studyhall and i usually sit with my friends and he sits with his friends. For a while, i would go and sit at his table, but lately, hes been sitting at my table with me and my friends. Hes not the most intelligent person, but hes really sweet and really funny, and i like him a lot because he's always trying to make me laugh and goof around. According to everyone else that's in classes with him, he's really quiet and doesn't talk much, which is how he was last year around me. But now whenever he's around me, he's really loud and funny. So, since we've been talking more, I decided to try and ask him out to a movie. I decided to tell my friends that i would start talking about a movie that i knew me and my guy friend both wanted to see, and that i would say that none of my other friends wanted to see it, and my friends would agree. So i did that, and he was like, "well, I'm going to go see the movie".... so i said to him, "well, we should go see it together" and he agreed, "yea that would be great." So we made plans to go see the movie Hitman next weekend. And during our literature class we were talking about how one character in our book might have hired his servants to kill someone, and then my friend said, oh, you mean like a hitman? and i looked at him and smiled at me, which is something he doesn't usually do to anyone. And hes told me a lot about his family and stuff, and he even gave me two CDs of my favorite band so i could make copies for myself. The only reason why he sits at my table is because of me, I know that, because none of my friends really like him that much. He actually doesn't have any friends who are girls, and hes not very social. I'm just not sure if us going to the movies is considered a date or not, because I am not sure if he likes me. (link)
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I think you should take a look at this, it should help you out.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
P.S. I think he really does like you! =)
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where does this girl get her clothes?
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=9673133 (link)
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*Wet Seal
*Forever 21
*American Eagle
*H & M
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Who sings the boy part in heartbeat by lil' mo please? (link)
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*Donny Roc
*Jim Jones
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does "i can do two things at once ;)" soud sexual? and if it does what does it mean?
THANKS I'M LAME! (link)
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Not to me, I don't think in general it's meant as something sexual. I hear people using it when they're trying to type a paper on the computer and talk on the phone. Just different stuff that requires you to do two things at once. I'm sure someone could use this in a sexual way, of literally doing two things at once, but I don't think that's the general meaning.
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Why would a guy ask me if I got laid over break? Why tell me he got laid? What in the world did he tell me that for? (link)
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He sounds he fits somewhere between a jerk and a pervert - that would answer your question.
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Ok, so my left breast has been hurting really really bad for the past week. I know i probably dont, but im freaking out that i might have breast cancer.
Could anyone tell me what the symptoms are? And should i tell anyone? Who?
Im 14/f and still going through puberty, but its never hurt this badly and for this long before.
Thanks for any and everything!! (link)
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The link below will tell you about breast cancer, and the signs and symptoms. I think you should tell your mom/guardian about this, and get it checked just incase. It's probably nothing, but it's better to be safe than sorry. =)
http://www.nationalbreastcancer.org/about-breast-cancer/breast-cancer-symptoms
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theres this christmas song that i heard last year, and thats the problem, i cannot for the life of me remember any of the lyrics. but i know it was about a mother that was dying and this little kid didnt have enough money to buy his mother her red shoes for her to wear when she died, at least im pretty sure they were shoes. but the kid says something like and my dad told me to hurry because mommy doesnt have much longer. and i really want to know this song, so if anyone has any idea, PLEASE LET ME KNOW. thanks. (link)
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*Christmas Shoes - NewSong
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it's better to fail at originality, then to succeed in imitation.
What does that mean? (link)
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It means that it's better to be yourself and stay real, and not be the most perfect person in the world - than to be perfect, by changing who you are.
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Tomorrow I have a class with him and we usually sit around on the floor.. it's rug. :)
I'm always around girls so I sit next to a best friend and like a sister. (she's not really my sister, but she's cool like that)
He sits like on the opposite side.. Should I sit where he is? How could I do that?
-Thanks (link)
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Sure! Just go on over there and take a seat by him, there isn't anything wrong with that and it's not like he's going to ask you why you sat down next to him, haha. I think you may be over-thinking this situation. Believe me, it's never as bad as you think. In fact, in your situation, it's pretty easy once you stop thinking about it..that's the hard part. But don't worry, everything will be fine. =)
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Ok, please hear me out, and give your honest opinion.
I am a male in high school and am a straight guy. But there is this one kid that I can't get off my mind.
He is a very good looking guy and he's not mean or anything, I just feel like I want to talk to him all the time and be with him. But every time that we talk I feel like I'm the one that keeps starting conversations and he never starts them..
I don't think I 'like' him, I'm not sure.
Like for example, he's a trouble maker but not a bad one, and every time he does something stupid, I'm always the one to look at his gorgeous eyes and smile and his smile is so awesome I can't even describe it. And the way he smiles at me I feel like there's something more.. but I'm not sure. :(
So as I said, I'm not gay, but I just want to bring up this relationship as friends and see where that goes.
How can I get him to talk to me more?
We talk on AIM, Facebook, MySpace, but we end up just running out of things to talk about..
ALSO! How can I get him to talk about his life? Like what can I say to him that will get him talking about himself personally.
Thanks!
-AJ
PS: I'm 15 and he's 14, we're both in the same grade. (link)
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Ok, I have heard you out and am ready to give my honest opinion. =)
What you may be experiencing is something called a, "Guy Crush." You might of heard of a "Girl Crush," which is where a girl feels about the same as you described, except for another girl, but that doesn't mean she's a lesbian. It's a pretty normal thing, actually. And I think you are experiencing the same thing, except with a guy.
One way to find out if it's more than that, is if you think of kissing him or something like that. If not, I would say it's only a guy crush, totally normal and ok, and I wouldn't worry about it.
As far as getting him to talk more, you need to ask him more personal questions. Such as, "Where did you grow up?" "How many siblings do you have?" "What's your family like?" And things like that, and see if you can get some good answers out of him, but be sure not to pressure him to talk about something, if he doesn't want to. You could also try looking up some questions on the internet, I'm sure you can find a bunch more.
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