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I'm not sure if my guy friend likes me
Ok, so I know you've probably heard it all before.... but I've liked this guy for the past year (I'm female sophomore now, 15 years old) and we really didn't talk much last year. This year, we have the same lunch/studyhall and two other classes together. Well,we both go to the school library during the lunch/studyhall and i usually sit with my friends and he sits with his friends. For a while, i would go and sit at his table, but lately, hes been sitting at my table with me and my friends. Hes not the most intelligent person, but hes really sweet and really funny, and i like him a lot because he's always trying to make me laugh and goof around. According to everyone else that's in classes with him, he's really quiet and doesn't talk much, which is how he was last year around me. But now whenever he's around me, he's really loud and funny. So, since we've been talking more, I decided to try and ask him out to a movie. I decided to tell my friends that i would start talking about a movie that i knew me and my guy friend both wanted to see, and that i would say that none of my other friends wanted to see it, and my friends would agree. So i did that, and he was like, "well, I'm going to go see the movie".... so i said to him, "well, we should go see it together" and he agreed, "yea that would be great." So we made plans to go see the movie Hitman next weekend. And during our literature class we were talking about how one character in our book might have hired his servants to kill someone, and then my friend said, oh, you mean like a hitman? and i looked at him and smiled at me, which is something he doesn't usually do to anyone. And hes told me a lot about his family and stuff, and he even gave me two CDs of my favorite band so i could make copies for myself. The only reason why he sits at my table is because of me, I know that, because none of my friends really like him that much. He actually doesn't have any friends who are girls, and hes not very social. I'm just not sure if us going to the movies is considered a date or not, because I am not sure if he likes me.
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I think he likes you and there are some certain points which i wish to bring to your attention which you probably didn't think of before.
You say that he made small gestures towards you which put you above others. He smiled at you - something which he'd not given to anybody else. He lent you CD's of your favorite band so that you could copy the songs for your own use. He even began to open up to you such as laughing and telling jokes and these could be indicators that he really really likes you. He even agreed in going out and if somebosy else had asked him, he might've said no and closed up even more.
Don't let doubt cloud you judgement, just follow your instincts and see how things pan out. Remember: everthing happens for a reason and this reason could be that you two are meant to be together. Keep that in mind, just don't over push it.
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I think you should take a look at this, it should help you out.
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P.S. I think he really does like you! =)
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