Q: Ok so I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is about to be 20 years old. We always talk about how we can't wait to finally live together and start our own live together. Now the only problem I have is that I want to have a baby already. How should I tell him that I want to have a baby? He loves children and we have both talked about how we would like to have a large family together. I know that a baby is alot of work, but I feel that we are ready for it. Please help!

Q: I just had my period and I know I should tell my mom but I don't want to be embarrassed. I cannot find the right words to tell her that I've started. It wouldn't be a problem but my mom doesn't have periods right now and doesn't keep any pads or tampons in the house because of that. I can't just stuff toilet paper in my panties. My friend gave me a few pads but I can't keep asking her for them. How do I tell my mom about my period and not feel stupid? I don't want her to make this into a big deal...

Q: So the last time me and my boyfriend had sex (excluding today) was around about the 28th/29th of December. We tried to do two nights ago, friday, and it just felt weird for me, although we didn't do anything differently. And I got this really weird feeling in like my lower tummy which I've never gotten before. We tried again but it felt too weird :/. Does anyone know what's wrong??
I know I can't be pregnant because we had sex around the 28th and I got my period on the 9th January.
We tried today and I had the same feeling again but it was only for a while and wasn't as bad. So should we just try again next weekend?

Q: he told me on wednesday that we need to take a break becuase he needs time.
and i asked him how long he wont talk to me for and he said idk.
everything has been fine between us so that whole needing a break thing seriously came out of nowhere.
were in a long distance relationship so i dont understand why he needs a break. its not like we get to see eachother alll the time like normal couples.

ive called and texted him a bunch of times and have gotten nothing back. its been three days since he hasnt talk to me and its killing me.
no matter what i say to him, he wont talk to me.
i dont know what to do :[
help meee!

Q: Well, I thought I was a couple of weeks pregnant at least because I missed my period this time around and had previously had sex with my husband. I was really excited but didn't tell him yet in case I miscarried. Well, today I started to have my period. My periods are usually really, really regular so when I missed it this last time I naturally assumed I must have gotten pregnant (we want to get pregnant, by the way).

Was I pregnant or was my period just a couple of weeks late? If I am having a miscarriage should I go to the hospital or the doctor, especially with it being this soon into pregnancy? Should I tell my husband if I am having a miscarriage? If it's not a miscarriage should I go to the doctor anyway since my period was really late?

Q: Okay. My best friend won't answer her phone right now and I'm gonna do what this site is intended for- vent! I don't really feel like re-explaining the motive behind this question, so for any-one who's reading this and is confused, just read my first question and you'll understand. I have a little bit more than 9 months before I'm legal and can get my own prescription without a parent's consent. 9 MONTHS!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know you dont know me, but I don't like pain in any form or fashion. And mental pain is one of those things that I've learned to despise because of what it brought me time and time again. Right now, I'm tired and I don't feel like fighting. I have no reason to feel depressed, and I know its only going to get worse. I can't let it ruin my life again- I need tips. Somebody tell me how to kill the time and still maintain sanity!!!!

Q: Okayy so first off I am 17 and a female. And please don't say that I'm too young to be havin sex or whatever. Anyways my last period ended like January 10th and me and my boyfriend had sex on the 12th. We used a condom but we only did it for literally like 5 seconds cause we heard his mom coming upstairs. But when he pulled it out we noticed the condom was broken. He said that he was not even close to cuming and he didn't feel Any pre cum come out but I'm still really paranoid that like there could have been pre cum before he put he condom on or something. Idk I'm just paranoid right now cause I have to wait like 20 days for my next period. Do you think I could be pregnant ?

Q: What is the difference between loners and nerds? I don't really know which one this boy i like could be and i don't wanna offend him or something. Can anyone explain?

Q: I’ve been with my boyfriend, 4 months, and lost my virginity 5 days ago. I’m scared outta my mind. I as gonna wait until marriage but accidents happen. So im kinda going crazy, I’m just scared. Some advice???

Q: I've been depressed as long as I can remember. Sure, there are some times when I'm not as horribly upset with life as others, infact sometimes I'm happy. But I always fall back into my slump. I've struggled with cutting, and yes I do feel that cutting has made me even more depressed in the long run. I'm working on that, and I haven't cut since I think September.
Part of my depression comes from the fact that I cannot be social unless I'm under the influence of something, anything. Alcohol, Marijuana, and one time Oxycotton have allowed me to be more social in environments where I don't feel comfortable. When I go places I don't know a lot of people, I drink ONLY because it's social.. I don't really do it cause I enjoy being drunk. I smoke because I like to, I drink because I can loosen up. Both however allow me to be a less awkward person. I do not blame my depression for my drug use, although maybe it is the reason? I just wanted to know how I can allow myself to ease off of drinking, smoking or taking pills to get more out there.
My mom knows I smoke. My mom knows I drink. My mom knows I'm depressed. My mom knows I'm bipolar. I've gone to counseling, I've been on medicine. Nothing works. Is my drug use linked to my depression? Probably, I'm not proud looking back on the fact I do drugs. I'm not proud of the fact that I lie to get money, or that I am literally playing with life until it breaks.
I need help out of my depression, anything goes. Don't feel the need to censor what you're saying, I really want to know what you think.

Q: So heres the dealio...I want to get fingered my friend did and said it was amazing? so uhm like i wanna do it with a older guy.no strings attached i am not a relationship girl at all i mean im not planning on sex just yet but i do wanna do some sort of sexual stuff? what do i do? and i am not going to finger myself so dont mention it? mm? help hah i sound like a immature little 10 yr old im not tho ahh

Q: ok so i have a boyfriend. we have been dating for 1 yr. and 3 months.....well heres the thing...i might be falling in love with someone else....its confusing but really he treats me better...i feel like i wanna break up with my boyfriend....but i dont know. Im really interested in my in him but i lov my boyfriend....please help!

Q: 17 f
im sorry if its a little long its a long story but i would apreciate it if u guys read the whole thing. ok so about a month ago i met a really cute 20 yea old guy. he asked me to hang out alot of times but i wasnt able to. this saturday night i was able to and we met up at his house. i asked my sister (whose 20 yrs old also) to take me. so she took me and i was at his house just talking we did makeout like once and by the time i got home i was already totally hooked on this guy. he seemed like a good guy. so sunday rolled around and he asked me to hang out and i brought my sister and cousins. we went bowling then to a cafe. i was really nervous and never spoke muh but i noticed him and my sister spoke alot and my ousin even told her that he might like her. in the end the date was horrible me and him barely spoke i got mad and didnt even bother speaking to him. when i got home i felt bad and called him he said it was ok and i thanked hm for paying for bowling and the dinner. so the next day (morning) my sister told me that she didnt trust him at all, he looked like a player and he had 80 something unread messages on his phone. he was also really paranoid about it and didnt want anyone seeing it. i found that weird and knew i couldnt trust. ok so monday my sister goes out says its with her friends and i stay home. i texted the guy (nate) and called him he didnt answer. my sister gets home with a hickey. i asked her where she got it from she said it was her ex. which they still talk and im pretty sure she still has feelings for him.(her ex).next day one of nates friends whose very nice called me and said did you know where your sister was last night? i asked her she said it wasnt what i was thinking. she said her and my cousin (whose 24) made a plan to see if they can trust him. she said he had texted her that night and asked her to hang out and she said she went to see how far he would go. and that she was only trying to protect me.she said to forgive her and that they went to watch a movie as friends and he invited her inside then tap kissed her and started giving her a hickey she said she got mad and left. and my older cousin (whose very protective of me) said not to tell me anything becuase they wanted to tell me together about nate. heres what i dont understand. that night she told me to lets make a plan but i said NO becuase i didnt want to find out atleast not now if he was a player. they went behind my back and did this trick yes offcourse im never talking to him again but what do i do about her? everytime i look at her i see them making out. thats not right she knew how much i liked him.i knew he couldnt be trusted and yes it hurts becuase i really liked him but i am more hurt becuase of my sister. she said she was only trying to protect her and to forgive her she didnt mean for it to go that far but once he was so close she couldnt stop. she admitted to being wrong and asked for forgiveness. i cant. i dont find it in my heart right now to forgiv her i feel betryaed, eventhough she said she was trying to help me. i was sos tupid i was the one trying to help me get rid of that hickey so my parents dont see it. i have t admitt when she got home she started crying, and was paranoid. i dotn know why she did this she was my best friend and was always there for me. i didnt want to know if he was a player atelast not now, and not this way. i cant stop crying all i can think about is them making out. and her hickey. this wasmonday night and that hickey is still there and she said it was like a 3 sec thing and she knew she was doing wrong and left. but she is a little dark skin that hickey wouldve nevr been that bad, if it was 3secs would it have? should i forgive her? i feel so desperate betrayed i spoke to my cousin she said that they were only trying to help me. i can get that image out o my head though. im crying as im typing this sorry i just needed to let it all out. please help? i spoke to my cousin she said that they were planning on telling me together on thursday, thats why my sister didnt say anything to me. i told my sis you couldve gone and made the plan but as soon as he was leaning in to kiss you you shouldve backed off. she keeps apologizing and saying everyone makes mistake. but she keeps saying shes not sorry for doing the plan becuase she didnt want me to be hurt in the end. well how does she think i feel now? its worse now becuase its her she meant everything to me. .

Q: Okay, so I know this does sound really mean, but I cannot stand my boyfriends sister. I've been with him for a year now. I'm 16, he's 17 and his sister is 10. I can't even explain what it is about her that winds me up so much. We actually had a good relationship to start with, and we did get on really well. She was brought up to be polite and nice and that but, up until a few months ago she's just been so needy and clingy and sucking upto my boyf soo much than she used to. Like, the other day was a snow day at school so we weren't in, so I went round his house during the day, but I wasn't feeling well, and he knew this. But, I only had about an hour and a half with him that day and we played xbox for about half an hour, then his sister insisted on him going out in the garden with her. He did ask me but, obviously I wasn't feeling well so I really didn't want too. But he still went outside with her knowing I only had a little longer left there! Now, I did think this through and to begin with I thought I was being selfish, but after a while I realised that he could of done that any other time! He can't exactly see me alot, yet he lives with his sister?? :/. The thing is, it isn't my boyf, she's always the one asking to do something with him when I'm there. I don't exactly see him that much during the week, 2 days at the maxium and thats from about 4 til 6 or 7pm maybe.
Sorry, abit off track there. So anyway, recently she's been like slyly insulting me. Like, when just me and my boyf were playing xbox (like split screen, top and bottom) and she knew damn well that he was top screen and she said "oh whoever's top screen is so good" then looked at me and said "no offence". And whenever me and my boyf just want to spend time together she always interferes. For example, we were watching a film in his room and about 5 mins after it finished we were quite tired and she came into his room and said can we watch this film in here. I know it was wrong but I was being annoying throughout the film, but it actually gave her no right to tell me to "shut up".
I feel so bad for disliking her this much, I mean she is only 10 and my boyf loves her, obviously, and I know it'd be different if it was my little sister. I do try to get along with her but she just throws it back in my face (quite literally the other day, me her and my boyf were having a snowball fight, me and her against my boyf although she kept on throwing snowballs at me....??). Tbh, I'm just fed up of it. Not just her, but me not liking her.
I can't tell my boyf about all this though, it would cause extreme awkwardness whenever I'm at his house and I just really don't know how to explain this to him without sounding selfish and like I only want him to spend time with me. Because it's really not like that, I just want to see more of him without his sister there.
I guess this is more of a rant than a question, but I really don't know what to do :/
Help!?!?

Q: Hello im 19 and my boyfriend who is 21 wants to join the army/military. Not full blown army but like working with computers and such. He asked me what i thought yesterday and it was kind of a shock. He said him and one of his friends were talking about joining and he convinced him to go. He basically is just waiting my "approval" but i want him to do what makes him happy. He said after he goes for basic training he will only have to leave one weekend out of the month for like 2 years. Im not really sure how anything works. He just brought this upon me yesterday. The only downfall is that he will be gone for 10 months touring afghanistan or something. We've been together for about 2 years now and 10 months is a long time and i dont think we can go without seeing each other that long. He is basically only going into the army for the money. We are very serious and he said when he comes back he'll have money so we can plan a wedding and maybe some other big stuff. If he goes i dont know how im going to cope with him being gone we see each other every day! Any ideas or suggestions? I do rate!

-Thanks

Q: im 16.f, and my sisters 18.f. She is now dating a guy who is 26, just got out of jail for drug possession and he was previously accused of murder, but there was "reasonable doubt" so they didnt convict him, and was kicked out of his house. He is a drug dealer without a real job..yet my mother lets him sleepover, EVEN THOUGH ive talked to her about it many times, nad told her he scares me and i cant sleep when hes here. I also hear them having sex at night and thats just disgusting. I really need help because i dont feel safe at night with him here. Please, i need some help. My dad doesnt live with us anymore, and ive tried talking to my sister and my mom but they dont listen to me.

Q: okay so i got off my period two weeks ago, im on birthcontrol, and i had sex the last day i had my period, and i just got it back.. and im not suppossed to till next weekend.. its really light and wierd. I dont know someone told me i may be preganut is this true ?

Q: This is not really a question i read that your only 17 and have a child my name is stacey i am 18 and i also haue a son he is almost two . i just wanted to introduce myself it seems we have alot in common

Q: my dad and mom have been together as long as ive been alive. two years ago i caught him in chat rooms, n video sessions with other women. i had a suspicion of him cheating, and walked down on him doing a session with another women. we lost our relaitonshp. its ok now. but im finding more stuff. ive found enough stuff now to make the prediction that he is getting a hooker. like, if i had to guess, i would say 99%. My whole life, people have let me down. My best rfiend gave away his life when he knew i was the only one fighting for him, my first love cheated on me three times.. now my dad is doing this to me. and im the only one who knows. I know what telling my mom will do. My family will end. And im scared if i do nothing, guilt will catch up to him, cause he surely is such a good man. My mom works nights so shes never home to know... hes always out so late, and his job is perfect to find a way to cheat, because he works his own job with his own appointments all over. My heart is being severely torn. im so close to giving in, i just have no clue what i can do. Tell my mom, my dad will hate me, my family will end, and my life will never be the same. Not say anything, my dad will continue to hurt me so badon the inside, and if guilt catches up, he could end his life like two of my other friends fathers have done. This is weird to say, but i had a strong feeling my best friend would end his life... and ive always for years had that about my dad. I have anxiety attacks and severe depression. ive askedmy mom to go back to counseling, but she doesnt seem to trake it seroius and ive asked her three times she hasnt gotten right to it.



please, any advice. anyone thats been in this situation... i have no options left, and my mind is getting into a fix.. its gonna be forever stuck as resentful, hate, sad, pissed, and depressed. It already is, i hate my life. im 18, and i dont even feel like living anymore but i would never end my life.. please... someonee have something reasonable to tell me.

Q: hii i'm 18 and a girl. okay so me and my mom dont get along. recently we got in a huge argument. it all started because she says im addicted to texting and bcuz of it im out of it. its true but i mean whats the problem? i dont go out or bring friends over or party im always home so why not text with friends. its stupid and when i ask her to give me a ride to chill with people she never is happy to do it so why does she bitch if i text with friends. so yeah she disconnected my phone and today in the morning she woke me up bitching at me and my lil sis pissed me off so i was a jerk to her then my mom came in the bathroom yelling at me and said that i could leave the house. so then i slamed the door in her face. she opened with the key and starting slapping me i was crying so hard and almost hit her back. i dont feel like apologizing shes been an unfair bitch to me. because my 20 yr old sis always goes out and my 12 yr sis too. she brings people home party's downstairs and goes out way more then me! but at the same time i want my phone back. help! should i apologize even though i dont want to? and if so how? shes not talking to me either. i stay in my room all day. and can the relationship with my mom get any better someday? it seems like we will never understand each other...

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