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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

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why are all the good people on the site being banned? anyone know?

Mod's don't ban "good" people. If in your eyes they are "good" people, then they are in your eyes. Obviously it didn't seem that way to moderators, or else they would not have been banned.


Could you possibly give an example as to what "good" person was banned? Then maybe we'd have a better understanding.


Those good people must've done something wrong to get themselves banned. We don't ban for no reason.

Here is (straight from the FAQ) reasons why people would be banned, and everything about being banned: http://advicenators.com/faq.php?t=9

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okay..i was just wondering. what year was easier for some of you guys, freshman year or sophomore year. cuz like i mean. me and my friend we meet people at freshman and stuff..but we don't have lunch with them..and like its really hard kinda making friends and stuff..but..me and my friend are really outgoing and stuff..and..um..well..do things get better in sophomore year or what?! jeez please tell me!! lol i kno this is such a stupid question..but what i really wanna know is what year was easier for you guys between (freshman or sophomore) and if you guys met more people in sophomore year than freshman..IF YOU GUYS TELL ME I`LL RATE HIGH!! its such an easy question!!

Well, your freshman and sophmore years are supposed to be the hardest, between the two there is no "easiest". Senior year is ultimately the easiest year because you have practically no classes. (If you choose to anyway). I'm going into my sophmore year, so I can see where your coming from. You tend to meet EVERYONE your freshman year, but your sophmore year you meet all the new freshman. You meet ALOT of people all the time in highschool. I must say I met a significant amount of people my freshman year, but I"m bound to meet more people this year.

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i'm 14/f and i'm 5'2 in height. i started my period when i was 10 and i want to increase my height by doing whatever it is i can. i slouch and it's hard for me to do anything with my back straight. i've been slouching since i was pretty young so i think thats why i haven't been growing that much. what are some things i can do to help myself grow? i want to be atleast 5'4 or 5'5 before i stop growing altogether. thanks.

DRINK MORE MILK. It builds strong bones and teeth. =) and it will help you grow. And, you're only 14. You still have 2-4 more years of growing left. So be patient, you'll get there.

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I have this boyfriend and he has a friend .And hes friend is like messing up me and my boyfriend`s relationship.What should I do??
Need help

Have you talked to his friend about it? Has your boyfriend talked to his friend about it? Have you told your boyfriend that it's bothering you? If you haven't you might want to try doing that first before taking any drastic measures. Tell this young man that he's messing everything up and if he doesn't stop you'll hurt him very bad. Well, not that (That's something I would say..) ANYWAY tell your boyfriend that it's bothering you, maybe he could talk to his friend about it and see what's up. If nothing works then YOU should talk to him. And, to be honest the only reason I could think of as to why a guy would mess up his best friend's relationship, unintentional or not, is because he is either A)Jealous that you guys have a great relationship or B) He likes you. I've seen it a million times over. But yeah, you should talk about it just to see what his problem is. Or you can kick his ass =) JUST KIDDING.

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Does anyone know where I can get an extra self for a locker. I've seen other people with them but I figure it would be wierd to ask them since I dont know them. An extra locker self like you know how at school they have those top and bottom lockers. I got a top one and since I'll most likely be sharing lockers with close friends I wanna make it looks nice. PLus does anyone know where I can get a magnet mirorr. and while we're at it any tips/ideas on how I can decorate my locker? =] Thank you so much!!!

This isn't going to be very specific, but EVERYTHING your asking you can find at Wal*Mart. Extremely inexpensive, but good quality. It will give you great ideas to keep your locker clutter free and whatnot =)

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I have very fine hair. It's about shoulder length and I have lots of layers and bangs (its blonde too by the way) The problem is it's super straight and kinda thin so when I roll it to make it look thicker in the morning it always ends up fallin down and looking icky. haha. what could i do to help my hair hold the curl, who should i get a special hair cut...if so what kind?

The best way to keep curl and volume in your hair is to get volume maximizing and curl defining shampoo aond coditioners. You can try Vive, Matrix and you can refer to this site: http://www.drugstore.com/templates/stdplist/default.asp?catid=25592&trx=GFI-0-EVGR-MCN&trxp1=1002&trxp2=25592&trxp3=2&trxp4=ML for more volumizing shampoos and to this one: http://www.drugstore.com/templates/stdplist/default.asp?catid=10347&trx=GFI-0-EVGR-MCN&trxp1=1002&trxp2=10347&trxp3=2&trxp4=ML for curl defining shampoos.


Always get the FULL set of hair products for that line, that way you get the best results.

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How often are car tires suppose to be balanced/rotated?

Around every 3000-5000 miles sometimes more, you should do it whenever you get your oil changed. That's how my parents and brother do it.

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Is there any way to pass a drug test if you have smoked pot in the last two weeks? Does it actually stay in your system for 30 days?

It depends on the test your getting. But yes, it stays in your system for 30 days, sometimes longer. Another test I know of is they shave your pubic hairs off (no I'm not joking) and the test that because something shows up in your hair when you've smoked pot. That can work even if you smoked a few months ago. Anyway, if your just pissing in a cup, I would suggest you drink as much water as you possibly could. You'll be going to the bathroom alot and I mean ALOT, but your chances of failing aren't as bad. DRINK WATER!

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okayy. well im 13/f and im about 5.4 - 5.5 and i weigh 115 - 118 and i think im really really fat! i can hardly fit in my jeans with are a size 1 and im very mad. mostly beacuse i think my legs are the problem.. can anyone help me at all?! i will rate 5's for good advice! thanks!

Alright, this is going to sound REALLY mean but please, shut the hell up. You aren't fat. And don't tell me otherwise. A girl that is your height and your weight CAN'T fit into a size 1 jeans!!! You are at least a 2 or a 3. I am 5'3" almost 5'4" I weigh LESS than you. I'm a size 2 or 3 in pants. A size one is REALLY small!!! You aren't fat, so get over it. You should just try to get a size bigger in pants.

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Is it illegal to take someone else's medicine that was prescribed to them?

Yes, it most definately is. That's why in school, if you use someone else's inhaler or any kind of pills you can be charged and put in jail or fined.

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okay this is mainly a question for guys. girls if you want to put in your own input go for it. these are random questions ive always wanted answers for;

1. is it okay for a girl ask out a guy first
2. is it okay for a girl to ask out a guy for a informal/formal school dance
3. do guys find girls who burp un-attractive [and yes i burp but not like all the time]
4. do guys find people who are overweight or fat un-attractive in a way to go out. but can be friends with them. [im nto overweight just wondering]
5. what type of girl do guys really want to go out with.
6. is a smart girl a type a guy wouldnt go out with.
7. what age to guys usually loose their virginity compared to girls.

LOL THNX! THESE ARE SOME QUESTIONS IVE ALWAYS WONDERED..

1. Yes, most definately
2. Yes, most definately
3. Some do, some think it's hot.
4. Guys like their girls toothpicks like Paris Hilton. Being friends with a bigger girl is pretty much just the same.
5. A girl that is fun and can be herself.
6. No, guys like smart girls. But some do like idiots like Paris Hilton.
7. Guys tend to lose it younger than girls. But depending on the girl and how vulnerable she is, she could lose it younger. But the average age for both girls and boys in the US is 12. Yeah, young.

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i know this is a stupid queston but,what would happen if someone put someone else in the dryier and turned it on. i'll rate a five nomatter what.

I imagine it would hurt very bad. They'd end up with a few bruises and, possibly a broken bone. Not safe. I'm sure it's been on Jackass before though.

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Ok well i had sex a while ago.... it was my first time but the thing is i never had blood come out. But his dick was in me and everything and that.. Does that mean my cherry didnt pop? Can your cherry pop and you not bleed? And could it have already poped from like things ive done before like riding horses cause i herd that it could?

Thank*Ill rate 5*

Your hymen has probably already been broken. Ask you mentioned, it could have been broken while riding a horse. It could also have been broken while sitting down or it could have broken the first time you used a tampon while you got your period (If you have ever used a tampon during your period). Your hymen can really break at any time, it can break when you fall down, sit down, ride a bike, ride a horse or doing just about anything. So, my guess is it's already broken.

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what does pms or pmt stand 4 and what does it mean i will rate 5s to anyone that answers

Never heard of PMT


PMS stands for Pre Menstrual Syndrome.

It's when chicks are really bitchy and moody and emotional before they get their period.


PMS sucks.

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okay well my boyfriend and i just like started dating or whtever.And like when he asked me out and everything i really really liked him.. well after like a couple of days i kinda had a weird feeling and like i didnt really like him anymore.. so i asked a couple of people what they thought about us and like if i should break up with him, cuz like i was ignoring his calls and i really didnt want to talk to him.. well like after a while i was gonna tell him that i just wanted us to be friends.. and so i waited for his call, and waited and waited.. well he never ever called and like i tried calling but no one answered.. well like now i realy do like him i guess i was just scared i would get hurt so i was pushing him away..well i duont know whats wrong, i dont know if hes mad at me and like he hasnt called in like 3 weeks and theres no other way i could talk to him.. so what should i do and is he mad at me... i am soo sooo confused.. please help me i really like him... and i dont want to lose him and he wont answer his phone so i dunno.. thnks soo soo srry for the length.. **hearts**

Do any of your friends or anyone you know have a way of getting in contact with him? Are any of your friends mutual friends of his? If you two have any mutual friends maybe you could try calling them and ask them to call him and see what's up. If you know any of his good friends, you could try to get in contact with them and ask them to figure out what's going on. Are you calling his cellphone or his house phone by the way? Have you tried leaving a message? It doesn't have to be anything long... If it's his house just say Hey [insert boyfriend's name here] It's me [insert your name here]. I just wanted to catch up since I haven't talked to you in a while, so why don't you call me back. And then leave your number. Or if it's his cell you can say all of that and sort of apologize for not calling and stuff like that. But you haven't talked to him in 3 weeks? Wowie, that really doesn't sound all that good. But you really need to try hard to get in contact with him. Because if you don't get in contact with him soon, it seems like this could be the end of your relationship.


I wish you luck!


-Emily

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lately i have just been so tired with the way i do my make-up for my eyes. everyone says i have gorgeous eyes, but i would like to bring them out more with new and better make-up. i usually just wear black eyeliner, black mascara, and a little eyeshadow. by the end of the day it looks as though i'm not wearing any make-up at all. so what i'm asking is, what kinds of eyeliner would really bring out my eyes? here is a picture of my eyes. yea they look green, but it's just because of the lighting. they are actually a light blue. thanks again and the link for the picture is down there.

http://img198.imageshack.us/img198/4048/botheyes21dp.png

Never wear black eyeliner and mascara with light eyes. Unless you have dark hair (brown/black) then it's okay. If you have lighter hair like blonde, light brown or even red. Wearing dark eyeliner with lighter hair makes you look like you have wayyy too much makeup on. You have absolutly gorgeous eyes, so you don't want to wear alot of makeup because they already pop out enough as it is. My advice: Brown eyeliner and mascara, and for eyeshadow keep it natural like browns, pinks, etc.

Use XXL mascara and NYColor brown eyeliner. There is this new eyeshadow (not sure what brand) but there are different ones for each different eye color. Each bring out your eyes. You can buy the ones for BOTH green and blue since your eyes have a little bit of both. This should make your eyes really pop out alot better! Also, when you use eyeliner, you can keep some in your purse to re-apply in the day because eyeliner WILL fade and smudge. As for the eyeshadow, wet the applicator a little bit then rub it onto the eyeshadow then apply it. This brings out the color of the eyeshadow much better and it lasts longer.

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i have 3 colors for my room picked out
Purple
Blue
Lime green

what are some cute ways to paint my walls..i have 4 walls in my room. thanks

14/girl

I personally am not 100% sure about the color choice of purple with blue and lime green, but hey it's your room.

Anyway- Why don't you try painting one wall purple, one wall blue, one wall green, and tape off stripes on the last wall and make it in stripes of all the colors? Not really thin stripes, but big thick ones, like a foot in width or something. That could be a cool idea :-) Or instead of doing the stripes, whichever color is your favorite, you can make it like this (just an example)

Purple
______
Green> | |

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Does anyone know how to get the font "Terminal" to work on AIM? I try and it says there's no such thing. I know I have the font terminal on my computer though.

Thanks in advance!

It's not called Terminal. I had the SAME problem. You know how there are a few fonts that have an @ sign infront of them? Terminal is one of them. Scroll all the way up to the top of the font list and it should say @terminal.

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i was wondering if anyone knows how tp put pics. on myspace not like under view pictures like on the main page?? i'll rate high thanks a bunch!

You need to get a photobucket account. Once you do that [it's 100% free] you can upload the pictures onto your online photoalbum. The picture will show up and there will be 3 things that say IMG, TAG and URL. Copy the one that says TAG and paste it wherever you want in your myspace about me, etc.

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can you get rid of STD's? like without seeing a doctor. and please just answer with a yes or no. no long paragraphs. didn't mean to be rude!

No.

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