HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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I am 15 and an african american female. It's really hot in NYC now. (where i live) and i want to wear shorts and skirts but im a little insecure about my legs. my skin color is kind of light but not too light and not dark just in between. anyways my legs has these tiny brown spots all over them and they annoy me soo much. i've had them for the longest maybe for about 3 or 4 years. i've shaved my legs before with a razor could that be why i have these tiny brown spots. In the tiny spots is hair. could it be hair bumps?? do they go away?? Dont mean to gross you out if i did. they dont look disgusting or anything but i really dont want them on my legs. does anybody have a clue what it could be or knows anything about it?? thanx in advance (link)
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Yeah i know exactly what they are.Using a razor is the worst thing ever,it doesnt shave and take out your hair from its roots so it stays looking as hair bumps.To get rid of that quit using a razor and wax instead...youll get rid of them completly.
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Thanks to everyone who answered my question before. Now I only need about 5 people to answer this so I can really narrow it down myself. I only need the top 3 stores now. I need 1 pair of shorts, a miniskirt, 1 pair of bermuda shorts, and about 3 new shirts. I still need some cash left over for stuff like sneakers,socks,bras, ect. Remember I have $300, and im 13. Express,GUESS,bebe, pacsun,Abercrombie & Fitch, Forever 21, American Eagle,Victoria Secret, Areopostale,Delia's, Jocob Connetion, Target, and Old Navy. thank you soo much (link)
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You can get guess and bebe from drjays store...its the BEST ever it has bermudas and everything even check out the website....www.drjays.com
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is it true that it is bad to workout ur whole body in one day at the gym
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Its not bad BUT if you dont keep working your body out like 3 or 4 times a week youll gain what youve lost!All the muscels will turn to fat if you stop.It happened with me,i used to play soccer everyday and when i stopped my legs got fatter
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well i just started shaving down there. and like when i do i shave it but it is still kind of rough down there u know. is there anyway i can make it soft and smooth or is that just how it always is. sorry if this was nasty i was jw. (link)
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By waxing down there and not using a razor or shaving cream.
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WELL my friend is way over weight...and she wears a 2 peice, and she looks really sick in it. She's really just embarassing herself by wearing it. How do i tell her this!? Or should i just let her embarass herself?...Help..its really sick!! (link)
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I think that shes already embarrased herself more than enough.So be a good freind and tell her the truth.Tell her shes embarrasing herself and if she wanst to wear a 2 peice to lose some weight.Ask her ,"What would you say if you saw a overweight girl wearing a 2 peice?"
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what are some different food choices that are high in protein but arent meat? i dont like eating meat very much except for chicken which i have all the time and an occasional cheeseburger.
THANKS SOOOOO MUCH! (link)
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Nuts have a lot of protien in it.Penuts have 8 grams of protien per 1/4 cup.Nuts like almonds,cashew,and stuff like that are very high in protien.Rice has protien but not that much,it has 4 grams per 1/4 cup.
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i started to cut in march and i stopped in june and now im starting again. it feels like i have to do it at least once a day. my friends get really upset when i cut because they dont want me to hurt myself. does anyone know what i can do to try to stop? please help me. (link)
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If you cut yourself you will not only leave a scar on your skin but deep down inside.When your older and you see this scar you will feel deep regret.Its NEVER going to solve any of your problems and do you know you can get deadly diseases from it??What if you cut your nerve once?youll DIE.please for once just think before you do anything about the consenquences.If someones ever used the tool you used to cut yourself to cut THEMSELVES,theres a chance you can get HIV!!!Buy a punching bad and let your anger out on it buy cutting it instead.
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how do you have cyber sex? like what is it and where do you have it? also what is phone sex? i dont understand.. (link)
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cyber sex is when you talk to a guy online about sex and phone sex is when you talk to a guy about doing it with him on the phone.
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whats the best way to get rid of poison ivy? i have like this big bump on my finger and its like filled with fluid or something.. should i pop it? and now its starting to grow on my other fingers and my arm.. what should i do? would this keep on spreading?? HELP (link)
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I know two ways you can get rid of that.....either by applying the crushed leaves of jewelweed or you can do these 3 simple steps
1)rub alcohol on the infected area
2)rinse with water
3)then wash your hands with soap and warm water
keep doing this for a week and youll see the results
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Whenever i shave the hair starts growing back in about 6 hours aaaand you can feel it and its gross! How can i make it not come back and how do you keep a tan? Does shaving cause it to go away faster? thanks
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it depends on what you use,if you use a razor itll grow back fast and thicker but if you wax it it wont grow that thick and will take a longer time to come back
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How come if you have sex with your cousin or any family member and get pregnant, the chances of the baby being deformed or mentally retarted are increased? I don't understand why. I know it has something to do with the genes are so like, but I'm still confused. (link)
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Because you guys have the same blood in you and when his sperm gos into you and you get pregnent,his sperm has almost the same genes as you do so something happens and it gets messed up and your kids turn out deformed
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How do you apply eyeliner? I don't know where to put it or how to put it on without poking my eye. please help! (link)
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There are many ways.If your eyes are small its best to apply it on the bottom of your bottom eyelashes...you just draw your eyes from right to left with a pencil eyeliner(liquid eyeliner messes ur face up if you cry)and if you have big eyes its best to apply eyeliner on the top of your bottom lashes.
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i've been told that if you don't eat enough your body will go into starvation mode, and it will actually cause you to gain weight.
is this true? because i was thinking and then how do people with anorexia (not that i'm going to become anorexic or anything) lose weight. because if they hardly eat anything, won't their bodies go into starvation mode and cause them to gain weight?
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Its true...what will happen is that you dont give your body the amount of fats its used to getting,so,your bosy will let out all of the stored fats your bodys been storing and that way you will GAIN weight.Thats why they always say that if you want to lose weight DIET and EXERCISE cuz youll diet and not give your body the amount of fats its used to so itll bring out the stored fats.Then when you exercise you will BURN the stored fats till you start to FINALLY lose weight.But if you sit around doing nothing and not eat,youll probably either gain weight or stay the same.
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my friend is alwayyss flirting with my boyfriends or ex-boyfriends. she even sleeps with them and it makes me soo mad. how can i overcome this feeling or deal with this problem? (link)
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OMG you call her a FREIND?!!?GO bitchslap her!!would YOU ever sleep with your freinds boyfreind??i dont THINK so!!!You need to tell her and i dont mean to tell her as in "can you please like not sleep with him cuz i get mad" i mean as in "you whore!!Our freindship is over and dont bother talking to me and youll regret what youve done so badly...keep an eye on your boyfreind cuz he wont be for long!!" you cant stay freinds with her...she doesnt care about you,shes using you to sleep with your guy!You need to start a fight or you can stay her freind forever and even let her sleep with your future husband too.And another thing...your boyfreind is not your type of guy either,he doesnt care about you or like you.If he did he wouldnt go around sleeping with your freind.call him up and tell he all what he did that bothered you then say im DUMPING you!!keep away from these people they will only get you to depression!!Wheres your personality and dignity woman??And dont try sleeping with her guy to get her mad,dont go down to her level
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I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin? (link)
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ofcourse it ISNT.Theyre the ones that are wrong for NOT being virgins when they are so young.They will get STD's(sexually transmitted diseases) early and might even for girls...might get pregnant!Before you have sex with ANYONE you need to be mature and old enough,and think about the following questions...
1)will i regret this in the future?
2)WHO has the person im about to have sex with done it with(because if hes done it before to a girl,she could have done it with other guys and these guys done it with other girls and that way you will get STD's for SURE
3)Am i being used for sex or does he really like me?
I think its perfectly fine for you to be a virgin your age...so WHAT im a 15 and a half year old virgin girl and im glad im keeping off all thoughs diseases!!
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I want to get highlights for my hair. I'm female 13 blue eyes amd light brown hair. I want to get a lot of medium brown streaks, and then also a few blonde streaks. I'm not sure if this will look good so I need opinions if thats a good combination for highlights? (link)
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In my opinion i think since you have light brown hair if you get blonde AND medium brown steaks it wont look good and will be too much and will be obvious that you have on so much colors.I think that if you get medium brown on your light brown hair it will look great!People will be all like"wow what color is her hair exactly?" it will look natural and great,trust me,blonde highlights make a person look a lot older than their age and besides....EVERYONE is doing them!!Not alot do brown on brown so i think thatll be new and beautiful
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how do you get stys? you know those scab things on your eyes or bumps on ur eyes that hurt! please and thanks! (link)
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They come because your hands were probably dirty and you rubbed your eyes with your dirty hands and the virus from your hands got transfered to your eyes.To get rid of them buy eyedrops from a pharmacy and wash your face and hands well.
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you know what stys are right? well i think i have them. they are like all over my eyes! i have like 3 on one side and 1 on the other and one or two are going away but theres still some you know? well i was wondering how do u get rid of them? (link)
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Well they come because of a virus that had entered your eyes.It entered because you probably once rubbed your eyes(with your hands and fingers)and your hands were dirty so the viruses on your hand got transfered to your eyes.To get rid of them you need to wash your face and eyes well and you need to buy eyedrops you can find at a pharmacy that will totally vanish them.
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Well i have this friend who told me that her parents (who my parents are best friends with) hit her and her dad tried to drown her in a pool. What should i do?? we are only 13 and i don't want her to get into trouble and my mom wouldn't beleive me! They already called DSS but that didn't help. (link)
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first of all you need to make sure your freind is telling the truth cuz some people say this stuff to get attention.Tell your mom again and convince her,tell her your freinds life is in danger and she has to beilive you!!You need to convince your mom or dad to help you and if THAT wont work,talk to a trusted adult or older freind that will asist you.You need to act fast cuz you dont know WHAT her parents might do to her.
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i have this cousin who is 15 and im 13 and he is so hot and he has been checking me out and i was wondering (we are blood related) what would happen if we made out or worse. (link)
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its very danngerous for you to have sex with him because if you have children with him theres a chance for your kids to come out mentally retarted.He checks you out doesnt mean he likes you and besides its in a humans nature to look.
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