about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

kk well this is like theee lamest question in the world.. but here it goes
how do you dance? like i mean grind.. when i try i look like such a stupid idiot and it's so embarassing
i rate 5's for good long answers thankx so much

well it is really simpley. only you got to do is put ur back(aka butt) into and rub on the object and move your butt on it and around it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok I like this boy that I'm like best friends with. Well today online I was gonna tell him that I like him. I was in a chat with him and 2 other friends. I was aksing who i should like. Well then my cpu broke. i didnt see the rest of the chat. Well it ended up him telling one of my friends that he likes her and I was just about to tell him that I liked him right before my cpu broke. Now he likes my friend and I'm really sad. How can I get him to like me?

I need Advice fast!
I rate 5s for most people

my advice is to forget what happened in the chatroom and start over. talk to him and tell him how you feel. dont trip over something that someone said. you need to learn to believe what you see and not what you hear. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how can you tell if someone likes you?

if they talk to you all the time.

if they always be flirting with you.

if they wont stop talking about you.

if they call you up and make you stay up all night on the on the phone with them.

if they always try to be around you

if they get jealous when they see you talking to another person of the opposite sex of you.

that is all that i can think of right now. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~~*

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is it possible for a 16 or 15 year old like a thirteen yearold

i dont think there is anything wrong with it. it can happen. except when you are 13 and someone is 15 or 16 what 13 years olds o will determine how far this person wants to go with you. do you get what i am sayin? hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I really like this boy but i dont even think he knows I exist I am going to this party and he will be there i am planning on talking to him but i just dont know how to do it?

first off dont be shy. just go up to him sit next to him or get him to dance with you and talk to him and "flirt" with him. guys like that. try not be so shy because it is kinda of a turn off. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hi,
well I am still in love with my x boyfriend lets just say his name is Harrison, and he told all my current x boyfriends that if they did anything to hurt me that he would hurt them very badly, or if they got me pergnet that he would hunt them down and hurt them even harder, but I aint going to get pergnet, but dose that mean he is still in love with me??? we both really like and miss each other and we only live 4 to 5 hours away from each other, can ya just give me any advice if is still in love with me or not???
he even has been trying to get a hold of my friends telling them that he misses me alot!!! and I have alot of strong feelings for him, but I am just wanting to know if he is still in love with me??? Please give me some advice....




from what you have told me it really sound like he likes you a lot and that he might want to get back with. what you should do is ask to hang out wit him as "friends" and see how he acts around and then ask him if he likes you or i should say loves you still. mayb you guys can work things out and get back together.
*~Stephanie~*

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Well i have been having dreams about sex with guys my age. I am 13f. And all of a sudden i am having urgest to do it.
Is that normal
Ill' rate high!

yup it is prefectly normal. actualy i had a dream like that a couple weeks ago. =]
*~Stephanie~*

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Can you rent episodes of the OC on DVD? Anywhere? Is the Complete First season in video rentals stores like Blockbuster or Hollywood?

yes you can i dont know abotu blucter but when i went into hollywood videos i know they had the complete season. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I like this boy I am 14 and he is 20.We have went out kissed and huged but sometimes he act stupid.We cant be with each other so we just mess around.He has been acting real stupid lately and he don't call like he used to.I see him every weekend because he is a friend of the family so he's always by my family's house.I keep telling my self that I am going to act stupid with him but I never do.I am thinking about never calling him just letting him call me so what should I do?

first off he is 20 and your 14. that might be the reason he doesnt talk to you. i bet you already know that if he gets caught messin around with you he can go to jail? i personly think you should leave this guy alone and mayb just stay friends. i dont think it would be a good idea if you guys did more. about him not calling you... i got to things to tell you.
1) guys are VERY forgetful and will forget to call you when they say they will.
2) he might just be busy and hasnt had to to talk to you.
so now what i would is pick up the phone and talk to him. dont be scared just do it. then again if he doesnt call you when he says he will just "Shake him off" forget him you stil got a billion more guys to go through. =]. hope this helps you out and if you need anythin else feel free to drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok well me - lets say my names Jessica- and my boyfriend broke up like in the middle of july but i still really like him and one day when i was over my friends house we went online and so was my ex and I told her to ask him " How much did u like "Jessica" when yo wee going out with her?on a scale from 1-10" and he saw a 7.... and i know that a 1 means i didnt lik her a 5 is lik an 0k and a 10 is that he loves her but whats category does a 7 fall in???? PLEASE HELP I RATE 5's

i would think it meant that he liked this girl"jassica" a lot but noy enough to love her. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Should I be mad if three guys bet on me saying I bet she'll say no to you when they ask you out or she'll say ya to me, and I knew them all as friends and stuff? I rate high, thanx.

you got every right to be mad. your "friends" just bet money on you and used you to earn or lose money. if i was you i would be really mad right now.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have a boyfriend..and i love him soo much
but like he is REALLY shy..
and i want to give him a hug soo bad..
and his stupid parents dont let me call him
and it sucks...any tips on atleast giving my
boyfriend a hug!!??

oh ya iml ike 5'3 and hes 5'8 so thats why i think it would be kind of a lift for me to hug haha.
thank you!! I'll rate depending on good of an answer :]

dont be shy. you were like me except my boyfriend parents approve of him goin out with me. just go for it dont be shy. get over i mean it isnt like you guys all the time in the world to be around each other. so you have to make the most of what you got. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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What do guys look for in girls?

intellagence
sometimes looks
personality
out going
confidence.
hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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when you go to 2nd base with a guy does he play with ur boobs(rubbing, squeezing exc.) or does he just kinda leave his hand there? Thanks! i rate high

i think that would be a little more on the third base with touchin you and finguring you. hope this helps you.
*~Stephanie~*

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When my boyfriend and I start to get intimate and he starts rubbing me, would it be so wrong if I took his hand and well, guided him to where he should be rubbing? Or would that offend him?

nope actaually it wont some guys perfer to be told then having to find out the hard way. plus every girl is different and they got to get used to it so i dont think it would be if you showed him were to rub you. i mean it isnt like if you were doing soemthing wrong will suckin his that he wouldnt tell you. trust me HE WILL.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey everyone - my dress for a formal is mainly black with a very light pink ribbon. My question is should i find very light pink shoes? It would be really hard for me because i am already tall so i dont want over a 2 inch heel, and i dont want them to be over 60 bucks. So should i find matching light light pink shoes? or what other colors would work? how about gold? thanks so much!

i would go with black. if you go with another color your goin to make your shoes the center of attention. i dont know about but i dont enjoy people lookin at my toes.lol..=]
*~Stephanie~*

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What does it mean when people say I want to bone you or I wanted to bone her?

they want to f***k you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay, last night I was with my boyfriend and he was fingering me..butbefore he fingered me he had handeled his dick and idk if there was cum on it or not..but when i felt it there wasn't really any there.. is there a possibility that i could be pregant?

you got like a 10 % chance maybe even less to get pregnant so dont worry about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok im a 16 year old girl... im not gonna be having sex anytime soon, but am i suppossed to shave "down there" even if no one will see it? and how much are u suppossed to shave?

all of i is your choice if you dont have a partner to be sexaully active with then instead of shavin it all mayb just trim it so it wont be hairy. but otherwise it is all your choice.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is semen and sperm the same thing and if not whats the difference?

basically yes they are.
*~Stephanie~*

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