So lyke omg there's this boi.
Just kidding. Kind of.
There's this guy, one of my best friends. His name is Matt. We're pretty close. Anyway, I'm starting to develop serious feelings for him. We usually get to our French class early, and so he'll walk around the room hugging me or he'll pull me up out of my seat to do the tango. He doesn't really do that to any of my other friends, but my personality is pretty different from my other friends. I'm more spontaneous. Everytime he touches me (a few times per day), my heart flutters, and I get really happy.
The thing is that he thinks of my as more of a little sister, I think. Today, he wrote me a note asking me if I liked someone named Donny (shut up, it was the first name I could think of) because he saw us talking and thought that we were totally like in love or something. Anyway, he misread us. I'm pretty flirtatious in general. He was warning me because this kid has a bit of a reputation and he didn't want me to get hurt.
On MySpace, I took a Top 8 survey, and it asked if I had ever slept in the same bed as number 3 (Matt). I said no, because we haven't, and he messaged me with, "What are you talking about? We sleep in the same bed all the time!!" I think he was just being him, but should I read more into this?
Anyway, I'm wondering if you think that he'll ever like me as more than a little sister/friend, and if you think I should be a little more flirtatious, or if you think he's just an amazing friend.
I love him a lot, it's just a matter of whether it's going to go anywhere. Like, I respect him soo much and he respects me a lot, too, and I know that we'll always keep in touch, but I want to marry this guy.
Sounds kind of desperate, huh?
That's adorable, it really is. I think if you're this confused and curious about his feelings toward you, you need to either confront him about them or be cute and write him a note. Tell him you've been thinking lately that you like him, but you didn't know if he liked you as a friend or more of a little sister. Make sure you two don't date and then break-up, and then the friendship might be ruined or awkward. Just be open with him and I`m sure he will appreciate it.
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about a week ago my ex of two 1/2 years told me that he couldnt be friends with me anymore bc his current gf was getting jealous.
i dont blame her..he was telling me he still loved me and wanted so badly to be together in the future. as my profile says..i am in a serious realtionship but am still in love with the one i view as my soul mate..well..thats him..
tonight he texted me and now we are talking on aim about it. he is currently apologizing for falling in love with her and ceasing our friendship bc of it...well i went to his myspace and read her comment to him and i just busted out crying and havent stopped...she was saying she loved him sooo much and she'd do anything for him and hes her world..it was soooo hard for me to sit there and read that knowing our past together and knowing he still feels the same way about me that i do him.
im not quite sure what i can do to get over him...its been 6 months since we broke up and we havent really talked at all besides a few brief convos about getting back together..ive tired not talking to him but it just hurts worse..does anyone have any suggestions as to how i can stop loving him???
Wow, I`m really sorry, It's hard to get over someone for that long. My suggestion is to try and do more activities such as joining a group or going to a youth group or engaging in sports to get your mind off of him. Try hanging out with friends and I`m sure they can help you forget about him. You could also try keeping an online blog or a journal/diary so you can get your feelings down so you will feel better. Try meeting new guys and hopefully you`ll find someone worth your time.
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ya its katehayes92@aol.com
just leave of the aol ya u kno!!
mk my name is anna.& my aim screen name is.
CURLYPiZZARiNG
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haha sounds good... after lunch he walks upstairs when i do so i try and be walking up when he is haha!!!
haha that always works!
if you have aim or msn.
i`m always here to help =]
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that ball thing would be a good idea but i dont practice with them see im a cheerleader and i just put up the uniforms and wash them and stuff.... but that was a great suggestion
Ha alright, you're welcome.
Then just walk past him a lot.
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Do you play with your handheld console as much as someone would a regular one,or do you just use it on the go or to kill a few minutes here and there?
I play on the regular one when im at the house, and the handheld one on the go, like, long car rides or something.
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kayso, i am going on vacation in about two weeks with one of my good friends and im really excited but at the same time not. cause im not really looking too well on my bathing suit. haha. well, go figure she invited some really good looking kid to go and im kind of self conscious. is there any possible way i can look a tad better in two weeks? febuary 21st to be exact. or am i screwed? haha. if you have any ideas that would be veryy helpful. and by the way i can't do any dieting too drastically and such cause my parents fore me to eat anything they make me or else they get upset.ha maybe some kind of fast working exercise i can do in my house cause its freeziingg outside. and i probably couldnt get a ride to a gym. but if you can help me please do.haha
Try yoga exercises, and stretch. jog in place. dont eat before you goto bed. cut back on caffeine.
if you have a tredmill. run on that for 30 minutes everyday.
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ok so i have a problem i REAALLLLY like this boy named damon... and he works with my brother.... and he goes to my school he is on the varsity basketball team... and he just broke up with his girlfriend.... but the problem is i feel like an idiot if i talk to him... and it just seems like im gonna make a fool of myself and i cant ever think of anything to talk to him about.... i am a girl and im 15 and he is a boy and is 16... he is in my grade and i see him alot in the halls.... and i help out the varsity basketball coach so i see him even more then if i didnt.... and ive even gotten so desperate as to talk to the coach about him.... but he just says that i need to talk to him but i just cant ever think of anything to say without thinking to myself that i am stupid.... PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
and he is this "popular" guy so that makes me feel like even more of an idiot but i really really really like him and no one can seem to help me!!!! and i was hoping that i would b going out with him by valentines day but that isnt gonna happen so
Well, don't rush. I`m shy too, so I know how you feel. Try asking the coach to get you closer to him so you won't feel as weird trying to go up and talk to him.
Or, accidentally throw a ball at his head and run up and apolgize. Ha, it may seem crazy, but crazy stuff works. :] Just be brave.
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I need to find a website that shows a series of charts (like pie charts and graphs etc.) that show polls on beauty...things like the percentage of women recieving plactic surgery etc.
PLEASE HELP ME!!
THANKS IN ADVANCED!
Try google or this website.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3972620/
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there's this guy that i like & hes just a nice person. the thing is, im friends with his friends & so we talk in small groups during class a lot. i talk to them, they talk to me, etc etc. hes been in almost every one of my classes & sits near me in all. we never actually talked. i mean yeah we exchanged words about a class assignment or something, but that's about it. in my one class, a group of people would talk & they would all talk to me yet he wouldn't. im completely ignored by him. i've tried talking about this class were taking & it just didn't work out. i mean, if im talking he'll look at me but will never respond, or join in on the convo, etc. maybe im not social to the extreme, but i do talk to his friends & at least try to make conversation. does he just not like me?? or is it something else??
Maybe he does like you, he's just shy. Try asking one of his friends about something he enjoys, so you can talk to him about that. Maybe you can find something you two have in common, so you can chat about that. :]
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In my history class we are doing a debate project. The topic I was assigned was "Business Men of the Guilded Age: Captains of Industry or Robber Barons?" I have to argue the Robber Barons side. Now, I've Googled this, but I can't find a website that tells you WHY they are considered Robber Barons. I know they used children workers and make people work a lot, and cheated, but I don't know details, and I need them. I was absent from school for a week, so I missed the class discussion, and this is due Tuesday (my teacher is no help). If anyone can help me, I'd greatly appreciate it.
I don't know for sure what you're looking for, but try some of these websites and let me know if I made an impact. Lol.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robber_baron_(industrialist)
http://www.socialstudieshelp.com/Lesson_44_Notes.htm
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Well, I met my best friend one year ago and once we were good friends last year she told me who she liked. I was kind of in shock and suprised, because it was the guy I thought I always sort of liked. I knew him like a year and a half before that. Throughout that whole year I had to lie and talk to her about him and I guess I was okay with it. Now and ever since then she has like him. The beginning of this school year is when I started to get kind of annoyed about how much my friend talked about him. I always felt like the relationship between me and him was different and my feelings for him were strange, because in my mind I never thought I liked him, but I didnt think I didnt like him either. Every now and then my friend would ask me things like boy questions "Who would you go out with?" and other questions, and sometimes I would say her crush, but in a kidding around way. I never knew if I was kidding around or not though. I could tell that sometimes she would be a bit jealous, because I had the guts to talk to him and she didnt. He was my friend, so it wasnt a big deal. Things are kind of still the same, except that I hardly ever talk to this guy or hardly think of him, but when I do it's like all the same feelings come rushing back to me. I always tell my friend that I'm going to tell her about me and his friendship, because she thinks I used to like him, but its more complicated than that. The big question is that, I dont know how I feel, but how does it seem like i feel ? and how do I tell my friend this ?
Honestly, you need to let her know that you've had a lot of mixed feelings towards him, and you didn't know how to tell her. Tell her how you felt awkward around him since you really didn't know if you liked him or not. It seems like you like him, you're just afraid to like him because you're scared of what your friend might say/think/ or do. So, the best thing to do is talk to her, and try and explain to her how you feel and hopefully, she'll understand. If she gets upset, she really wasn't a good friend after all.
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there's this guy patrick and me and him got really close over winter break... too close, we even made out... so then i told him that i didn't like him "like that", he acted really cool about it but then the next time i saw him he called me a fatass a bunch of times, said that he hated me, and threw my cell phone in the snow.
the next day he texted me on my cell and said hey whats up, so how're you, exc.
then after him doing this for about a month he told my friend that he hated me and i was a stuck up b****, and i f*** with people until i get what i want.
but, he still texts me and says that i'm beautiful and stuff... what should i say to him?
Well, he's a dick, that's for sure. Text him back saying, something out of the blue, or bitchy, just to get back at him for all he put you through. Tell him something along the lines of, "Nothing much, with a guy, l8er." & Then if you treat him the way he treated you, it won't be as complex. Just ignore him, he obviously is a player and a liar, and you don't need him in your life. =]
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I gained about 15-20 pounds over the past 3 or 4 months. Now, I am 140, 5'6". I feel so fat! I have tried to lose the weight but I just don't have the motivation. I exercise plenty, but I eat even more, and I still gain weight. How can I find the motivation to eat less?
Try eating healthier foods, so this way, you might either get full faster, or you will eat more but you won't be eating as much calories.
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So i did stuff with my ex boyfriend who has a girlfriend then i told her cuz i felt bad about it but i still really like this guy but anyways she wont let him talk to me anymore now..how can i get him to talk..ive tried emailin he wont write back he doesnt see them cuz she deleted them first or he just doesnt write back he knows my voice on the fone so he hangs up wen he knows its me and hes always with her wen i see him ..i really need to get some answers from him, but i cant get him to talk..any idea?
Hm. Try emailing him again, but this time, tell him how sorry you feel and that you just really need to talk to him. I've never been in this situation, so I honestly don't know what to do. You could always try the infamous three way call attack. Have a friend of yours call him & three way you and tell him to wait, and before he hangs up, tell him how you feel and how sorry you are. Hopefully, he will understand and things will get better.
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Our first date was tonight---me and this girl...I think i'm in love...is that possible or irrational?
It's lust honey, learn to love her, don't rush it.
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i feel like my life is in this huge horrible rut and i don't know how to get out, i'm miserable every day.
first of all I am so stressed out because of school, i have always loved to learn but all of a sudden I have tons of assignments every night and i just can't handle this much, i mean i guess i can because i'm smart, I'm not worried about grades, it's just making me really depressed.
my best friend is moving (i'm a freshman/F) and we are super close. My school is really small and i know i won't be able to make a new best friend.
my parents just split up and it's all very confusing and frustrating and sad
my dog who i have had since i was 4 has cancer and is going to die, and i love him so much
i have no love life, i have never done anything, no kiss, never been asked out. I know i'm a lesbian but only my bff who's moving away knows and i can't tell anybody else just because i know they will be uncomfortable around me.
The only person I like is my teacher, who although she is probably gay and only 22 or 23, she would never be interested in a freshman, even if it was legal, lol
basically i'm bored all the time even though i'm actually pretty busy.
how can i be less depressed?
Well, I`m very sorry to hear about all that you're going through. To start off, organize your nights, so homework isn't as stressful. What I mean is, don't rush it all in, spread it out. For example, do your algebra before dinner, and then work on English and then take a shower and work on whatever else. As far as the best friend moving, I know how you feel. Try meeting new people by joining groups or sports teams. I`m sorry about your parents and your dog. About you being a lesbian, try and find people LIKE you, so it's not as awkward. About the teacher thing, uhm, I don't really know, ha I`m sorry. Try keeping a blog or a journal, it may sound stupid, but once you write down your thoughts, you`ll feel better, or you can try talking to a trusted adult or friend. Or you could take your stress out and jog everyday just to get out of the house and think about things.
I`m sorry, and if you need anyone to talk to. I`m here. Good luck.
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Ok, well, my friend has a vanity where she does her make up and stuff, and i thought it looked really cute. i really want one now, and my mom and dad said it is okay if i get one, but we don't know where to find it. idc if its antiqe because i'm just going to end up paiting it. i want one of the little chairs/seats to go w/ it. does anyone know where i can get one? thanks a bunch!!!
You could try simple stores like wal-mart, you never know what Wal-mart has, they have a buttload of stuff there. If you want something in particular, try ebay to get an idea of what you want, and then take a picture off of ebay to a local furniture store or some store.
Good luck :]
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k well i'm 14/f
i've been around alcohol my whole life, well just at like family parties and stuff. but since about last summer i've been drinking, a lot. at first i started with beers, but i don't really like that. so i turn to like vodka,brandy,scotch,whiskey. idk hard liqours. so like i don't drink a lot, because half the time i'm home and i haven't been able to sleep at a friends for a while because i got in trouble. but like i crave it all the time. if i go to my grandma's i always have a sip of scotch while i'm there. maybe more if i can. but like i just want more but i don't let myself incase my parents can tell or smell it on my breath. and if i'm at a friends house i'll drink till i feel sick. and i don't know i crave it all the time and if it was attainable i'd have it all the time probably..so like am i considered an alcoholic and if i am how can i like fix it so i'm not without going into rehab and stuff
also my oldest brother is pretty much one and my less older brother is becoming one
Well, to the person's response before me, you can end up ruining your life unless you don't try to stop. Try to get addicted to something better and healthier for you. For example, I used to be addicted to chocolate, sadly, so I switched to gum, and it's better. Not exactly as serious as your case, but try switching to something else. Have a trusted friend or adult help keep your hands away from anything alcoholic. Good luck & I hope all ends well. Also, I wouldn't consider you an alcoholic, yet, since you don't DRINK it a lot, you just crave it.
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I am a little anti-social and that is because I am used to getting left out and feeling not accepted. so I was talking to two of the few people i do feel somewhat close to a male and a female that i joke with and talk to often. And, they begin to discuss something that happened in one of the dorms and They said that someone was in lets say the dorm cyrna and i said who was in cyrna and the male said nobody. like I wasn't accpeted and trusted enough to know what they were talking about. Do i take things too personally are what? Because it made me feel like we weren't close at all.
Maybe you took it a little too personal, but that's normal for you since you are a little anti-social. Maybe he only said nothing because it's meant to be kept private?
Try talking to him about it and see how close you two are. or try finding a different group to join to meet and interact with new people.
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