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My friend Alexa and I wer'e haveing a fight over two Actors on TV and we shared our opinions. but Alexa took mine too seriously and now she won't talk to me. So i said our friendship's over, and she won't WONT reply to me!!!!!!!!!!!! What should I do?

Let her cool down for a day. Then try talking to her tell her that you dont want to fall out over two actors because its seems a stupid reason to fall out. Tell her that your sorry for saying our friendship is over you were just mad, If it helps start crying she will forgive you then.

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Im 14/Female and i havnt had my period yet. But i discharge...its heavy (been heavy) since maybe october. Not all the time though. Is it normal for it to be yellowish white? Because i will be in school sometimes and i will discharge and i will always look down to see if i had my period and i dont but its scary. When i do get my period and if im in school will it just come out when it wants to (like people could see it) that would be embarresing! Please Help Ladies! i rate high and give feedback!!!! Thank U

Hi usually girls have discharge for about 1-2 years before attually starting there period sometimes when its heavy and thick, its a sing that your going to start soon. Dont worry about it, just have a pad in your bag so if you start at school your ready for it, The first period sometimes for girls is awful its heavy and you feel like shit, but everyone has a different effect. Most girls when they start the period its heavy for the first month and then it gets lighter as you go alone, Some girls can have it bad and its awful for them, if its so bad the end up having to be put on the pill its that heavy. Yes it would be a bit embarresing, i came on at school one mouth but your friends will all ways help you out so dont worry to much.

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16/f
I'm extremely shy, and I've never had a boyfriend, or a kiss. I want a boyfriend.. should I continue to be shy, do guys think it's cute? Or should I push myself to be more outgoing.. but idk how? I try to be myself, but I get so insecure, I always think people are judging me. I've had a few boys ask me out and everything.. but they were all losers, not to be mean or anything. So it's not like i've never had a chance of having a boyfriend. How do I get a decent guy to notice me?

Just be your self, Get a bit more confidence guys like girls that feel good about them selves it make them shine! Take a bunch of friends to the cinema or to the beach and then you will find a guy. Get all dressed up real nice and you be the best one there.

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hey i'm on the pill and my docter never told me how long it would take until it was effictive.. so i was just wondering if any one could tell me how long until it is effictive and how effective it is???PLEASE HELP

When you take the pill the it will work when your next on your period. It wont completely go it will slow it down the first time.

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I'm 14/f~
I still dont have a 8th grade graduation dress and I dont know any good stores to go to I live in WI in the Milwaukee area and I dont know where to go!! does anyone have any good suggestions!??! HELP PLEASE!! I rate high! thx~

Hi, im not really sure wear you can get some but have a look at different shops they will have some great ones.

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does anyone know where i can get one of those rings that symbolize that you are saving yourself until you are married- i forget what they are called- jessica simpson used to have one, they are silver bands..thanks!

You can search them on google.com or askjeves.com then a whole bunch of sites where you can order or buy them come up and just type in your adress and it will be send to you.

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how can you get rid of cramps ***WHILE*** or BEFORE you are running?? I NEED to know soon! thanks!!!!!!!!!!

Dont eat much because That will make you feel bloted and even worse have a bannana or apple, use a hot water bottle the night before so then when you get up your stomach will feel better. take some paracetamol or what ever you call pain killers over there. Peopl say that exercise helps to make you feel better.

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does it look silly to wear a pink and white tank top with juicy couture ivy league pants and light pink ugg boots if its like brisk spring weather? thnx!

Try wearing jeans. They would go with it. Also wear a demin jacket over your white tank top to keep walm.

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ok hi lets be straight up here:

my friend treats her bf like poo and he treats her like a queen. behind her back, hes real flirty wit me. for some reason. and its been like a month ago since this started, but i love him. and i can barely hide it. i dance with him when shes not there, i dream about him, i daydream about him....its like i seriously need him. i dont know what to do either. hes a better friend to me than his gf is, if that helps...

Just tell him the truth, He might like you if he flirts with you. But the think is that if you asked him out then when she finds out she might fall out with you because friends number one rule dont date friends ex's.

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okay so i spilt some soup on my dad's laptop keyboard! now some keys will not work and i dont know how to fix it! can someone please tell me what to do.. please dont delete this

Hi dont worry turn of the pc. And get a cloth and wipe in between the keys untill all the soup is out, Get an old toothbrush and clean between the keys. the plug the pc back in and see if it works, If it doesnt you'll have to tell your dad it should work.

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okay.. i was talking to my friend yesterday and she told me she thinks she might be pregnant.. At first i thought she was kidding but she was being serious. She said she doesn't want to tell anybody and would be too scared to get a pregnancy test or anything. She thinks she should be on birth control too. She's only 14! what can i do?.. Oh her boyfriend doesnt know she might be pregnant either :/

You cant really do anything but give her support. Is she keeping the baby? or not send me a yes or no to mrs_radcliffe and ill be able to help more. even if shes on birth control she will still have a baby that doesnt do nothing but stop her periods and thats useless.

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OK, well there is this guy who i really really like and he has a gf. I really like him and i want him and his recent gf to break up really bad. Should i tell him i like him or just wait to see what happens?

I think you should just wait and see what happens because he will think less of you if you tell him that you want him to break up with her, he will think your an idiot which your not.

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Im nearly 15 and i havent started my periods and its really annoying because all my friends have! any think i can do to hurry it along?
thank you

Sorry huni but there isnt really a way to hurry it along. My friends started before me and i felt so left out, but when i did start i wanted to go back its awful! i had cramps and everything! Everyone grows and develops at different times. Just wait it will happen.

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When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
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This fight all started on this site called "Kiwibox"...

Okay this fight has been going on for days and I don't know how to end it. See she started this," Hoebags Club" with a couple of other friends of mine and I felt left out and it turns out that she started this club after I responded with a JOKE in another friends journal and I didn't say "j/k"

Well I ranted about it in my Random journal and Things got out of hand and now 2 of the "Hoebags" are calling me a "2 year old" and " A Bitch" and I don't know how to stop the fight. I appologized and everything.

Just ignore them!!!!! You have said your sorry you dont need to say anymore if they start saying stuff about you just drop in a message that your not wasting your time on them and tell them that there acting childish. Dont say your sorry again because it just sounds like your giving up.

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Alright, so I just started going out with this guy and he goes to college about 45 minutes away. He's come to visit a couple times this past month and tonight when we were talking, the whole distance thing was brought up. Like how to do it. How to not be sad or upset about not getting to see each other for a week or so. I love being with him & look forward to seeing him but I just would like to know some ways to make this a little easier. I've never been in a long-distance relationship so this is all new to me.

45 minutes isnt that long away, if you think about it you could get a bus down to each others houses, When you go out together get a lift from your parents one time and his the other time. Talking on the phone can make you feel better and safer that you no hes yours and no one else has go him.

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I've been looking into several ways to remove hair from my legs and underarms. One of my friends suggested using Depillatory Cream. (Such as Nair, Veet, etc) My question is, does this really work? And is it safe for underarms? What brand or product do you suggest? And how long does the hair stay off?

Yes it does work, My friend uses it. Some times it can irrated underarms but i surgest just using a razor for your underarms. Veet is a good one usually the cheap ones dont work as well as the expensive ones. Find the best price of them. It stays of 2-3 weeks But in that time you can see little hairs appearing but there not noticable at all.

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Where can I get Protein drinks in bulk(like 12-24 pacls) instead of individually?

You can order them over the internet! just search the product on google and it will come up with a bunch of sites you can order and receve them from some times they do a free sample.

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Is there a website or something that I can go to to see what time it will start getting dark where I live?

Have a look on tv weather reports they usually have what time the sunrise and sunset is.

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okay, my first love, diego, and i were in love for about a year and a half. we always were together, but we never went farther than kissing.
we have both moved on now, and we havent really thought of eachother as more than best friends for about 6 months..
im now with a new guy named sam. sam and i are really close, but everytime i tell him i love him, diegos face comes to my mind, but i dont know why. diego and i were talking last night, and we were flirting a lot.
now, looking back, i feel REALLY bad, and i dont know if i should tell sam or not. i know its not like i went off and did stuff with diego, but im still not sure if its concidered cheating or not...is it?!

what do you think i should do!?


14/f

You still like diego, and you dont want to hurt sams feelings. Ask diego what he feels for you if he likes you more than friends if he does and he is willing to try again. Then you will have to tell sam, just be honest saying that hes a great guy and all but you still love your ex and he loves you. No your not cheating if your not doing anything e.g kissing or holding hands.

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