Alright, so I just started going out with this guy and he goes to college about 45 minutes away. He's come to visit a couple times this past month and tonight when we were talking, the whole distance thing was brought up. Like how to do it. How to not be sad or upset about not getting to see each other for a week or so. I love being with him & look forward to seeing him but I just would like to know some ways to make this a little easier. I've never been in a long-distance relationship so this is all new to me.
karenR answered Monday April 11 2005, 1:09 am: I've driven almost that far to work everyday.Husband still does. Of course he probably has homework and all but, he should be able to come once a week if he really tries. Of course if he's on a limited income gas becomes a problem now doesn't it.....If you two really want it, 45 min away isn't a big deal. Give it a try and see how it works out. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ldpinknunu09 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 10:29 am: i think you shoould talk to him more and then if you are able to move closer to him then do it! but talking to him will make you seem closer to him i know how hard it is b/c my friends boyfriend is in collage and he lives in flordia and my friend and i live in texas.
mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday April 10 2005, 10:02 am: 45 minutes isnt that long away, if you think about it you could get a bus down to each others houses, When you go out together get a lift from your parents one time and his the other time. Talking on the phone can make you feel better and safer that you no hes yours and no one else has go him.
CaitlinCrane answered Sunday April 10 2005, 4:11 am: i think you should talk to him more about it..and let him know that its really hard for you. but let him know that he can trust you...and that you wont let distance break yall up. tell him you miss him. it usually helps to talk on the phone a lot, it makes it feel more like yall are together... [ CaitlinCrane's advice column | Ask CaitlinCrane A Question ]
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