Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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me and my best friend have been friends for a while we do everything together but here lately she has been telling me that my boyfriend was making out with his ex girlfriend and that he was cheating on me and when i ask him about it and my other friends they tell me that they havnt ever seen him kiss another girl and that he would never cheat on me but because of what my best friend it caused me and my boyfriend to break up so i dont know what to do any more. (link)
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if you know shes lying, then just ignore her. or tell her to knock it off.
or, maybe your bf is the one who is lying.
what i would do is all three of you: your friend, you, and your bf...and get them to argue this case out until one of them confesses about lying. both of them cant be telling the truth, and both of them cant be lying.
if one of them isnt being truthful, its your job to find out, right? anyways, i hope i helped. and i hope everything works out for you. take care. :)
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Hi, I'm sixteen and I'm having the typical boy issues. I can't go to my friends about it cause all they do is bring the topic back to themselves.
So I'm a junior in high school. I've never been kissed and i've never dated anyone. I feel so extremely lame. Some of my best friends have already had year long relationships and had sex. A girl I played on a u16 hockey team with just gave birth to her baby. Its totally not like I want to have sex, I just feel so lame not having even been kissed. Whenever anyone hears that i've never been kissed, they freak out because I'm "gorgeous. I have the whole blonde blue-eyed, white teeth skinny thing going on. I'm a lot of fun too.
I always like guys, they like me at first. Then they fall for my friends and start dating them. Its pretty bad of my friends to be like that but I have always felt the need to be passive about it and not start any drama. The one time I said anything my friends just took the other girls side saying that even though she's dumpped more guys than anyone out of our friends, she deserved it. But that's just me getting sidetracked.
I currently somewhat like this guy named Preston. He is a senior and our seniors only have like 2 more weeks of school left. I met him in the hallway at school one day. Before that i was a creeper who just saw him all the time and thought he was really cute. Since we met, we have been talking more and more, but only about school stuff and summer and college. He is really nice and funny to. Plus he has that whole tall dark and handsome thing going down. We havent spoken in a couple days. I really want him to notice me as more than just the random girlhe met in the hallway. I dont know what to do though. Help? I only have two weeks. Maybe I shouldn't even try anything?
--sorry for any typos, on my iPhone and I'm not too great at typing on it. (link)
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you cant just MAKE him like you. it takes time. and since hes going to college in a few months, it might not be a good idea to try to date him.
but if you really want to, just keep talking to him like normal. just like a friend and stuff. and then maybe a few days before school ends, just ask him if he'd like to hang out over the summer or something normal like that. and it should go good from there. since you're "gorgeous" he should find you very fun to be around and might start liking you. theres nothing wrong with being friends, you know.
i hope it all works out!
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My bf and I havent been going out for too long. but next week, on May 12 is our 3 month anniversary. most couples don't do anything but i really wanna show him i care this time because for our one month and two-month, he did extremely amazingly sweet things like leaving 61 roses in my locker with a note attached to each one, telling me how special i am after we dated for two months (61 days). He did something INCREDIBLY sweet on our one month too. I know that its not a big deal and people don't normally do stuff like that but i really wanna show him I care too since I usually end up sitting there and accepting everything without giving anything back. So what should I do?? Like nothing big but something cute and sweet and extremely unique and funny like he does. something that will make him smile and laugh and he'll remember. thanks (link)
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why dont you think of something you'd really appreciate? think of what he did. what was so incredible about it? what made it so sweet without being too cheesy or cliche?
sorry, i cant give you any ideas.
but when you start thinking like this, it helps you step out of the box and take a shot.
im sure you'll think of something really sweet. and happy anniversary!
:)
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hi, recently i had sex with my boyfriend without a condom but i had been on birth control for a couple weeks and have had perfect use with it. i talked to my doctor and asked if i was pretty much safe just having birth control and she said yes. but has anyone had bad experiences (pregnancy) not using a condom and only using birth control. and not STDs because my boyfriend doesnt have any. (link)
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actually, the only sure fire 100% affective way to not get pregnant is to just not have sex.
even if the smallest chance, your still able to get pregnant while using a condom, on BC, or even having sex while on your period.
sad but true. :(
hope i helped even though i didnt really answer your quesion. ^.^
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Ok
so I'm a sophmore in high school and my boyfriend iss a junior,
we started talking for atleast 3weeks and decided to go out after and i really like him i've never felt like this before but i also feel like something is missing. I've only been going out with him for about 1.5 weeks and maybe we rushed it a little because we talk on the phone comfortably but sometimes in person it gets a little awkward. Also is it messed up to flirt with a friend of yours and hug him (it doesn't mean anything) but he is the jealous type. (link)
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even if it means nothing, its still wrong to flirt with another person if you're already with someone. you can hug other people, and just tell him that your a hugger and you hug everyone!
this is just at the top of my head, but maybe you did rush into things. i knew a guy for a week and he asked me out. we only went out 2 months and then broke up. just goes to show you what rushing can do.
but get to know him a little better in person before you decide to go on into a relationship. just tell him you guys need to know eachother better, and then in about a month or two, try it out again. until then. just have fun!
take care! :)
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ok well my ex boyfriend and i have been best friends for a while then dated and just broke up like a week ago because he doesnt have time for a girlfriend. also because im moving in a month and a half. well the thing that practically kills me how can a person not have time to just call their 'best friend'?? like can't they just make some time?? it is so frusterating because we never talk anymore and im LEAVING FOR GOOD SOON so HOW can he not want to talk to me and realize its important? i know he might be trying to deal with me moving but anyone with a brain should know to spend time with someone whos leaving-at least TALK to them!!! please dont tell me hes hurting or something because what the hell im the one leaving my whole life!! should i just stop even wanting to talk and being good friends with him because it really upsets me that he never has tme for me because everyone in the whole frickin world has time to call one person every couple days. i dont care how frickin hard high school is hes only a freshman and there is no way he has too much hw to even call me every other day or something. i know he just isnt making time because im sure he could call when hes watching tv when he gets home from school. thanks (link)
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maybe he thinks you dont want to talk to him. after the whole "breakup" deal, he might think you're pretty pissed off.
here's an idea:
why dont YOU call HIM???
if its that important, you can call him. ask him what his problem is, and tell him that you're moving and you really wanted to talk to him. if he says hes doing something important, just say that he can sacrifice a few minutes for you. and if he still doesnt wanna talk, well then he doesnt wanna talk.
im sorry, but boys are stupid and thats just the way they are.
i hope it works out for you. :)
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How do you do it? What are somethings to make it like REALLy hott for the guy?!
any techniques?
please help (link)
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making out is a few steps below sex. its a way to show passion for someone.
its basically just kissing for a reaaaaally long time until it gets boring (lol)..no but here:
http://www.ehow.com/how_2044953_make-out.html
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070413131017AAjt2lM&show=7
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
hope i helped! and if you need any more help, just google "kissing tips"
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i like 3 guys and with all of them, somethings stoping us. one of us its age, one has a girlfriend and the other says he doesnt like me. (but theres reason to belivie that he does.) well im really sick of being single and i want to be with someone. and theres always some1 i can be with but thats just the point. i want to be with someone who also wants to be with me. and i want to be with them. not because of how i look but i am in the inside. and i think that that at least 2 of theses guys do. (btw if it helps, we are all friends but like none of them know eachother. (link)
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i suggest the guy with age difference. how much older or younger is he? if its more than 2 years older, forget that. if its more than two years younger, forget that. if its just a few months, then thats ok. my current bf is 3 months younger then me. i used to go out with a guy that was 2 years younger.
but if its older? well, there's nothing really wrong with that! i mean really. basically the difference between older and younger guys is that the older ones are waay hornier. but if you say no, then he should be cool.
but yeah. it all depends on the older and younger perspective. and how many years older or younger. remember: in either case, if its more than two years, just forget it. that could be illegal when he turns 18.
i hope it all works out! take care! :)
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Ok so the situation about Bob has completly changed. Jill found out everything after he went back to her. It had been about two weeks && I couldn't stop thinking about him so I sent him a text message. Well here we are today like a week later && we are talking again. He swears he thought about me while we weren't together && wanted to talk to me but was scared I was mad at him. He swears he will never hurt me this && that ... he has already stayed with me 2 nights at my apartment && I want him to move in && he has said something about it but I dont want to rush things && him jump into one relationship when he really isn't finish with the other. I am really starting to have really STRONG feelings for him && might could be possible that I am pregnant (not sure but it could be possible) I just dont know what to do ... do I leave him alone or follow my heart && possibly have it crumbled into a million pieces if he decides to go back to her? (link)
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i dunno part one to this...but you need to take it slow. wait a few weeks. and if things stay the same, then maybe he can move in with you. you said you think you're pregnant. is it his? if so, he will probably need to move in anyways. if he leaves you for that, he was never worth it.
i hope everything works out, and if there's anything i missed, please fill me in. if you have any questions, im here.
take care :)
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This is a bit long, but you have to understand the entire deal...
I was with living with this guy for 4 years. From the very beginning, we had problems getting along. I was in love with him at first, but over time, frustration built up, and my feelings began to die, and I finally built up the courage to tell him how I really felt (after months of what I thought were obvious hints.)
I finally kicked him out of my house a couple months ago, and at first, I said I wish we could be friends again. But, the moment I was nice to him, he assumed we're getting back together. So I started ignoring him. Then the text messages started. So I told him one day, that I wanted him to leave me alone, I had no interest in getting back together with him, and that it was time for him to move on. I just didn't feel the same for him anymore.
But the texts continued, and then the desperate, sad voicemails, then the emails all saying the same thing (I've changed! Give me another chance! I need you! I love you! What did I do wrong?). He's even gotten his sister and her boyfriend to bug me about it! And over the past month or two, he's just dropped by unannounced 4 times, one time coming in the back door when I didn't answer the front door. I thought if I just ignored him he'd go away, but things are just getting worse.
Aside from him calling me 5 times a day, his sister left me a text saying I had to talk to him because she was worried he was going to kill himself. And now, I think he started reading my email! (I've already changed my password) I never told him the name of a guy I was chatting with online, and I never called him a stalker to his face, but he's brought up both of those things in voicemails. Then, today, I got a notification that I requested my password on paypal, when I never did. That may not have been him, but it wouldn't surprise me if it were.
I'm starting to get really irritated, and a little concerned. I don't want to get a restraining order, because I don't think I'm in physical harm, but it's getting bad and I don't know how to deal with this anymore. Please help! (link)
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you may think there's no harm in this now. he may have mental issues if his sister thinks hes gonna kill himself. things are only going to get worse. i'd recommend a restraining order and QUICK. i also suggest a new cellphone number. i wouldnt move away, thats a bit drastic. but you need to tell him next time he calls or comes over or anything. tell him you leave you alone or you WILL get the police involved. and if he doesnt leave you alone after that? hey, you gave him a fair warning. call the cops and quick if this crap continues! you never know...you may actually be in some harm.
so yes. get the cops involved. do whatever you have to. i really hope you get rid of this psycho. and if you want to, keep me in touch.
take care.
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what's a C section?? (link)
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it stands for Cesarean Section. here's an article on it:
http://www.parents.com/pregnancy/labor-delivery/c-sections/c-sections/
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Does anyone know of any games similar to Babyz, dogz, petz, sims, anything like that for mac? (link)
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i think those games can go on mac. if they cant, i dont know of any. but there is a game called babyz for a nintendo DS. i dunno how much it is, and i dunno how much a DS is, but yeah.
sorry if i didnt help that much, but my friend has a mac and she can play sims 2 on it. so i dunno.
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14/f
ok so this guy tanner is my best friend. we're really close and we went out in september but i broke it off because it started a fight with me and my best friend julie because she doesnt like him.
then he got a new gf after a while and i got REALLY jealous. i figured out i still liked him.
so they broke up a few months later and i was pretty happy. in january, he started to like me again (later i found out he liked me the whole time he was going out with that one girl!)
i liked him too obviously..
but the thing is i didnt want to have a bf so he said he would wait for me. which is like 2 years.
and now i keep having the urge to kiss him because i really like him and idk i just want to like really bad!
but i dont want a bf right now. we dont go to the same school so i was gonna wait till i get a car or he does.
would it be considered slutty if i kissed him but didnt go out with him after? i know he wants to too..we both really like eachother. but i want to wait to go out. he says he'll wait for me.
and the other thing..the friend julie i was talking about before..if i kissed him (it would be my first kiss...) i would want to tell her since shes my best friend. but if i told her, she probably wouldnt talk to me again since she doesnt like him and its pretty wrong to do in the first place.
ugh this is starting to sound stupid as im telling it but i seriously dont know what to do and i cant talk to julie about it!
sorry this is so long! (link)
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why doesnt she like him? he sounds ok to me. this julie chick should just care about your happiness. and if your happy with him, she needs to get the hell over it.
about tanner, just go for it! i cant drive, either. but im still with my boyfriend because we work a system out. my rents drive me over there, his rents drive me over here. its really simple. and it should work out until im able to drive. (because im a little older than him) but yeah. just go out and hang out every weekend or something like that until you turn 16. or he does. whomever is older. :)
i really hope it works out for the best. take care :)
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okay so me and this guy have been dating for about 2 months and usually we dont fight.but like today in class he was being a total ass hole to me for no reason.and like he got his phone taken away and so he makes a comment saying "man my weekend is gna be fun because no one can interrupt me!"
i was like wtf?
thats pretty messed up!
what should i do? (link)
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well,...since he got his phone taken away, you should try talking to him on myspace or something. just ask him what his flipping problem is! boys should never be assholes to girls unless you did something bitchy to him. but you have an excuse. :)) its called pms.
anyways, yeah just ask what his problem is. ask him if hes really happy with you or if he wants to take a break or just go back to being friends. maybe hes losing interest. guys just suck like that. :( sad but true.
or maybe he was just showing off in front of his boys. idk, i wasnt there. you were. you know what he was doing, you just dunno why. so ask him.
i hope it all works out. take care. :)
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for the past couple days ive been having really runny diarreah (sp?) and i dont know why!!
so my question is why do people get it? does it happen if your allergric to certain foods or something? because if so, i dont know what foods im allergric to. or does it mean im getting sick?! please heeelp! (link)
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it probably means you have the stomach flu or something. nothing big. just go get some medication for it and it should clear up in a few days.
take care. :)
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So the other night I got home from a concert and my boyfriend said he "knows for a fact" that I am cheating on him. I work late hours (til between 12am and 3:30am) and go out with friends maybe once a week, and sometimes grab a beer if I get off work early. I have no desire to cheat on him...but no matter what I say he does not believe me, I told him I love him and have no interest, check my timecard for work, etc. Still he thinks I am lying. I really just like to go out and have a good time with friends once in a while. Its gotten to the point where he makes sure I wear plain cotton underwear to work. How can I convince him to allow me to keep hanging out with my friends at night and that i am not cheating? he doesnt drink or like going out so I cannot invite him with, plus he works during the day so when i go out he is just sleeping anyway. I feel like I have said everything to him I possibly could. (link)
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it seems he knows what hes talking about, even if he's wrong. ask him how he "knows for a fact". let him tell you, give your opinions and answers to those "facts" and that should straighten up some things. if not, i would just say "ok, look. if you dont believe me, then you dont believe our relationship is true."
that last part is harsh, yes. but so is not trusting your partner. you trust that he wouldnt cheat on you, he needs to trust that you wont cheat on him. thats all there is to it.
i hope everything works out for you and take care. :)
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i like this one boy. and he likes me. but he said he wants to get to know me better. cause we dont see each other that much other than wednesdays. but other than that not really.what are some ways we can get to know each other better? but i dont wanna make thing awkard for when i do see him...? (link)
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you could always break the ice by asking him to the movies or something. a lot of good stuff is out right now, so it'd be a good time to ask him. and dont call him up and be all "do you wanna go to the movies? like not as a date, but if you want it to be a date, fine. but if not thats cool too. i mean, idc. i just wanna get to KNOW YOU BETTER LIKE YOU SAID!!" and be a ditzy blahblahblah-er. no. just call him and say "soooo theres a good movie i wanna check out. maybe you could come with? its a--" and just tell him about it to get him interested. my bf and i get together every friday after school. and thats where i get to know him and we chat and talk and watch movies at his place. you and dude could do that too! just be creative and cool! it should work out if you both like eachother.
take care! :))
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OKAY.
Well my friend likes this guy who is sort of playing around with her. Somedays he'll flirt with her, somedays he'll be normal, somedays he'll ignore her. He hasn't really shown any interest in her, he does flirt but I think it's just a casual thing.
Anyway, we (We being all her friends) think what he's doing is wrong, no matter how he feels about her.
One day, one of our friends was like "oh my god, you can do so much better. seriously, you're so much better than him. what he's doing isn't right"
Then my friend who I'm asking about/likes the boy spent the whole weekend bitching about my friend, saying it was her descision to like him or not and my other friend doesn't get a say in it. I didn't say anything, but I spent the whole time thinking 'it's not like she was forcing you to not like him...besides, it was a COMPLIMENT'
And now I'm starting to get sick of it all. She acts as if this is a long time boyfriend and takes everything too seriously. She'll spend weeks moping about something really small, spends her time bitching about it, and oh, did I mention it's a guy over the internet she's never met before?
Because I'm a good friend I never said anything. And I never will. However just then...
We were having a 3 way convo on MSN. Me, my friend in question and another friend. She sent him an email and he hasn't replied yet. Me and friend in question are paying out the guy to her to make her feel better. So I said something, and she suddenly quits the convo and is now refusing to talk to me.
WTF?! I honestly didn't question her feelings for him, or even tell her what to do. All I said was this boy needs a slapping (because he DOES if he feels like he needs to play around with girls on the internet :S go get some real piece of ass) and she's suddenly pissed at me, like the other friend who said she can do so much better.
What do I do from here, I want her friendship, but honestly if she's going to be like this... (link)
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since she doesnt even know the dude, she shouldnt even care, let alone get upset about it.
for all you guys know, he could be some really creepy internet stalker dude. be absolutely sure she doesnt say anything to him (ie: where she lives, what her real name is, like first, middle, and last, or even what city.) because if he IS a stalker, he'll try to find her. and im not even going to go into detail about it. but you HAVE to get her to stop obsessing over him. what if hes not even a "he"??
i know that really doesnt answer your question, but my friend did this once and ended up getting stalked and almost raped.
anyways, tell her you mean well. tell her you and your other friend are trying to help her out. has she ever been in a real relationship? maybe shes sticking to this "guy" because she feels alone in the relationship category.
wanna know what i would do??? i'd call her up, apologize, and ask her why she likes this dude. after she names her reasons why, start to ask her questions. for example:
Y: what do you like about him?
H: hes really sweet, he makes me feel loved. and hes toooootally cute. and he just says the sweetest things.
Y: how do you know hes cute? that might not be his real pic. besides, you dont know him, right? (be sure you do this in person so she cant hang up on you or log out of MSN or anything like that,)
H: well, i just know.
Y: how do you know that hes not some creepy old guy?
and so on and so forth. sorry this is so long, but i hope i helped. and if not, sorry. tried the best i could.
take care. :)
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ok so me and this one guy have known each other for about four years. up until the beginning of this month we had been talking every single fday pretty much. we had a good friendship going on.
he has told me plenty of times that he wants to take the relationship up a step, but i tell him i dont want that.
lately we have been fighting a lot and bascially he has told me he wants nothing to do with me anymore. everytime i texted him or called him he is very short worded with me. he even said that i was pretty much gone from his memory.
the thing is, about 2-3 times a week he will randomly text me.
i dont know what to think of it, bc he said he wants nothing to do with me, but then he turns around and starts talking. [btw the conversation doesnt last as long as it used to, but its still something]
i tell myself that maybe he really does still have feelings for me. i dont think its fair that he knows that he can come back to me any time he wants and ill always be there with open arms, bc i really care about him as a friend. but whenever i try to work things out, he gets his way by making a rude comment.
what should i do?
should i just never be the first one to text him and always let him text me?
he already knows ive put in effort to make it work, he knows that i want to be friends so theres no need to remind him anymore.
could he possibly realize that he misses me in his life?
sorry this is so long but id apreciate all the help i can get.
thank you! (link)
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what a prick.
you sound like a nice girl and probably dont need him in your life. but thats not what you wanna hear, is it?
well, i think hes just upset because you dont like him in that way. all boys get like that, two of my friends got like that and got really upset when i didnt like them back. one even went as far as to blackmail my current boyfriend.
anyways. what i would do is start to avoid him. eventually, if he really cares about you, he'll try to call you and get ahold of you. but if that doesnt work, im sorry.
maybe you should tell him that his behavior towards you is getting really annoying and hurtful.
he really doesnt deserve a friend like you. and if i were you, i'd do the avoiding thing? and if it doesnt work, i'd just let it go. if he keeps saying hes gonna talk to you he obviously still cares and doesnt wanna lose you. but you need to get him alone and tell him what you just said up there.
i reaaally hope it works out for you. :) take care.
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Hi,
I'm 14/f, and I have these sudden urges to have sex (i've never done it before and i don't want to) but i feel that i need to do something to my vagina. I have tried masturebating, fingering, touching me up, shower head, but it just doesn't work what can i do to satisfy me????
thank you everyone in advance. (link)
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haha you sound just like me.
i usually go to my bathroom where i have a bathtub/shower...
and then i undress and run the water. when the water gets to my desired temperature, i get into a position where my vagina is open right under the fosset and im on my back and my legs are in the air. it takes a while to orgasm, but when it does its pretty powerful. (BE SURE TO LOCK THE DOOR SO NO ONE POPS IN. IF SO, IT'D BE PRETTY AWKWARD.)
and if you wait for a about 3 to 4 minutes you can do it again. i usually do it about 3 times before i get to my actual bath. and it really helps me out with my "urges".
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