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get him to like me!


Question Posted Tuesday May 6 2008, 12:06 am

Hi, I'm sixteen and I'm having the typical boy issues. I can't go to my friends about it cause all they do is bring the topic back to themselves.
So I'm a junior in high school. I've never been kissed and i've never dated anyone. I feel so extremely lame. Some of my best friends have already had year long relationships and had sex. A girl I played on a u16 hockey team with just gave birth to her baby. Its totally not like I want to have sex, I just feel so lame not having even been kissed. Whenever anyone hears that i've never been kissed, they freak out because I'm "gorgeous. I have the whole blonde blue-eyed, white teeth skinny thing going on. I'm a lot of fun too.
I always like guys, they like me at first. Then they fall for my friends and start dating them. Its pretty bad of my friends to be like that but I have always felt the need to be passive about it and not start any drama. The one time I said anything my friends just took the other girls side saying that even though she's dumpped more guys than anyone out of our friends, she deserved it. But that's just me getting sidetracked.
I currently somewhat like this guy named Preston. He is a senior and our seniors only have like 2 more weeks of school left. I met him in the hallway at school one day. Before that i was a creeper who just saw him all the time and thought he was really cute. Since we met, we have been talking more and more, but only about school stuff and summer and college. He is really nice and funny to. Plus he has that whole tall dark and handsome thing going down. We havent spoken in a couple days. I really want him to notice me as more than just the random girlhe met in the hallway. I dont know what to do though. Help? I only have two weeks. Maybe I shouldn't even try anything?

--sorry for any typos, on my iPhone and I'm not too great at typing on it.


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laynemayhem answered Wednesday May 7 2008, 8:43 pm:
you cant just MAKE him like you. it takes time. and since hes going to college in a few months, it might not be a good idea to try to date him.

but if you really want to, just keep talking to him like normal. just like a friend and stuff. and then maybe a few days before school ends, just ask him if he'd like to hang out over the summer or something normal like that. and it should go good from there. since you're "gorgeous" he should find you very fun to be around and might start liking you. theres nothing wrong with being friends, you know.

i hope it all works out!

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