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should i go out with him?
14/f
ok so this guy tanner is my best friend. we're really close and we went out in september but i broke it off because it started a fight with me and my best friend julie because she doesnt like him.
then he got a new gf after a while and i got REALLY jealous. i figured out i still liked him.
so they broke up a few months later and i was pretty happy. in january, he started to like me again (later i found out he liked me the whole time he was going out with that one girl!)
i liked him too obviously..
but the thing is i didnt want to have a bf so he said he would wait for me. which is like 2 years.
and now i keep having the urge to kiss him because i really like him and idk i just want to like really bad!
but i dont want a bf right now. we dont go to the same school so i was gonna wait till i get a car or he does.
would it be considered slutty if i kissed him but didnt go out with him after? i know he wants to too..we both really like eachother. but i want to wait to go out. he says he'll wait for me.
and the other thing..the friend julie i was talking about before..if i kissed him (it would be my first kiss...) i would want to tell her since shes my best friend. but if i told her, she probably wouldnt talk to me again since she doesnt like him and its pretty wrong to do in the first place.
ugh this is starting to sound stupid as im telling it but i seriously dont know what to do and i cant talk to julie about it!
sorry this is so long!
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why doesnt she like him? he sounds ok to me. this julie chick should just care about your happiness. and if your happy with him, she needs to get the hell over it.
about tanner, just go for it! i cant drive, either. but im still with my boyfriend because we work a system out. my rents drive me over there, his rents drive me over here. its really simple. and it should work out until im able to drive. (because im a little older than him) but yeah. just go out and hang out every weekend or something like that until you turn 16. or he does. whomever is older. :)
i really hope it works out for the best. take care :)
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First off, your friend Julie is a retard. Why the hell does she have a say in anything that goes on with your love life? If she stops being your friend because you date a guy that you like, then she's not worth being friends with. Now..
So you like a guy, but don't want a boyfriend, but you want to kiss him, but Julie will be mad? To top it all off, this boy is willing to wait two years for you to decide that you're ready for a boyfriend?! I'm sorry, but you're 14 years old. Two years is a long time at that age. I would say you have one of two options. Either date him now, or never do it. Don't waste two years of someone's youth just because you're not ready. Which, if you're honestly not ready and not dating, then good for you. That shouldn't affect someone elses life though. Tell him to move on.
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